I read in a previous post where Blondey111 said men often miss read female signals and I think most guys would agree with that..

So girls.. what are they. What are some of the things you do?

I misread signals too, for me it seems to be a lot!

After a little over a year of giving out signals, having them be nice back and discovering that that's all they were really doing... just being nice I've pretty much given up on sending out anymore signals. At least here that is... for now.

Hitting him over the head with a club. Nah, that won't work either. Still too subtle.

Yeah .. the guys probably need a proper earthquake to wake them up .. personally have gotten a "kick in the butt" recently .. it was really sweet .. but does it mean something? .. still wondering ..

if you yell "i like you stooopid" at the same time it might just work

Sounds like you're saying you have to be aggressive in order to get through to a man?

If it takes hitting someone over the head and calling them names like stooopid to get him to notice me or acknowledge that I'm crazy about him.... Then I don't want or need him! I'm not a fighter or an aggressive person,

I prefer to call someone sweetheart or silly... never stooopid, and unless it's a pillow... I don't hit either, lol.

Female signals? Hhhmmm when we don’t answer a message, when we ignore compliments and when we say no thanks are clearly negative signals. Now going to the positive maybe if we message first, maybe when we give subtle hints like laughing even when the guy is not funny and maybe saying we miss the guy

hi

Cool. I only got kinda positive feedback then, did I?

Signals...why play games about it?

If you like someone just tell them
I Like You

Signals are something that is done in high school, maybe college.
While empathy exists, I don't read minds.

Every date, every relationship I have had involved actually telling the other person
"I like You"
"I want to spend some time with you"
Eye to eye and personal.

Signals make something very simple complicated.
Why do it?
Are you that afraid of rejection?

When you talk to me personally and tell me you're interested in me,
believe me, I notice.

If you follow me around fluffing your hair and batting your eyelids I'm gunna think who is this weird chick?

She leaves milk and cookies in his pit

From dating.com... hope this helps

Signs a Girl Likes You Over Text (#4-6)


Texting is the main form of communication these days. In fact, some people get annoyed when someone calls them without first texting to see if they’re available. Texting is easy, it’s fast, and it’s fun. But how do you know if those fun texts from your classmate or coworker are hinting at something more? Here are three things to look out for:

4. She Sends You Lots of Cutesy Emojis


Women tend to be more emotional creatures than men. They’re effusive in their happiness! If your text interactions are peppered with hearts and smiles and winks, chances are she’s trying to drop you some hints. By using emojis, she’s not outright saying anything, so she isn’t risking rejection, but it definitely means something. If in doubt, send some cute emojis back and see how she responds.

5. She Seems to Check In With You More Than is Totally Necessary


Texting is great for checking in with each other and quick little bon mots. If she’s frequently sending you cute pics or texts, what she’s really saying is she wants to connect and bond more.

girl-on-phone

Obviously, if she’s sending 17 unrequited texts a day, something is off. But if it’s more than strictly necessary without going overboard, she just wants to talk to you more. Start sending her a few more texts than normal and see if she responds to them as well. If so, you might have a burgeoning relationship on your hands!

6. She’s Constantly LOLing, LMFAOing & ROTFLing


Sure, you may be funny, but if she’s laughing after almost every comment, she could be flirting with you. Women show affection by sharing emotions. With just words in a black and white text space, it’s hard to convey emotion via text, so she LOLs to show that you’re affecting her emotionally. She’s building you up to make you feel good. She wants you to know you make her happy. Perhaps something else that will make her happy is you asking her out!

Signs a Girl Likes You Online (#7-9)


The line between real life and online life continues to blur. You probably socialize with most friends both in person and online, but maybe there’s someone you only know online. Perhaps they’re a Facebook friend of a friend. Or they could be someone who follows you on Instagram. When you’re interacting with them, it’s hard to figure out if they’re flirting with you because you have no baseline for their behavior. However, if they show any of these three signs a girl really likes you, I’d bet on yes:

7. She is Omnipresent


She is your buddy’s old college friend and friend requests you on FB. She starts liking your posts or giving you thumbs up emojis. Before you know it, she’s following you on Instagram or sending you Snapchat vids. Then she reaches out over LinkedIn. If she keeps trying to learn more about you, you’ve piqued her interest.

signs-girl-computer

As long as she’s not spamming you or inserting herself into conversations she doesn’t belong in, you’ve got a fan. Now is a good time to start looking at all of her accounts and learning about her.

8. She’s Taken the Time to Get to e-Know You


For most of us, our likes and dislikes are all out there on social media. Pictures of you hiking, posts about which candidate you support, or even who you follow on Twitter are all part of your being. If she’s interested in you, she’ll want to find things you have in common so she can discuss them and bond. Did she see that you went to Chile and researched interesting foods there to ask you about them? That’s an obvious sign a girl likes you.

9. She Wants to Meet in Real Life


Sure, it’s fun to talk online and chat, but if she suggests meeting up off the computer, she wants to see if this online chemistry translates into real-world fireworks. It may be straightforward like, “So, I’ll be in your neighborhood next weekend. Want to meet up?” Or it could be more subtle like, “OMG, I love Paddy’s Pub! Let me know the next time you all go and I’ll catch up with you!”

Bottom line: She wouldn’t offer to spend time with you if she didn’t like you. Accept her invite and tell her you can’t wait to meet in person.

I would message a man personally online, if I had a real interest.

In person , I would say hello and start up a conversation of some kind, to let him Know I. Am interested in him. Then the ball is in his Court.

I don't play games, I m forward. I t has gotten me great dates, online and off.

I have a new date coming Friday! I start as friends, platonic.
So, the man has to agree to that. And many will not and I pass them men up.
Some gentlemen still out there, a Lady has to search.

I think the emoji comment may hold some truth especially :

Hi

Misread... does that include missing completely?
Women are far more subtle, our clues and hints are reading between the lines, which is not a problem for women, that's why we do it. But men typically don't get these messages.

When she says she really really loves something of a particular make/brand/type/quality, thinking that buying 10 similar ones from a cheaper variety is going to make her much happier than 1 from the more expensive ones. Prolly meant well, but in the end she's getting 10 things she doesn't like -nor want- and none of the ones she loved so much!

If she says "It's fine, we're good." saying "Okay" and going about your day, forgetting all about it. Better would be to sense it's not fine and say, "Okay, let's sit down and talk about this, hun. Tell me what's bothering you?"

if you find your smelly, dirty socks or boxers in your bed, chucking them back on the floor where she picked them up from to begin with. Maybe get the message she'd like you to throw your dirty socks & clothes in the laundry basket

Oh, and if you come in the front door and find the vacuum cleaner right in there in the hallway, she likely doesn't mean for you to simply step over it but hopes you're going to clean the floors

Crystal you are hilarious ., I think Aussie guy wants clues about online romantic signals that a woman is interested in a man