Firm control shape wear.

I think they are the shape of things to come!

I have a bit of a tum but wouldn't go down that road.
take me for who I am or not at all!
Maybe I should change my attitude, been here for ages

fair play to someone who is really self conscious!
Kinda same as wearing a wig!

Damn.

Does this mean our date is off?

Ya change your attitude.


No not the same as any wig! That's on your head and the other is on your lower Body.

Well they make chest wigs so just need one for the tummy

I guess if you had a medical reason to wear one.. well.. you kind of had to. But I would have the Doc exhaust all other possible options first.

We had a guy years ago on the job site who appeared to be wearing panties.. it was noticed by one of the concrete contractors when this guy bent over. I say " appeared" because it was never confirmed.. didn't have to be.. the damage was done.

Needless to say he was.. ruined... practically throw off the construction project. I never seen him on any other site after that.

so guys.. be careful what you wear.

I don’t see why women would even wear them. I don’t know how women feel about men, but the way I feel about women is I like them to be natural. The only reason a tummy would be a turn off for me is as an indicator of bad health. But if they are in good physical health then I could care less if they have a tummy. In fact I would start to find it attractive because it is part of them, just as I would likewise become more and more attracted the skinny body of a skinny girl. I think it is just easier to make fun of someone with a tummy and that is where the problem lies. Similarly, several times I have been subconsciously turned off by a woman I was dating because she looked strange and then realized it was because she started wearing makeup. I honestly am turned off (sexually) by makeup, it makes me think of a duck decoy.

That is a nice reply Arfvedson! Men that like a woman to be natural is probably a small percentage. Many on dating sites view profiles daily just to see photos. Many like the model figure and beauty by make-up.
I'm not saying women don't like viewing, or they don't. Like make-up cause many do.

Make up has to be removed sometime, if you're in committed relationship and the man will see you as is.

I t is never ok to make humor about anyones natural looks! I agree!

being in my mid 50th
I'm definitely not looking or expecting flat stomach
hoping she is not looking or expecting hard body .. we are what we are
no customs needs

Models used to use glad wrap.. I think in America it is known as cling film .. would anyone like my help to bind up

In this day of supposed equality, why are we talking about different expectations for men and women? Where is this equality??? Women wear skirts and pants; shouldn't it be accepted for a man to do the same? If a man wears something to tighten his stomach, why would that be any different than a woman wearing a similar undergarment?

I use a kidney belt when dirt biking, does that count ?

It holds my guts in tight and keeps my back straighter, and it feels so good to take it off at the end of a big ride.

It's deceiving if you ask me.
Other than medical reasons of course.

HI

I tend to shake my head in amusement
whenever I hear of ANYONE wearing a
girdle for vanity reasons.

I see it, as a living, breathing example of
a blivit.

If they're already my friend or spouse, I wouldn't really feel that sensitive about it unless it was part of some change in the overall relationship and their personality.

If they're my date, I would feel weird about it.
Especially if I met them online. I've dated women from the internet who only ever wore black in their photos, posted only glamour shot/poses.
Go out with them, start fooling around, next thing I feel is like they're wearing a wetsuit, the stuff comes off and all of a sudden it's a completely different person, they've shed their costume.


Exercise takes time.
And the older you are, the less effective it is.
Other than that, there's going to be a huge difference in personality between a 30 year old guy insecure about his non 20 year old physique because he was captain of the high school football team and that was the highlight of his life, and a guy that found it cheaper to buy a 40 dollar girdle so he doesn't have to spend money on new pants, and a 57 year old guy with a bad back and needs posture support.

Problem comes when you get chatting to someone online and they have described themselves as thin or average body size.
You get to meet them and passion rears it's head and when they get undressed they hit the floor on both sides of the bed

I would not like to be deceived or deceive another ...
my body is my mine ... same goes for all the makeup ...
a person your in a relationship with has to like or love...
you as you are ...