Every relationship I've had keeps falling into the same pit - the lady is still stuck on some other guy. These ladies are unsure about a relationship, go back to their ex (just to break up again because he's a jerk), still stuck on thoughts of him, etc. yadda yadda yadda

I'm just wondering where all these jerks are coming from. They're giving men a bad rap sheet and ruining things for all us decent guys out here!

I just wanna give each jerk I come across a swift kick in the junk! ¡¿Who's with me?!

want to start on my list first?

lmao @ 'junk'

Why blame them??? Youre the one who picks these emotionally "unavailable" women.....

honestly doesn't look like their ruining much of anything .. they're endin' up with 'the girl'

Gypsy, can I park my bicycle between yer buttocks?

all the decent guys i have met, are to emotional, to clingy, and want a relationship right then and there! i want to find a nice guy that we can be friends first, than maybe more.... guys dont understand that sometimes

You know not that i want to say this but, Being a women we need to take the time to get over the old before we start a new..Sometimes having that new person helps with it and we think we are ready..

i wish there was some decent guys in my area....they all live a million miles away...go figure lol

i agree with you angee! you go girl~~ lol

a lot of women i know are perpetually stuck on a guy that doesn't exist and never will, because he exists only in their mind... not that fantasy is bad... just saying...

More often than I prefer I end up blaming myself 'cause I know the problem is there but I keep holding on to that little spark of hope in "maybe" and "what if"...

captain...never give up hope

i dont care what any women says, you are always gunna be stuck on those guys that have stole your heart! you may not have feelings for them anymore, but they will always have something with you wether u like or not! and it does take time to get over "jerks" for some reason? lol

Spaz........QUIT DOING THAT THEN!!!

well there are some decent guys out there.. I seem to find it the other way around tho, it's the girl is who is too emotional and clingy and the relation ship to begin at the drop of a dime.. myself personally i want to be able to connect with a girl on a mental and physcial level and it takes time for that process to happen. but I agree with ya my bestfriend is like that with every girl he meets. he is always in a relationship and it's just weird i think.

Well there is a slight game and I don't care what anyone says.... The game is figuring out how to keep the one "You" really want. It doesn't always work out though. jneal07 hit it on the head when she says some guys she met are clingy.... this is a real drag for a woman and will quickly disband a relationship....

You must make the woman think about you by calling at the right time or not calling at the right time.

For the women that go back to the ex it usually ends again in a year or less. That's what I've seen.

J

thanks muscle! yeah i usually am the one trying to stay away from relationships, bc most guys want it to quick and i agree with you on making that connection!! there definetly needs to be a physical and emotional connection to make it work!! and that does take some time

People can't change people. You can't fix someone. You can run around wearing tin foil pretending to be a knight, but the real answers are within why YOU pick the ones you do and why you seem hell bent on hurting yourself by waiting on these women....

good way to put it yokoke!