Well then why not just enjoy it for what it is right now, a nice conversation between friends?

If something more transpires naturally as a result of it, then so long as it's what both of you want, that's great.

If you only want friendship however and don't want more than that from him, I think it only fair that you be clear about that.

Good luck to you

I don’t know how one would best word a question like that. I am sure there is a better way than “I am not facetious and asking this, but why are you interested me?”

If you just want to be just friends then just always tell him thanks for being a friend... he will get the idea specially when you mention it after talking about personal stuff

Will try your theory sometime

Actually I want more but for some reason I prefer him to be just a friend. I know that it will not end. I know it's forever ulike when it's more, sooner or later there will be break up...

Would love to try that

Great Idea.. thanks sis

Minor correction, the “and” should be “in”

It seems obvious that he wants to get to know you better; whether for friendship or more, time will tell. I would take the time he's offering to get to know him better too. In the process, reasons you think you want a relationship with him now will either become more concrete or drift away. If you rush it, you will only learn these things through heartbreak.

100% correct

He said I am nice Before he said that he think he found a life long friend but little by little it's changing he's always saying if I found a girl etc etc. He's always saying the things that he will do if he find his partner... he's a hopeless romantic type guy

Thanks for the tip.. though I think it's still better if it will remain like that.. Friendzone.. nothing more...

I met him through online. He is nice. He loves helping and encouraging people. He has genuine concern not only for me but for others too. He's sharing all his secrets. He's giving so much trust.

He is not courting but I must admit, I like him. I met him already in real and in some other months, I will meet him again.

The sad part is for some reason, I prefer if we'll just be friends. Don't know if he likes me more than a friend or just a friend but if it's more than a friend, I don't like it to be that way. I am contented that we are friends.

Yep.. thanks

Oh, I get it. That's a tough one. I've dealt with this myself fairly recently, though not online. Obviously, the earlier you make it clear that a friendship is all you want from him, the better chances you have of him accepting your friendship and letting go of any other expectations he may have. Not knowing what he expects makes it difficult. I think it would be a good idea to bring it up and simply ask him what he thinks his expectations are. I know it's easier said than done.

enjoy the conversations with him. Don't over think it. If he is really interested he will show it.. he will make the first move.

well, first I thought,okay, he's making an effort, so he's interested.
But this has been going on for 6 months and you still don't know? Then I say, nope, he's not interested in you as a woman/partner. You would have known after 6 months if he had been.
He is even talking scenario "If I meet a girl/partner..." so he's friend-zoned you. He talks about his romantic life and hopes and dreams, but not with you in it as his partner, but another woman.

Looks like he's just enjoying talking to someone when he has time. A nice break when he needs someone to talk to. He's home, so likely alone and/or loneley, and you are readily available.
You only want friendship, and I think that's what you got.
I wouldn't put my life on hold for him. Chances are that he's gone from one day to the next when he does meet someone.

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Actually I want more. He has almost everything that every girl wants in a guy but the prolem is he is separated but not divorce. I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who is married. I don't wanna be a mistress orbif not a mistress I don't wanna be the reason why he'll divorce his wife. He said he will divorce his wife when he found a gf eh. He doesn't know that I like him. I want to avoid him but he did lots of things. He helped me in many things that is why it's impossible to avoid him.. he's nice, he never took advantage and he's not courting.. he's just giving his time and real concern. I don't wanna lose him that is why I prefer and I am contented that we are friends. That is why I don't want him to love me more than a friend.

YEp.. thanks

Yep.. friendship coz it's complicated but just last time he said he will be living part time in my country.

Anyway it's better to be friends. It's forever. Unlike when you become partners (it might be temporary or forever).. anyway thanks sis