Topic: dating a potsmoker?
Jtevans's photo
Wed 12/05/07 05:28 AM
Mornin' Moody drinker flowerforyou :smile:



i never make any sense either so join the club,membership is free :wink:

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Wed 12/05/07 05:33 AM
Thanks Jt...

I almost feel human again on my last cup of java...:smile:

Jtevans's photo
Wed 12/05/07 05:38 AM
i only drink coffee when i can't get caffine any other way lol

Puffins1958's photo
Wed 12/05/07 05:40 AM
If it bothers you enough that he smokes, to bring it up here. Then I think that answers your question...right??

Good luck in your decision....only YOU can make it

flowerforyou

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Wed 12/05/07 05:54 AM
That is quite a topic.Society is killing themselves with drugs."Grass" is a weed and not meant for all.Synthetic is killing the young one and the old fools.<and many young Fool's that could do so much for themselves,But get lost.>"Bummer"(Meth is NASTY and is disgusting)


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Wed 12/05/07 06:05 AM
No Drugs are better than the other ,they are only worse,at least "Pot" is natural and is not as addictive as the other ones.I lost a few friends because of them.You can only do as much as you want to in a relationship.Drugs just make it that much harder.

yzrabbit1's photo
Wed 12/05/07 07:40 AM

As to the point that he seems lazy and doesn't show emotion. That means your dating a man. laugh laugh laugh

goddess_110's photo
Wed 12/05/07 07:45 AM
Edited by goddess_110 on Wed 12/05/07 07:49 AM
thank you for the advice, I think I should relax, but like someone on here says, sometimes when you smoke it everyday, you become "to mellow'
good for the stress levels, maybe i should take it up lol

yzrabbit1's photo
Wed 12/05/07 08:29 AM

Any woman that looks like you do, and seems together as you do can have any man she wants so why settle?

goddess_110's photo
Wed 12/05/07 08:40 AM
I guess sometimes if a person is intrinsically good and they have a habit, is this a judgement? I question if i am being to "picky', I realize no one person is going to b perfect, i struggle with this,

AMYGIRL9333's photo
Wed 12/05/07 08:42 AM
You cannot get cancer form pot! grumble

Jtevans's photo
Wed 12/05/07 08:47 AM
Edited by Jtevans on Wed 12/05/07 08:47 AM

You cannot get cancer form pot! grumble




nope but you can get ramroded in prison after the police bust you with it.IMO neither are good

Brittany05's photo
Wed 12/05/07 11:47 AM
I have been in a relationship with a guy who smokes pot, when we first got together he was on probation and failed to tell me the truth of why he REALLY was on probation. Well, when he got off he started smoking again... a lot! I'm a person who smokes every once in a great while (once or twice a year). To be honest I will sound like a hypocrite but I hate weed and drugs! Being in a relationship with someone who smokes a lot brings drama. I would always feel that he was never really listening, daydreaming, ignoring and forgetting... He began to 'hook' people up and doing odd jobs that where a load of bull ****. He now lives in Florida because I kicked him out because of no job, no money for rent, no school, just sitting around or going out doing bull ****. He is now working full time with his brother and bettering himself but I do believe once a pothead, always a pothead.

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:46 PM

God made pot... so how is it bad? Chinese riddle for ya.




LMAO humm God made mountains too but did not expect others to jump off of them. Hummm that is about like the toad that ones are licking there under there belly's in order to get high shshsh beside were do you see that God made Pot and it was not some how crossed between two plants. But hell man made London Bridge too awww lets all go diving off of it shshshs.

sorry had to put my 2 cents in on that one.

Myself each to there own if they want to smoke it then let them if it bothers you stay away from them. bigsmile

AMYGIRL9333's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:47 PM
smokin IT RIGHT NOW!!!

AMYGIRL9333's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:49 PM
Edited by AMYGIRL9333 on Wed 12/05/07 12:49 PM






nope but you can get ramroded in prison after the police bust you with it.IMO neither are good


RAMRODED? THIS ISN'T A 3RD WORLD COUNTRY.. INMATES AREN'T GONNA RAPE ME FOR POT!! JUST CHECK MY @SS TO SEE IF I'M HIDING ANY!!! laugh laugh laugh laugh

SpeedJunkie43's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:57 PM
Edited by SpeedJunkie43 on Wed 12/05/07 01:04 PM

Actually only you can decide that...but I dumped someone because of that reason. Yep he was calm...in fact maybe to calm..he showed no emotion at all!!
Guess what people...pot is addictive!! Yep...I like that..pot is a herb, how bad can it be? Give me a break!! grumble


Leme just say this real quick.. Of all things pot.. it is #1 not addictive. I can say this out of personal experience as I enjoy smoking pot but I have no problem going weeks or months not smoking it. So right there what you said is incorrect.

(Pot's a great plant and in the end truely there's nothing wrong with it, it's purely herbal and when smoked it'll just make ya feel funny for 2 hours(5-6 hours if ingested :-D).

I Myself smoke pot because it helps keep me relaxed and reduce my stress levels. I can't necessarily say it makes me lazy because nothing is more fun than goin on a nature walk with a blunt.

Goddess, If it's a serious issue that you think is affecting the relationship you need to discuss it with him. If he's one of the stoners that sits around all day with no job and with no prospects of getting one, then there's a little problem there(I smoke pot but I still hold down a job so it is possible, people do it all the time :-P). But if that's not the case and he smokes it purely out of habit which bothers you, that needs to be discussed so he knows how you feel about it.

But honestly, weed's probably the least harmful drug you'll find out there(no one's ever died from smoking pot).. ****, better than him doin meth or crack :-P

SpeedJunkie43's photo
Wed 12/05/07 01:02 PM


God made pot... so how is it bad? Chinese riddle for ya.


beside were do you see that God made Pot and it was not some how crossed between two plants



Pot is a plant with a long line of history, there wasn't any interference by humans to create pot. It's been around for thousands and thousands of years.

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 12/05/07 01:08 PM
Noones ever died from smoking pot. Gimme a break. Yeh 409 intrinsic carcinigens. Lung cancer. Can you say bob marley died of it? Hello. Ask a doctor.

Twitch's photo
Wed 12/05/07 01:09 PM
Sorry you're having this problem. You have to decide for yourself what is acceptable to you and what is unacceptable to you about him.