There ya go I'm sure his wife would be better off without him~~

Does your friend know you are married? If she does then she knows she is breaking up your marriage, shame on her. If she doesn't know you are married, shame on you!

Why are you seeking counsel on a dating site? Not a wise move. Soon there'll be lots of gorgeous sexy young women who will say you are the handsomest guy on earth professing their undying love for you. You would think that you must have died and gone to heaven and soon a fool and his money are parted.

Don't be that fool! Either you fix your marriage or get a divorce.

To the girlfriend, if this guy is cheating on his wife with you, there's a big probability that he is going to cheat on you too. Drop him like a hot potato.

My two cents.

hii

Yes, you should cheat and lie.
Be a typical married man and live up to the stereotype.
Meanwhile us real men that don't will be waiting for your X-wife to contact us for sincere love and we will give it to her.

Take your marriage license out and use a black sharpie marker to write "FAILED" in big letters across it.
Never again make a commitment to another human being so you don't have to face your inability to keep your word.
Tell your X that she is the problem and make sure that you point with all your fingers when you say it.
Comfort your friend when she realizes that she is in a relationship with a narcissist that has no sense of value.

One last thing, when you are alone and in pain and there is nobody on this planet that cares if you live or die, pat yourself on the back again for such a job well-done!

Thank you for making the rest of us guys look even better to women.
Kudos!

There has been some great suggestions so far.....but have you ever thought of going on mingle2...just a suggestion....

....change your pic....Hugh Jackman works for me....see above...

give a little respect...you're wife needs to know that and decide if she still wants to be with you.

Just to re quote this as some get a little bit confused with the British sense of humour
I'm saying "go for it " to relieve the wife of him being a twat

Couldn't have said it better myself. Thanks Tom. It's good to be reminded that there are still men out there that actually care for others and not just themselves.

To be honest op you don't deserve a wife when you treat her like that.

If you respect her, be honest with her. End it first. But if you are ending it because you "LIKE" your friend more that's ridiculous. There has to be deeper meaning than that. And how are you so sure you wont "Like" another that friend of yours? It has to do with your morals and beliefs and dispositions in life. But it's a free world for everyone just be responsible in things you do and be brave enough to stand on your decisions.

Hi Udintim.

Most relationships go through tough times where you may not like your partner that much. It doesn't mean its the end of the relationship. Sometimes it means you both have to work harder to recapture the magic you once shared.

You might experience a more endearing side of your wife if you are as attentive to her as you are with your friend.

And just remember that as time passes, you will most lkely go through difficult times with your friend in the future, and she may go through a phase of not liking you either.

Would you advise her to cheat on you with a friend that she may grow to like more than you?

Stop! Get over yourself. Get therapy and then get divorced if it doesn't work# don't come here asking for permission

be a man, try to consider the same situation on yourself, if u feel good , then go ahead with your extra relation, and divorce her and if u feel bad , then truly tell your wife about that some silly points where u dont like her . and tell her to change her nature and u also change your nature .

Good one Mikey!!

Is your friend male? maybe you should come out of the closet, as you leave your wifey..

i think we have a winner here...

Talk to your partner about it, so you both together can be fix it and be happy.

If things doesn't work at all, then break it and move on.

Cheating on partner who trust is not just wrong it is a SIN. It will be considered as your integrity is comprised.