Topic: Experience
msharmony's photo
Sun 04/02/17 08:37 AM
sexually speaking, is there such a thing as TOO MUCH or TOO LITTLE?

Tom4Uhere's photo
Sun 04/02/17 08:59 AM
Yes

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Sun 04/02/17 09:12 AM

sexually speaking, is there such a thing as TOO MUCH or TOO LITTLE?


Sexual experience? That's a tricky and loaded term for many people. I'm not sure exactly what aspect of it you are referring to, so I'll guess, and say that the answer is that it's all relative.

Sexual experience can refer to NUMBER of experiences, number of "partners," or to kinds of sexual experiences. How a persons sexual "experience" affects their lives, depends on the intersection of how THEY think and feel about it, with how their chosen mate thinks and feels about it.

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Sun 04/02/17 09:32 AM
sexually speaking, is there such a thing as TOO MUCH or TOO LITTLE?

Sure.
Too much can lead to it being a priority focus of your personality to the detriment of more productive, healthy, socially conscious things.
Too much can lead to a greater risk of STD's and unwanted pregnancy.
Too much can lead to overconfidence or arrogance of skill.
Too much can lead to ostracization by peer group.
Too much can be in comparison to your partner who might have too little and lead to "bad" sex and sexual "incompatibility."
Too much can lead to overfamiliarization and becoming bored with the "normal" leading to more risky and/or fetishy behavior in order to get the same fulfillment as non risky and/or fetishy behavior.

Too little can lead avoiding it being a priority focus of your personality to the detriment of more productive social interaction.
Too little can lead to insecurity.
Too little can lead to too little experience and inability to "keep up" with your partner.
Too little can lead to ostracization by peer group.
Too little can lead to frustration and stress and low self esteem.
Too little can lead to attempts at gorging or overcompensating, seeking out too much, or even risky/fetishy behavior, in an attempt at creating emotional sexual balance.

There's such a thing as too much or too little of anything you can label, assuming you look at it pragmatically rather than hypothetically or theoretically.

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Thu 04/20/17 04:40 AM
too much too little too late...now where did i heart this? msharmonyflowers

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Thu 04/20/17 06:33 AM
Edited by Unknow on Thu 04/20/17 06:37 AM
what

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Thu 04/20/17 06:36 AM
Personally speaking, there definitely can be too little. frustrated tears sad

I've yet to be in a relationship where I felt I was getting too much shocked surprised laugh


Experience is always preferred

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Thu 04/20/17 07:16 AM
If I was a woman...
with "multiple" capabilities...would never be too much.tongue2

no1phD's photo
Thu 04/20/17 07:20 AM
I must admit sometimes I feel like I'm getting a little worn out...shocked

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 04/20/17 10:30 AM
Too little... I guess... it's kinda nice if a man knows where to find things and what to do with them, and what NOT to do, lol


Too much, hell yes!! We all have a past, esp when you've reached a certain age, no problem there. But I don't like it when my partner has had a gazillion sex partners and/or partners.
The 1st can be an indication he isn't interested in anything serious.
The 2nd can be an indication he isn't interested in anything serious.
Or that he hasn't a clue what he wants.

ome317's photo
Thu 04/20/17 10:33 AM
I'm a Virgin which I'm not afraid to tell people but like the guy with the long list said it can cause mental boundaries for me and messes me up sometimes. I'm not holding out for anybody I've just never been with somebody, which makes me socially awkward. In the view of a lot of my piers.

VipsRockz's photo
Thu 04/20/17 05:20 PM
Its something...where u cannot exoress with words.....

Sex all about affectionately love :heart_eyes: