Topic: is it true??
taylorfan's photo
Tue 12/04/07 10:23 AM
Is it true that men give love for sex and women give sex for love??



(i think so)

no photo
Tue 12/04/07 10:25 AM

Is it true that men give love for sex and women give sex for love??



(i think so)


ive had male and female friends, who will have sex with a different girl every friday and saturday night (clubbing night) and theres no love there. so no

Stockdog6's photo
Tue 12/04/07 10:26 AM
DoI hear a huge amen brother on that one?

Puffins1958's photo
Tue 12/04/07 10:27 AM
I think...

Men and women see sex differently that's for sure. Women (at least the women that I know) generally have to have some sort of an emotional attachment before making love to someone. Men...just need a woman. They generally don't want all the emotionals that go with it....

Just what I think.......

whispertoascream's photo
Tue 12/04/07 10:28 AM


Is it true that men give love for sex and women give sex for love??



(i think so)


ive had male and female friends, who will have sex with a different girl every friday and saturday night (clubbing night) and theres no love there. so no


Yea, I hear of my male friends having one night stands all the time. So no I can not say I believe that statment is true.

bgeorge's photo
Tue 12/04/07 10:28 AM
nope

no photo
Tue 12/04/07 04:44 PM
yeah pretty much

generally speaking, that is.

coco56's photo
Tue 12/04/07 04:47 PM

nope
nice pic bygeorge

Dragoness's photo
Tue 12/04/07 04:49 PM
For the most part, not including all men, men understand the act of sex purely for the physical pleasure, without necessarily having a connection outside of the physical act. Women tangle feelings into the act more often. Not saying all women either because there are ladies who just do it and do not need a connection. Psychology behind it is different for men and women after the act also.

no photo
Tue 12/04/07 07:16 PM
Not always, my rebound friend didn't get it, and I didn't either. I wanted love/intimacy/closeness, she thought all I wanted was sex until I decided to go back to my soon to be ex wife. I am not going back to ex wife, and as much as I miss my rebound friend I ain't going back to her either. I am not emotionally capable at this time.

unsure's photo
Tue 12/04/07 07:21 PM

Not always, my rebound friend didn't get it, and I didn't either. I wanted love/intimacy/closeness, she thought all I wanted was sex until I decided to go back to my soon to be ex wife. I am not going back to ex wife, and as much as I miss my rebound friend I ain't going back to her either. I am not emotionally capable at this time.

Sorry I have to use you BUT this was a topic the other night about being seperated!! Should you date while you are seperated?? Right here is your perfect example of why you should not date while you are seperated!!!
I hope I didn't offend you in any way...but that was a BIG topic and when I seen what you typed...I had to make a comment!! flowerforyou

bgeorge's photo
Tue 12/04/07 07:24 PM
Edited by bgeorge on Tue 12/04/07 07:24 PM


nope
nice pic bygeorge


thanks coco and same to you...was that a freudian (sp) slip (bygeorge) and you want me to leave?????laugh sad laugh

Jess642's photo
Tue 12/04/07 07:33 PM
Hmmm... SOME men and women may do that...

But not people who are wanting a healthy balanced long term relationship.


Beachfarmer's photo
Tue 12/04/07 07:42 PM
don't think the stereotypical departments are valid anymore

women these days own their sexuality more than ever, and there is

more acceptance of men showing their emotion



There are plenty of men who desire true emotional connection, and
plenty of women who just want to get it on.

no photo
Tue 12/04/07 07:46 PM
I think it depends on the woman, the man and the relationship. I know I myself have had sex for both reasons :tongue:

no photo
Tue 12/04/07 07:51 PM
Hey unsure, my exploits are sometimes used as "what not to do" examples all the time. OK not all the time. I know now I have no business trying to connect with anyone right now. The divorce will be final in Jan 08, here in Michigan it takes 6 months. Even after its final, I don't think I will be ready. Flirt and giggle on line ? Sure. Coffee with a female friend, why not? Anything "real"? Not for for a long while.

joshyfox's photo
Tue 12/04/07 07:55 PM
I know that I for one Think sex without that connection is meaningless...

Maybe I'm just weird for a guy...

unsure's photo
Tue 12/04/07 07:56 PM

Hey unsure, my exploits are sometimes used as "what not to do" examples all the time. OK not all the time. I know now I have no business trying to connect with anyone right now. The divorce will be final in Jan 08, here in Michigan it takes 6 months. Even after its final, I don't think I will be ready. Flirt and giggle on line ? Sure. Coffee with a female friend, why not? Anything "real"? Not for for a long while.

michiganman...I hope I didn't offend you in anyway. There was a topic on it and when I seen your comment I jumped on it. I wish you luck and trust me...I do know how difficult it is to get over a divorce. I do believe that everyone should heal and put the relationship in the past BEFORE they start dating someone else. Why bring someone else into the nasty divorce and end up hurting anyone else. Good luck and I wish you much happiness flowerforyou