I have been in a relationship with a guy who smokes pot, when we first got together he was on probation and failed to tell me the truth of why he REALLY was on probation. Well, when he got off he started smoking again... a lot! I'm a person who smokes every once in a great while (once or twice a year). To be honest I will sound like a hypocrite but I hate weed and drugs! Being in a relationship with someone who smokes a lot brings drama. I would always feel that he was never really listening, daydreaming, ignoring and forgetting... He began to 'hook' people up and doing odd jobs that where a load of bull ****. He now lives in Florida because I kicked him out because of no job, no money for rent, no school, just sitting around or going out doing bull ****. He is now working full time with his brother and bettering himself but I do believe once a pothead, always a pothead.