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      When you see one single girl out w/ a group of couples.....
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      I would think they were having an orgy adn she didnt have a man to bring along
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      Thanks hupuppy....I was actually looking for an honest answer...
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      eh....i leave it alone.....it's her business....i might say hi if she gave me a look or something but it's not my place to ask or assume...
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      i wouldn't think anything, if i was interested i would think of a way to talk to her without alerting the whole group, but then again i would probably be talking the talk and not walking the walk
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      But ...I mean would you hit on her?....or would she seem to surrounded??
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      I'm sure I wouldn't even notice.  I never pay any attention to stuff like that....
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      Unless everyone is sitting there holding hands with their partner, I don't think I would be able to tell that she was the only single girl...whenever I go out with a bunch of my coupled friends, the girls kinda do their thing and the boys do ours.
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      Thank you for your comment atomic.....so you wouldn't feel intimidated because she was w/ a group of friends?? 
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        Rapunzel
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|  hi fresh air....   there are lots of reasons some one is out alone... there are many many possible scenerios it certainly doesn't have to be a negative reason or that she is "desperate" in any way | |
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      Sooo....then do you guys think it is a disadvagntage for a girl like me to be surrounded by couples?? Do you think that maybe lessens my chance of meeting someone?
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      not at all hun, but as for hitting on her i doubt it, once i was in a situation like that, i wrote her a note on a piece of paper and slipped it to her as both parties were getting ready to leave, it just said call me please i would like to talk to you.... to my surprise she actually did but we never hooked up we are still friends today though
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      Thank you Rapunzel   | |
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      in my experience, you have no idea if a girl is single or not untill it is braught up in conversation in one way or another... unless of course you see them kiss somebody or something, even wearing a ring wouldn't shoo me away, because lots of girls wear rings simply because they like it....   the only intimidation on MY END of aproaching a single girl in a group, is in fact the approach itself.... but if i wanted to say hello or meet someone well enough, i SURE AS HECK ain't lettin a group of people stop me, i'll find away!    
 so no, i wouldn't stray away from a single girl in a group of couples. | |
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      So Atom you don't think it is a disadvantage then?? Because I have 3 very dear girlfriends and they are either married or living w/ sig. other. So everytime we go out it is as a group and me being the 7th wheel. I often wonder if it is to my disadvantage.....
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|  Thank you Rose ...nice to hear your opinion... | |
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      happy to help, any time
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      no i dont, just get a bf there are lots of guys on here who would love to be the 8th wheel for ya       | |
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| no i dont, just get a bf there are lots of guys on here who would love to be the 8th wheel for ya       I would love to ......unfortunately it is easier said than done     | |
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