ya know, it's really hard to say what women really want. the last woman i was with was a long distance relationship to begin with. i'm in utah, she was in massachusetts. after she moved here, she told me i was too nice and wanted to do too much for her. she said she felt like i was baby sitting her when all i was trying to do was make sure she was having a good time because she didn't know anyone here but me. all this "just be yourself" talk, i think, is b.s. because i was being myself with her; i'm a nice, respectful guy. it's how i was raised. she ditched me after being in utah less than a month. i'm with ya, man. totally ready to give up, but i think it's when we finally let go that things happen. so my advice would be to just let it go, stop worrying about being alone and enjoy it while you can. i know it's easier said than done.

It's %50 luck, and %50 perseverance.

Oh come on. That's like saying that the man who falls for good looks isn't the one you want. Women respond to social value (directly related to the fearlessness it takes to make the first move, being confident, and being outspoken) just as strongly as men's response to good looks.

First impressions are important. Women make their first first first impression to men with what they wear and stuff related to looks. Men must make a positive first impression with social value if they want a shot with the girl.

I'm not talking about just 'getting women'. I personally could manipulate a womans emotions and 'charm' her into liking me and even further. If that's what you want, I guess that's the way to do it.

I'm speaking of looking for "her". I'm speaking out of experience as I have done both. I now HAVE a true love, and believe me, it's worth waiting for.

U try to hard women do like to be respected they also like sum one who show they can control things as well sho self confidence by u postin this most women wud prolly think ur soft or weak thats not hot sum may sho petity and talk to u cuz they feel bad and others will tell u wat u need to kno....dnt go outta ur way to be extra nice b u plp like that try it stop tell em wat the wanna hear and tell em how u feel dnt get all luvie dubie the 2nd wk of talkin be aggressive sum times and if non of this works u can always try the other side of the street and get wit ur own kind u never kno :? gud luck and dnt say i never tried to help

hmm i see what you mean
but here are my thoughts about that:
When I was learning Martial Arts, my instructors always told me that it is important to learn this art because of that ONE moment in your life where the right combination of kicks and punches, delivered with the right energy, will save your life.
A lot of the mPUAs (master pickup artists) I have learned from say that it is important to learn pickup arts because of that ONE girl out there you could potentially be happy with for the rest of your life. When you meet her, the right combination of negs and IOIs, delivered with the right attitude, will actually give you two a chance to get to know each other.
Most guys enter a social scene and dozens and dozens and dozens of women just pass by without giving the guy the time of day. What if one of those women were "the one?" That guy doesn't posess the skillset to even start talking to her... Every element of a social interaction, including the ones that involve "charming" the woman and also finding true love, counts.

U try to hard women do like to be respected they also like sum one who show they can control things as well sho self confidence by u postin this most women wud prolly think ur soft or weak thats not hot sum may sho petity and talk to u cuz they feel bad and others will tell u wat u need to kno....dnt go outta ur way to be extra nice b u plp like that try it stop tell em wat the wanna hear and tell em how u feel dnt get all luvie dubie the 2nd wk of talkin be aggressive sum times and if non of this works u can always try the other side of the street and get wit ur own kind u never kno :? gud luck and dnt say i never tried to help

I think Im a pretty nice guy and I treat every lady I meet with complete respect. Yet no one seems to be interested in me. I just dont understand, my friends tell me Im funny and alot of fun to be around. So whats the problem.