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Topic: Need or want?
misswright's photo
Sat 12/01/07 04:25 PM
Do you need to be needed or just want to be wanted? Or maybe you want to be needed and need to be wanted?

There is a big difference in the two. I don't need a man, I'm more than capable of taking care of myself, but I want one. Is that enough?


beachdog50's photo
Sat 12/01/07 04:27 PM
I want a woman I need a beer

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Sat 12/01/07 04:28 PM
Hmmmm...pondering......still pondering....oops, error message on the screen..have to reboot! :tongue: laugh

evilolive's photo
Sat 12/01/07 04:28 PM
I need to be needed and need to be wanted, and i want someone who wants to be needed and wants to be wanted.
got that?
blushing

neanderthalDave's photo
Sat 12/01/07 04:30 PM
i got a beer i need a women

coolcat1201's photo
Sat 12/01/07 04:30 PM
My Opinion:
Once you are with a person, in the areas of material things, finance, etc. it's not a necessity. Its an area that an independant, strong individual can provide for him/her self.

However, I feel that everyone need something from another person friend or significant other. Love, Emotional support, Encouragement, etc. These are things that as human beings, "Need".

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Sat 12/01/07 04:31 PM
I want to be wanted, and need someone who wants to be wanted.

TheShadow's photo
Sat 12/01/07 04:49 PM
If I wasn't with my gf, id say want more then need. Need is to strong of a word for me and can put things out of place.

passionart's photo
Sat 12/01/07 04:51 PM
I would love to be needed!!! Right now, I would take an interesting want!!! Want to be needed; need to be wanted.....

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Sat 12/01/07 04:51 PM

I want a woman I need a beer

I second that

kearbey75's photo
Sat 12/01/07 04:54 PM
Edited by kearbey75 on Sat 12/01/07 04:54 PM

Do you need to be needed or just want to be wanted? Or maybe you want to be needed and need to be wanted?

There is a big difference in the two. I don't need a man, I'm more than capable of taking care of myself, but I want one. Is that enough?


as chris rock said, "you can do it without a man, that dont mean its to be done,
hell, i can drive a car with my feet, that dont make it a good fu#kin idea".
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sat 12/01/07 04:54 PM
I need it to be such a strong want that they can mistake it for need... but not a psychotic need....

I want to be needed and need to be wanted... I think that would pretty much cover it...

steelangel's photo
Sat 12/01/07 05:06 PM
I try to shy away from thinking about what I want. I'll kill myself wanting all the time.

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Sat 12/01/07 05:09 PM
noway i hate riddles...sick

jen1515's photo
Sat 12/01/07 05:15 PM
ok ill admit it i am codependent...sad i know

no photo
Sat 12/01/07 05:40 PM
Love, Emotional support, Encouragement, etc. These are things that as human beings, "Need".


That is so true. Unfortunately, you can learn to do without it, when you spend your life never getting those things. frown

Dragoness's photo
Sat 12/01/07 05:56 PM
Needs are things I provide for myself, wanted would be nice.

justcheryl's photo
Sat 12/01/07 06:40 PM
Good topic misswright! I told an ex that I didn't need him, that I would never need him or any other man, but that I wanted him in my life and that ought to make all the difference in the world. Nope. Only time I EVER saw that man cry. He needs to be needed.

Not me. I want to be wanted, not needed.

misswright's photo
Sat 12/01/07 06:43 PM

Good topic misswright! I told an ex that I didn't need him, that I would never need him or any other man, but that I wanted him in my life and that ought to make all the difference in the world. Nope. Only time I EVER saw that man cry. He needs to be needed.

Not me. I want to be wanted, not needed.


That was my last relationship. Same thing. He "needed" me, why couldn't I "need" him? Wanting wasn't good enough. My mom raised me to never need a man. Funny, the guy's still breathing last I knew, guess he didn't need me after all, just wanted me real bad. :wink: laugh laugh

kiannasunshine's photo
Sat 12/01/07 06:46 PM
i want someone in my life, but do i need him? no. i did the whole needing him and it blew up in my face

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