Red flag lists, eh? I could write one, and lots of what others have said would be on it, but I try not to concentrate on negatives enough to do that. I have enough to concern myself with as it is.

All I really want to add, is that I would never ever say to someone out loud, that they "just became unattractive to me."

It's illogical and unnecessary to do so, to my thinking, and ironically, anyone who WOULD say such a thing out loud (and I have run across a fair number), would immediately qualify for rejection under one of the already mentioned headings. Such as "narcissism" especially, but also "manipulator," and "rudeness."

I wouldn't accuse such a person of nose picking while driving, however. Not without direct evidence.

I would say....in a second....outloud

"You just became INCREDIBLY unattractive to me!"

If (ie) someone said something bigoted. I couldn't remain silent.

It's on my unacceptable "list".

'This time last year I was a man'

So basically, a list of turn-offs?
Hasn't this been done a zillion times here already?

Lets add;
Murder
Rape
Incest
Thievery
Lying
Extreme Fetishes

Dismissiveness..

Airs of arrogance of being above the "trivial".

pettiness
shallowness
double standards
weakness of character
the inability to stay on topic without
lashing out with jabs and insults
because you feel threatened

I enjoy over compensating with humor and delusions of grandeur. Claiming that I am buff while obviously just sucking in my tummy. I feel I have had positive responses to it from women my age as well as single mothers. I know it's awfully specific, but it is true.

But I guess a turn off for me is when white girls act like thugs, women who get drunk and make a fool of themselves as well as me, women who like drama and think I have to deal with it, when I have better things to do.

Yes, it is annoying. Like someone else said, know it alls.

Yet they're not bright enough to realise they have a choice, to move on to the next topic and ignore the topics they feel are beneath them.

you right

Isn't that being dismissive?

All of the above... and if not already mentioned
- anyone who uses gazillion emojis in their posts
- anyone who keeps beating a dead horse
- any adult who has pics sticking out their tongue

picking his nose

non-masculine behaviour, I like to be the only girl in a relationship

bad kisser, instant turn-off

no package visible, as in nothing at all.

Too much of his package visible

Being...

...pushy
...lacking in empathy or compassion
...rude and obstinate
...extremely ignorant
...a drug user
...someone who uses too much make-up
...

Oh lordy....this could go on forever. It's easier to spot something bad than it is to focus on what's good. So...

The most important GOOD thing I look for is a good heart. I can overlook a lot if I know the person has that. It doesn't make up for everything, but it can go a very long way.

Bitter and twisted,
Looks like she's chewing a lemon,
No sense of humour,
Flogging the same dead horse as rosie!
Better than thou attitude,
Previous partner said they had a luxury escape,
Plays out her life through others,

Feel free, and here's a moon as you don't have one oh and a sheep!

It will be the red sheep of the family

ooh thanks for the mention.... so sweet of you

- Pompous arses
- Anyone who calls their ex "a selfish, patronising, paranoid b**ch"

- Anyone who begs to be loved