Why is it as soon as you say hi and get to chatting they trail off?

Some times people chat with multiple people. And when one conversation seems to be going more there way they will just trail off others..

Some times when scanners finally realise you will not give them what they are after they just disappear.

There are many reason just do not take too personal and keep on trucking.

Thanks. Figured something like that. But those who moving on should be courteous enough to say so I think.

Yeah, the nerve of those scammers...

There are plenty of real people willing to talk to you right here in the community forums. A wide range of subjects with many different views. It gets quite interesting at times.

I think the most important thing to remember is that you can't control other people. The only person you really have control of is yourself (if you are lucky).

I've often wondered why interest trails off with some of the women I have talked with. I reread what I wrote to see if I may have said the wrong thing? What I have found is that most of the time, it wasn't what I said, they just moved on.

It would be nice if others would tell you when they are done with you. It never works that way. When I choose to end a conversation I do say why. It is my choice to tell them or not. I believe they also have that choice.

Being left high & dry can play hell on your self-esteem. Try to understand that it may not be anything you said or did. People are all different. Just gather your wits and move along to the next.

2 words..attention span.

its also weird that i have posted messages to women nearby, and not one of them have even bothered to say hello,i am seeking freinds and a occaisonally talk pal, yes,i want only women to talk to,but sadly i dont seem to find the ones that have the desire to ask questions that are of the intent to build up not tear down

That has been my experience as well, yet I've had a couple check out my profile, and no message. Oh well, patient is a virtue.
Just learning now on how these forums work. I'm new, so experience is lacking.

Good luck to us all.

.. because you didn't say the magic words to him..
Do you want the picture of me without my bra on first ?or without my panties on first.?..hmmmm....lol.jk..

Scammer.

Wife walked into room.

Girlfriend checked phone or computer.

Mom or dad walked into room.

Boss walked into cubicle.

Didn't get nudie pics he wanted.

Met woman in real life at the pub down the street.

Lost interest.

Decided you weren't "the one".


What ever reason, move on with your life and don't lose any sleep over it.

No reply IS a reply. It's a "NO" reply.

I agree with what many have already said, and it takes time to find a friend online just have patience,the right one will come along.

Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck in your search.

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