Topic: fears from marriage
Kaleijoscope's photo
Sun 06/03/18 09:23 PM

Kale .. are you still looking for a husbandbigsmile waving


Hello pretty! Sorry to be so late :)
To answer your question, i am searching
But no luck yet.
It will come.
And i am patient.

Gs2Awesome's photo
Sun 06/03/18 09:30 PM



My fear of marriage is that I will be cooking and cleaning for someone who does not for the rest of my life.

I feel like guys try to trap me into that sometimes.

but these are commitment of wife to make happy for her husband due to men like eating food from her wife and live in cleaned place
No, friend. If a person likes to eat, he/she should know their way around a kitchen. If a person likes a clean place, he/she should know their way around a vacuum cleaner or sponge.


He's in Egypt, different culture. Good luck trying to instill North American values.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Mon 06/04/18 08:22 AM

Im not anti marriage or anything, but there are folks who think marriage is a permission slip to put someone in a cage as though it would not cause them misery somehow.

I agree but I also know that those cages exist for both.
Married couples should have mutual respect for one another.
Afterall, unless it is an arranged marriage, that person is your best, best friend.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Mon 06/04/18 08:27 AM



Im not anti marriage or anything, but there are folks who think marriage is a permission slip to put someone in a cage as though it would not cause them misery somehow.

I agree but I also know that those cages exist for both.
Married couples should have mutual respect for one another.
Afterall, unless it is an arranged marriage, that person is your best, best friend.
I agree, however, like I said, 'there are folks' who have other idears.

Yes and sometimes we choose poorly.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Mon 06/04/18 08:40 AM





Im not anti marriage or anything, but there are folks who think marriage is a permission slip to put someone in a cage as though it would not cause them misery somehow.

I agree but I also know that those cages exist for both.
Married couples should have mutual respect for one another.
Afterall, unless it is an arranged marriage, that person is your best, best friend.
I agree, however, like I said, 'there are folks' who have other idears.

Yes and sometimes we choose poorly.
You realise this is a thread about what fears you have of marriage, no?
All I did was share mine.
I did not accuse all men of anything.
I also have not married any men who fit what I described Im afraid of but it seems youre trina punish me for a fear Ive shared, by invalidating a fear and suggesting Im simply bad at choosing a spouse, which I havent even done.

You do realize I was agreeing with you, right?
That I was responding to both you're observations and offering insight to the OP to choose wisely?

newsworthy's photo
Mon 06/04/18 11:58 AM

The law has killed marriage.

When it goes wrong the man loses the lot ,even some of his pension.

Divorce is tough on men especially when you work hard just to see it go in a heartbeat.

In a world of equality both people should just have what they earned in a divorce.

Of course you don't want divorce to happen but if it does the man is always the one that gets treated most unfairly.




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Mon 06/04/18 12:00 PM


The law has killed marriage.

When it goes wrong the man loses the lot ,even some of his pension.

Divorce is tough on men especially when you work hard just to see it go in a heartbeat.

In a world of equality both people should just have what they earned in a divorce.

Of course you don't want divorce to happen but if it does the man is always the one that gets treated most unfairly.






This is sexist and untrue

Duttoneer's photo
Mon 06/04/18 12:36 PM

what are fears from marriage ??
because a lot of people advise me not to marry


There aren't any fears, but you both need to agree on a prenup before the marriage when you each have assets, because it is essential they are protected should the marriage fail. With statistics indicating that nearly 50% of marriages today end in divorce, it is an insurance policy that should it happen to you, what assets you had before the marriage are not lost.

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Mon 06/04/18 12:45 PM


The law has killed marriage.

When it goes wrong the man loses the lot ,even some of his pension.

Divorce is tough on men especially when you work hard just to see it go in a heartbeat.

In a world of equality both people should just have what they earned in a divorce.

Of course you don't want divorce to happen but if it does the man is always the one that gets treated most unfairly.





I disagree. Men usually earn more for a start.
What if the wife is a stay at home Mum. Are you saying she hasn’t earned anything?
I’d say childbirth and bringing up kids is an art form which can’t be taught nor should it be degraded.

The man doesn’t usually lose the lot, it’s why it sometimes goes to court so an experienced judge can decide who’s entitled to what.

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Mon 06/04/18 03:35 PM
the main reason for writing this topic
in Egypt especially , a lot of girls some times lie on men and don't appear the true in some thing in engagement period ( called cheat period )
i see the women are lying a lot of time , so how is generated the honesty and sincerity with lying woman ??

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Mon 06/04/18 03:42 PM

the main reason for writing this topic
in Egypt especially , a lot of girls some times lie on men and don't appear the true in some thing in engagement period ( called cheat period )
i see the women are lying a lot of time , so how is generated the honesty and sincerity with lying woman ??


How are they getting on with the Pharos lighthouse in Alexandria.

Last time I was there they had just approved the plans to build a replica, around 4/5 years ago I think.

