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Topic: Whistles and Cat Calls
Beachfarmer's photo
Thu 06/15/17 09:30 PM
gonna have to refer to the "Aaaw Shucks Response" here Rosie.flowerforyou

mzrosie's photo
Thu 06/15/17 09:39 PM
Get used to it, Sexy Dude biggrin flowerforyou

triciatecy's photo
Thu 06/15/17 10:13 PM
Hmmmmm

msharmony's photo
Thu 06/15/17 10:20 PM
Context in reading

Intent in speaking


For me, it depends upon the Context of a situation

generally, if someone's INTENT is to compliment me, I can take it as such and keep moving

If not giving the 'proper' level of gratitude causes an immediate insult, than I take the insult as intended too

Beachfarmer's photo
Thu 06/15/17 10:29 PM

Context in reading

Intent in speaking


For me, it depends upon the Context of a situation

generally, if someone's INTENT is to compliment me, I can take it as such and keep moving

If not giving the 'proper' level of gratitude causes an immediate insult, than I take the insult as intended too


You're not only insightful, but HOT when doing it!!. :tongue: ....and I am totally waiting for you to call me an ***!

Yes, I ("think") I get this Ms.???
It's all about "tone"?

Guess it's back to instinct, eeh? :-)

msharmony's photo
Thu 06/15/17 10:35 PM
flattered...blushing blushing
laugh laugh




Beachfarmer's photo
Fri 06/16/17 04:54 AM

flattered...blushing blushing
laugh laugh






Phew!!! laugh

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 06/16/17 11:20 AM
I'm getting better at taking compliments gracefully, but sometimes I still fall for the old routine of discarding it.
It also depends on who, where when. When I got loads of compliments for my being Master, no hang on, Mistress of Ceremonies, I was totally overwhelmed. Didn't see what was so special (still don't tbh).
It can be totally awkward too, and make me very shy... Had that shortly after my breakup when I went to a pub... Ppl were kinda shocked that I looked so happy and beaming, they'd only ever seen me miserable when with my ex. I'd lost a lot of weight as well, dressed sexy. THey'd never seen me like that. Then this dude commented on it, gawking at me, and thoroughly enjoyed me blushing profusely. A-hole didn't let up either, everyone enjoyed it to the max, while I got increasingly uncomfortable. Felt totally out of my depth. However much of a compliment it was, as it was genuine, I was happy when attention shifted to something else.

I think I get shy and uncomfortable when it's unexpected. When I feel I deserve it, it's much easier to accept it gracefully.

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Fri 06/16/17 11:39 AM
:kissing_heart::kissing_heart::joy::joy:

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Fri 06/16/17 11:40 AM
Yea you deserve every beautiful compliment :kissing_heart::blush:

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Sat 06/17/17 06:08 AM
<<<<tries to whistle, but just blows air.

Meow, meow!
rofl smokin


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