Topic: What are the signals females give out?
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Tue 04/24/18 05:32 PM
Aussie .. one of the biggest signs is when a woman makes an excuse to touch a man ..,

Online ., it is difficult to know when someone is touching your photo ., perhaps there should be an emoticon for ., I just accidentally touched you biggrin

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Tue 04/24/18 06:17 PM
What about stalkeks who views you again and again!!! scared

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Tue 04/24/18 07:25 PM

Female signals? Hhhmmm when we don’t answer a message, when we ignore compliments and when we say no thanks are clearly negative signals. Now going to the positive maybe if we message first, maybe when we give subtle hints like laughing even when the guy is not funny and maybe saying we miss the guy shades


great answers. Every gal is different, but I think your answers are mostly universal. I also tend to have difficulty making eye contact if I find someone 'breathtaking', but that doesn't happen often.

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Wed 04/25/18 12:06 AM
Edited by MrBeeKeeper on Wed 04/25/18 12:19 AM


From dating.com... hope this helps biggrin -------------

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Bottom line: She wouldn’t offer to spend time with you if she didn’t like you. Accept her invite and tell her you can’t wait to meet in person.



Excellent .. thanks Blondey! .. didn't quote everything .. would've taken too much space ..
Have noticed that there is also a difference between the nationalities .. American girls tend to be much more opened and straight to the point, than others. Sometimes they say, what they're interested in or not instead of playing those guessing games at all, lol
European girls usually give out pretty clear signals too, which are fully understandable, if you're not completely blind oc., but Asian women - they act in their mysterious ways .. no signs .. no word or whatsoever, sometimes just ignoring you out of the blue for days .. but at the same time still keeping up your hope
..winking

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Wed 04/25/18 12:14 AM



From dating.com... hope this helps biggrin -------------

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Bottom line: She wouldn’t offer to spend time with you if she didn’t like you. Accept her invite and tell her you can’t wait to meet in person.



Excellent! .. didn't quote everything .. would've taken too much space ..
Have noticed that there is also a difference between the nationalities .. American girls tend to be much more opened and straight to the point, than others. Sometimes they say, what they're interested in or not instead of playing those guessing games at all, lol
European girls usually give out pretty clear signals too, which are fully understandable, if you're not completely blind oc., but Asian women - they act in their mysterious ways .. no signs .. no word or whatsoever, sometimes just ignoring you out of the blue for days .. but at the same time still keeping up your hope
..winking
perhaps they have read to many articles that say men like the chase and not to be overly keen .. keep him wanting more .. I don't believe in that myself .. men need some reassurance of your interest .

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Wed 04/25/18 12:40 AM
Edited by BigSky1970 on Wed 04/25/18 12:42 AM
I think 4 and 5 on that list seems to hold truth. We live in a different time, where both sexes are on the chase. In the old days, it was always up to the man to do the chasing.

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Wed 04/25/18 12:44 AM


Female signals? Hhhmmm when we don’t answer a message, when we ignore compliments and when we say no thanks are clearly negative signals. Now going to the positive maybe if we message first, maybe when we give subtle hints like laughing even when the guy is not funny and maybe saying we miss the guy shades


great answers. Every gal is different, but I think your answers are mostly universal. I also tend to have difficulty making eye contact if I find someone 'breathtaking', but that doesn't happen often.



I have the same difficulty making eye contact, if the woman I am with is "breathtaking".

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Wed 04/25/18 01:00 AM
Just I waiting

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Wed 04/25/18 02:15 AM

I think 4 and 5 on that list seems to hold truth. We live in a different time, where both sexes are on the chase. In the old days, it was always up to the man to do the chasing.


Men might say that they like being chased but, biologically, they are wired to do the chasing and they enjoy it. The thrill of the chase. In my experience, whenever I chased a man I found attractive, he ran away.

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Wed 04/25/18 02:52 AM
You girls need to be more obvious, guys like violent sports and explosions and shark fishing, not calligraphy. surprised

So many times I finally worked something out weeks or months later, while ruminating over what the hell happened. I'm not a mind reader or code cracker !

Signals are for exclusivity and secrecy, not useful for indicating to a potential partner that you have interest in them or whatever.

Even when we know about a signal, its meaning is still uncertain: what
ankle chains - is left or right free or taken ??????
No wedding / engagement ring - I don't care if you are in a defacto or a lesbian, no ring means you are free to ask out; don't blame me if you don't like it !
Getting close and cosy but that's it - do you want me, or what do you want ??
Acting flirty or jealous while with - do you want me, or what do you want ??

