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Topic: Love doesn’t hurt; loving the wrong person does.
NcDuke16 Joined Tue 04/10/18 Posts: 1	Tue 04/10/18 02:31 PM
Why do we have to hurt in order to know, fall in order to grow, lose in order to gain, because all of life’s lessons are taught through pain?

MK2 Joined Sat 07/05/14 Posts: 1540	Tue 04/10/18 02:57 PM
welcome to the real life

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Tue 04/10/18 04:00 PM
Why do we have to hurt in order to know, fall in order to grow, lose in order to gain, because all of life’s lessons are taught through pain? surely you dont mean that. A rainbow after the rain is not that painful

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15022	Tue 04/10/18 05:36 PM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Tue 04/10/18 05:37 PM
Love is freely given. The person you love does not have to give it back to you. It is their choice to do it or not. That's the chance you take wnen you love someone.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 04/10/18 05:50 PM
Why do we have to hurt in order to know, fall in order to grow, lose in order to gain, because all of life’s lessons are taught through pain? surely you dont mean that. A rainbow after the rain is not that painful .. it is if I just finished washing my car..lol

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Tue 04/10/18 06:11 PM
Why do we have to hurt in order to know, fall in order to grow, lose in order to gain, because all of life’s lessons are taught through pain? surely you dont mean that. A rainbow after the rain is not that painful .. it is if I just finished washing my car..lol

tombraider Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 5042	Tue 04/10/18 06:19 PM
When it rained was the only time my car got washed ..and a freakin rainbow..well that's a win win..sometimes being lazy can have it's rewards..and no pain ..just gain ..

90was Joined Sun 02/11/18 Posts: 80	Tue 04/10/18 06:42 PM
Going through the pain builds character. When it stops, you find what you seek. When it doesn't it wasn't meant to be I guess. Find something else to give you time and effort to.

Charles1962150 Joined Tue 03/13/12 Posts: 3403	Tue 04/10/18 07:42 PM
Why do we have to hurt in order to know, fall in order to grow, lose in order to gain, because all of life’s lessons are taught through pain? surely you dont mean that. A rainbow after the rain is not that painful True. It's the trip to the rainbow that hurts. And worst of all, most folks never find the end of the rainbow. Much less the pot of gold.

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24713	Tue 04/10/18 07:49 PM
"Love" doesn't hurt. Expectation can hurt. Loss can hurt. Possession can hurt. Etc... ....but love does NOT hurt.

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Tue 04/10/18 09:14 PM
"Love" doesn't hurt. Expectation can hurt. Loss can hurt. Possession can hurt. Etc... ....but love does NOT hurt. this

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Wed 04/11/18 01:44 AM
"Love" doesn't hurt. Expectation can hurt. Loss can hurt. Possession can hurt. Etc... ....but love does NOT hurt. Truth!

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Wed 04/11/18 01:46 AM
Why do we have to hurt in order to know, fall in order to grow, lose in order to gain, because all of life’s lessons are taught through pain? surely you dont mean that. A rainbow after the rain is not that painful True. It's the trip to the rainbow that hurts. And worst of all, most folks never find the end of the rainbow. Much less the pot of gold. Im shattered Charles

Charles1962150 Joined Tue 03/13/12 Posts: 3403	Wed 04/11/18 02:13 AM
Why do we have to hurt in order to know, fall in order to grow, lose in order to gain, because all of life’s lessons are taught through pain? surely you dont mean that. A rainbow after the rain is not that painful True. It's the trip to the rainbow that hurts. And worst of all, most folks never find the end of the rainbow. Much less the pot of gold. Im shattered Charles I'm sorry. I only speak from my life and what I've seen during it. What I've seen in my life isn't true to everyone else.

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Wed 04/11/18 02:24 AM
Why do we have to hurt in order to know, fall in order to grow, lose in order to gain, because all of life’s lessons are taught through pain? surely you dont mean that. A rainbow after the rain is not that painful True. It's the trip to the rainbow that hurts. And worst of all, most folks never find the end of the rainbow. Much less the pot of gold. Im shattered Charles I'm sorry. I only speak from my life and what I've seen during it. What I've seen in my life isn't true to everyone else. Ok thanks for making me feel better

Larsi666 😽 Joined Wed 01/31/18 Posts: 17182	Wed 04/11/18 02:30 AM
Ah well, the rainbow after the rain. Sun breaking through the clouds. A little glimmer of hope It was more dark clouds and thunderstorm I had so far, but maybe there is a pot of gold for me as well. Some day...

Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Wed 04/11/18 12:24 PM
Why do we have to hurt in order to know, fall in order to grow, lose in order to gain, because all of life’s lessons are taught through pain? You DON'T. Wisdom is gained from both bad and GOOD experiences. People are accustomed to focusing on negative things in life. There are many positive experiences that shape us. Most choose not to see them because they are concentrating on the negative. If you are a hammer, everything looks like a nail. Everyone experiences negative things in life. Usually, it is those negative things that cause us to have to act, to prevent them from gaining severity. We get apprehensive and look for negative things. I concentrate on the positive things in life. I see good things all the time. I look for positive things. Negative things still happen but I am better able to do something positive about them before they get out of hand. That is because I see positive things from all experiences.