I've been dating a girl for two weeks now, I've posted about her before. I really like her a lot, I know I should take it slow, which I'm sure that is what she is doing, but my only problem is that I can't really read her, can't tell if she is into me at all. She told me she's not sure where we are going to end up, which i can understand, it's still too early to really tell. I would like to have some sort of idea because if she doesn't think we are going to be compatible, I would like to move on to another girl. What should I do?

Well the honest approach is always my favorite. First rule to any relationship that you may be in. Honesty and communication are key. Just ask her. Simple and straight forward.

Don't know how to answer this one we guys find the ladies hard to read and the ladies probably have the same problem reading the guys.

I did tell her I like her, but all she has to say is she doesn't know where this whole thing is going to end up.

Oh well then what you need to do is start looking at other people then. Thats fine that she doesn't really know what she wants, doesn't mean that you need to put your life on hold till she makes a decision.

been there, done it..thats why i'm done with dating anymore



too much drama

I feel bad seeing more than one person at a time, and I told her that, but if it's what I need to do I may do it.

I just learned from another idiot (no offense) from this website....don't put all your eggs in one basket....leave it open that you are going to date other people, and tell her to just be open and honest...if she isn't into to just say so....

Give it time...

Maybe try and give it more time but go with what your gut tells u. It is usually right. If she returns your calls she is probably into u. I have been talking to a guy on here for about three weeks and thought he was into me but now i havent heard from him in 3 days. What should I do?

ok dude before you do anything else. your dating her. she's definitely interested. where it goes all depends on how you act. Dating is awesome because you can date a lot of girls at once so do that. she will be more attracted to you if you do so. also, if it doesn't work out, its no big deal because you have other options. Its also more responsible because i've seen so many guys start relationships that should have never been started just so they can be with "someone." I've done it myself. If you don't like the idea of dating a few girls at once, at least act like someone who's got 100 girls calling him every day. If you act like "the man," you are the man. good luck. oh, and don't ever tell a girl you like her. That is implied when you make the relationship exclusive. Keep her off balance like she's doing to you. Assume she wants you and she will.

Not all people that call you mean that they are into you. This guy called me, and he one day just stopped. No messages, no calls nothing. I still have no clue what happened. We talked for like a month then met and he called after that and one day just stopped. I thought things were fine....joke is on me I guess. So anyway, I'm just saying even if they still call, maybe he or she is doing it to not hurt your feelings or who knows....dating seriously sucks. I QUIT!!!

I've said this in another post today but it's good advice, if I may say so myself...look into her eyes. What do you see? Do you see comfort? Trust? Security? Or do you just see eyes? Eyes are the best way to read anybody...

Be patient. Don't push her.

starlite you have 2 options. 1. Play the game and wait til he calls you. If he doesn't oh well he's a loser. If he does, you know you got him and he's just trying to be interesting by not calling you.
2. You can call him and invite him for a cup of tea in a few days but make sure to sound busy and elusive. If he sounds like he might flake, call him out on it and say nevermind about the tea and that you have to go. He will be calling you back soon after that.
good luck.

actually Unique, when I was with her today I looked into her eyes and I saw warmth, I felt so comfortable. And to Mbcasey, I am trying to be patient, I guess I'm just really afraid of rejection, and rejection is worse when it is later rather than sooner.

Maybe she's feeling the same way. Maybe she's not sure about how you feel and afraid of rejection...take it from a woman, woman think weird stuff when it comes to dating because I'm sure every woman has had a not-so-good relationship with a guy and is afraid of it recurring.

she said she doesn't really know how the dating thing works, hasn't had a lot of boyfriends. She said she wasn't popular in high school and ignored in college. I can't see how anyone could ignore her.

does anyone else think i made a mistake of telling her i like her?
I actually got her flowers today too, which she didn't seem all that enthused about. Maybe I am going a little fast for her.

too fast??? telling her you like her ............. absolutely not.

but her answer sounds like she is sending you a message. May not be as much into you as you into her? I mean did she TELL you she likes you too?