Straight out words usually work; no ambiguity or time lost in interpretation. drool

Finger point signals may work for noisy places: eye - heart - you;
but then a woman may misinterpret: "you got a sore eye and indigestion and its my fault ?"

And the OK sign with finger in and out of it may get to the point quickly, and also get you a slap and evicted. slaphead

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Wed 04/25/18 03:24 AM

Aussie .. one of the biggest signs is when a woman makes an excuse to touch a man ..,

Online ., it is difficult to know when someone is touching your photo ., perhaps there should be an emoticon for ., I just accidentally touched you biggrin

By touching a man does that mean just on the arm, shoulder or putting her hand on his knee if they are sitting close.

I agree with you about the online thing.. it's hard to know then. But the sending of emoji's online is an easy way to get a guys attention.

I was mainly meaning in a personal situation, I think that's when most guys miss any subtle signals.

Thanks to all who have replied.

I'll do my best to look for any signals both online and in person..

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Wed 04/25/18 05:55 AM


Aussie .. one of the biggest signs is when a woman makes an excuse to touch a man ..,

Online ., it is difficult to know when someone is touching your photo ., perhaps there should be an emoticon for ., I just accidentally touched you biggrin

By touching a man does that mean just on the arm, shoulder or putting her hand on his knee if they are sitting close.

I agree with you about the online thing.. it's hard to know then. But the sending of emoji's online is an easy way to get a guys attention.

I was mainly meaning in a personal situation, I think that's when most guys miss any subtle signals.

Thanks to all who have replied.

I'll do my best to look for any signals both online and in person..
Aussie if she puts her hand on your knee .. I think it is safe to say she wants your sugar lumps .. laughing .. some women are not as bold and will perhaps touch your arm or hand first .. either way .. it is an attempt to bond .. unless of course it is completely accidental lol. It cannot be viewed in isolation and needs to be read with her body language.

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Wed 04/25/18 04:31 PM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Wed 04/25/18 04:33 PM


Aussie .. one of the biggest signs is when a woman makes an excuse to touch a man ..,

Online ., it is difficult to know when someone is touching your photo ., perhaps there should be an emoticon for ., I just accidentally touched you biggrin

By touching a man does that mean just on the arm, shoulder or putting her hand on his knee if they are sitting close.

I agree with you about the online thing.. it's hard to know then. But the sending of emoji's online is an easy way to get a guys attention.

I was mainly meaning in a personal situation, I think that's when most guys miss any subtle signals.

Thanks to all who have replied.

I'll do my best to look for any signals both online and in person..

If you're not in a relationship together it would be a fleeting, brief touch on the arm or shoulder. I doubt a woman would put her hand on a man's knee if they barely know each other and/or aren't serious yet. I sure as hell wouldn't. When exclusive and it's clear we both have feelings -in other words: gotten to the next level- then yes, I may do such things.

It can be helpful to pay attention to fleeting touches. I won't do that with a man I don't feel it with. It's something that just happens when you like someone and feel attraction. It's not premeditated, unless you're dealing with a woman who's playing / acting.
When it's natural, you'd only do this when you like a man.

And the other way round, observe how she reacts to your and your vicinity and possible touches.
I've had it happen that a guy put his hand on my knee on the first date and I felt my own muscles tense and I moved my leg away from him. It was reflex. He quickly removed his hand. Now I had instinctively already felt he wasn't a right match, hence my body automatically rejected his touch. Had I liked him, that wouldn't have happened. I must add to say that putting a hand on a woman's knee on a first date is too much. Unless you really really hit it off.

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Wed 04/25/18 04:39 PM
I'm a man and I know that sometimes, a woman might be shy about making her interest known. She'll be polite, smile a bit, but that's all.

If you try to approach her and she runs away, avoids you, not because she's shy but because she doesn't find you appealing, you'll sense the avoidance.

Conversely.

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Wed 04/25/18 04:40 PM
Some female Octopus strangle their mate once the deed is done, then eat them.

So I’m glad I’m not an Octopus.

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Wed 04/25/18 04:44 PM
She wants to check your pulse .. when she is off duty laugh

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Wed 04/25/18 04:46 PM

Some female Octopus strangle their mate once the deed is done, then eat them.

So I’m glad I’m not an Octopus.


ill So glad I'm not either laugh

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Wed 04/25/18 04:46 PM

She wants to check your pulse .. when she is off duty laugh

My pulse would be racing and god knows where all my blood would gowaving

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Wed 04/25/18 04:48 PM


She wants to check your pulse .. when she is off duty laugh

My pulse would be racing and god knows where all my blood would gowaving
code blue biggrin tongue2

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Wed 04/25/18 05:06 PM
What are the signals females give out?


Most of the women I knew when I was single used STOP signs not signals. explode