I think Im a pretty nice guy and I treat every lady I meet with complete respect. Yet no one seems to be interested in me. I just dont understand, my friends tell me Im funny and alot of fun to be around. So whats the problem.

Hi, post to the threads, leave people get to know you...........and never give up...........because there are a lot of great people here who will become your friend, and you never know when that special one may appear

no clue why no one is interested? are you too picky?? u are very good looking...what r u looking for?? maybe put more into your profile so ppl can see what you are all about...
good luck

I understand that completely. I don't know what the deal is lately.

nahhhh. don't give up. that's never a good option. just be you. and you'll find her. =]

I agree. Don't ever give up. Someone will come along that will appreciate you for you.

Jen

I see alot of really nice women dating absolute jerks, am I to nice?

You can't be too nice. Eventually, you're going to meet someone great who will appreciate it

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that's the prob dude, I don't think they want nice.

They say they do , but the Aholes get'm

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Hey bro never say die and never ever give up.

i agree...can never be too nice...just don't put out the vibes of being a doormat either...the right woman will appreciate you for who you are...just don't give up looking for the right one...

i agree with suzin. nice guys are always like, "all the girls go for the jerks!" uh...i can tell ya from myself and my friends that's not true...i definitely wouldn't date someone who wasn't nice. to me and to everyone else.

I know because I used to be like that. Then I discovered something that changed my life; turned it around 360 degrees.

To give you a push in the right direction, let me tell you this: It's impossible to truly respect another person unless you truly respect yourself.

Ever wonder what women mean when they tell you "Just be yourself?" Think about it... Haven't you been denying women the chance to see who you REALLY are by showing them more respect than you give to yourself? How do you act around your closest friends? You joke around with your buddies and aren't afraid to playfully tease them, right? Try acting this way (totally congruent and "yourself") around women and I guarentee you that you will notice a HUGE difference in how they respond to you.

Stop TRYING to be "Mr. Nice Guy" and don't let people walk all over you if that's not who you really are on the inside. If you are TRYING, women can tell. Most "nice guys" are actually manipulative and act nice in hopes of getting sex in exchange for kindness or some crazy subconcsious idea like that.

From a guys stand point yeah its hard to find a good woman anywhere be it the net, or anywhere. But, giving up is by far not they answer. I don't get much attention either but the more importacne you give it the more it's gonna bother you. Try not to give it so much importance, not that finding the right person is not important but we all have our lives to live, and personaly I don't think we should put them on hold for anyone unless we see fit.

Thanks for the advice everyone, you've been very helpfull!

I disagree, DC Some of us do want nice and only date nice. Yeah, sometimes we get fooled but we usually figure it out pretty quickly

you guys are good advice givers tonight. haha. =]

Heres whats wrong.First of all i feel your pain!I once was told i am "too sweet" to date!!! The bottom line girls (not all) tend to fall for jerks!!! Dont give up brother!!! She is out there just dont look so hard when its meant to be it will