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Mon 06/04/18 03:48 PM


the main reason for writing this topic
in Egypt especially , a lot of girls some times lie on men and don't appear the true in some thing in engagement period ( called cheat period )
i see the women are lying a lot of time , so how is generated the honesty and sincerity with lying woman ??


How are they getting on with the Pharos lighthouse in Alexandria.

Last time I was there they had just approved the plans to build a replica, around 4/5 years ago I think.

hhhhh and nothing was executed

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Mon 06/04/18 03:53 PM


The law has killed marriage.

When it goes wrong the man loses the lot ,even some of his pension.

Divorce is tough on men especially when you work hard just to see it go in a heartbeat.

In a world of equality both people should just have what they earned in a divorce.

Of course you don't want divorce to happen but if it does the man is always the one that gets treated most unfairly.





why arriving to divorce stage , i want to rest and live my life without problems but the problems came from women who the are minuscule mind so it is according to your choice

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Mon 06/04/18 04:01 PM

the main reason for writing this topic
in Egypt especially , a lot of girls some times lie on men and don't appear the true in some thing in engagement period ( called cheat period )
i see the women are lying a lot of time , so how is generated the honesty and sincerity with lying woman ??

what do they lie about ??

Have you been engaged ashra ??


Serchin4MyRedWine's photo
Mon 06/04/18 04:01 PM
Don't know about the laws where you are from but here in the U.S. there is no need or logical reason to marry unless you plan to have children.

As a married couple you pay more in taxes then if you remain single. And of course it can be quite expense to divorce if it doesn't work out.

Move in together and enjoy the relationship as long as it lasts, if you two get pregnant then you may decide its worth getting hitched.

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Mon 06/04/18 04:14 PM


the main reason for writing this topic
in Egypt especially , a lot of girls some times lie on men and don't appear the true in some thing in engagement period ( called cheat period )
i see the women are lying a lot of time , so how is generated the honesty and sincerity with lying woman ??

what do they lie about ??

Have you been engaged ashra ??



the girl imagine man that she is the best girl in the world and promise him to live happiest man in the world and the man know the manners and impression s of this girl and after wedding he sudden something which not finding in her before , i haven't engaged before but the married people say me it

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Mon 06/04/18 04:19 PM

Don't know about the laws where you are from but here in the U.S. there is no need or logical reason to marry unless you plan to have children.

As a married couple you pay more in taxes then if you remain single. And of course it can be quite expense to divorce if it doesn't work out.

Move in together and enjoy the relationship as long as it lasts, if you two get pregnant then you may decide its worth getting hitched.

taxes
enough taxes , i think the government in here will create the law to pay taxes on my clothes rofl rofl

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Mon 06/04/18 04:33 PM



the main reason for writing this topic
in Egypt especially , a lot of girls some times lie on men and don't appear the true in some thing in engagement period ( called cheat period )
i see the women are lying a lot of time , so how is generated the honesty and sincerity with lying woman ??

what do they lie about ??

Have you been engaged ashra ??



the girl imagine man that she is the best girl in the world and promise him to live happiest man in the world and the man know the manners and impression s of this girl and after wedding he sudden something which not finding in her before , i haven't engaged before but the married people say me it

marriage has its own pressures and rewards . Possibly after marriage expectations responsibilities and yes personalities can change . .. rarely is change one sided .it is easy to misunderstand and hurt one another .. love is not perfect .. communication is not perfect .. marriage is not perfect . The nature of being human is that we respond to our environment . If there is stress .. distress .. unhappiness our behaviour reflects how we cope and respond .

If you are rigid in your expectations of marriage .. and of her .. then yes you may be disappointed biggrin waving

Easttowest72's photo
Mon 06/04/18 04:44 PM
I think people should live together before marriage. Kids add a lot of responsibility that I've found men don't want. My oldest daughter is lucky that her husband helps and is a good dad. I've told my youngest daughter to make sure she is ready to raise a kid alone before she has one, even if she is married.

At my age I would want a prenupt before marriage because of assets.

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Mon 06/04/18 05:18 PM




the main reason for writing this topic
in Egypt especially , a lot of girls some times lie on men and don't appear the true in some thing in engagement period ( called cheat period )
i see the women are lying a lot of time , so how is generated the honesty and sincerity with lying woman ??

what do they lie about ??

Have you been engaged ashra ??



the girl imagine man that she is the best girl in the world and promise him to live happiest man in the world and the man know the manners and impression s of this girl and after wedding he sudden something which not finding in her before , i haven't engaged before but the married people say me it

marriage has its own pressures and rewards . Possibly after marriage expectations responsibilities and yes personalities can change . .. rarely is change one sided .it is easy to misunderstand and hurt one another .. love is not perfect .. communication is not perfect .. marriage is not perfect . The nature of being human is that we respond to our environment . If there is stress .. distress .. unhappiness our behaviour reflects how we cope and respond .

If you are rigid in your expectations of marriage .. and of her .. then yes you may be disappointed biggrin waving

hhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
if i may be disappointed , you will pay fine to me laugh laugh