I'm a great guy, smart and compassionate. why aren't women brave enough to send me a message? i don't look that bad, i certainly use correct grammar as well. what ever happened to, "no risk no reward? "

Without sufficient input your question is vague. How many women have you contacted? Do these women really look as though they are available or simply seem as fantasy come true? How honest is your narrative, sufficient photos, an articulate narrative, description of employment, interests, values and traits you seek in a woman These would help increase your success . also strongly suggest not limiting yourself to one dating site that is simply not wise or advantageous especially sites that are free Hope this helps as feedback not criticism can be an agent for change..

This may not be an issue of courage.

You may stand a better chance of getting responses if you

1. Choose women who fill out their profiles and say something substantive about themselves

2. If you personalise the greeting you send by referring to a detail in the woman's profile. Greetings like "Hi beautiful. "or " Hi. How are you ?"will be ignored most of the time because the 50 guys before you sent the exact same greeting.

3. If you increase your probabilty of responses by increasing the amount of personalised greetings you send out

4. Try to be patient. As in the real world, you are not likely to strike gold in a day . Try sending a heap of personalised messages to women with substantive profiles for a few weeks and see what happens.

Good luck in your search.!

Hi Ryano!

As you probably already know . We are not always attracted to the people who like us and in the reverse, the people we like, are not always drawn to us and that's no indication of a lack or presence of courage. Its just human nature.

But you may stand a better chance of getting responses if you

1. Choose women who fill out their profiles and say something substantive about themselves

2. If you personalise the greeting you send by referring to a detail in the woman's profile. Greetings like "Hi beautiful. "or " Hi. How are you ?"will be ignored most of the time because the 50 guys before you sent the exact same greeting.

3. If you increase your probabilty of responses by increasing the amount of personalised greetings you send out

Try to be patient. As in the real world, you are not likely to strike gold in a day . Try sending a heap of personalised messages to women with substantive profiles for a few weeks and see what happens.

Good luck in your search.!

Just don't go after women that are out of your league! ;)

You need to go fishing yourself, try sending out some thoughtful messages to women close to your hometown because few are interested in people living hundreds of miles away, it takes time but you will receive a reply, have patience.

Welcome to Mingle2 and Good Luck in your search.

Erm... You ever heard this story about real men going out to hunt and conquer? As in, pursuing a girl?
Breaking news: it's not a story, it's reality.

You thinking you're god's gift to women doesn't mean you're going to get interest. Maybe get over yourself and make an effort for a gal?

Way back since the caveman days, women wan to be pursued. Not stalked...but pursued. So if you see a girl you are interested in, send them a message.

Try this for fun..You can change the profile anytime

Don't worry, just add an extra line or two on your profile
that you are LOADED, drive a BMW convertible,own a yacht
and travel in business every week to different countries.


I'm sure your inbox will be flooded

Oh NO , don't do that, That's CHEATING and real BAD ADVICE

I am a BAD BAD old boy the devil made me do it

You know, I see a lot of this on different sites besides this one. The men sound like they think when they join a dating site all they are suppose to do is sit back and wait for the messages to flood in. For the most part, that ain't gonna happen.

Women in general, want to be pursued. But at the same time, they don't want to be stalked. So, On this site, you will find that the great majority of women do not fill out their profile. For those that don't fill out their profiles, A simple, "Hello, How are you doing" will suffice.

If they answer, Fine. If they don't, Move on to the next. Same for the ones that fill out their profiles. With the exception of, if they fill out their profile, read it. Pick out something in their profile that you have in common and elaborate on it a little. It lets her know you read her profile. Write once. No answer, Move on. Just always keep in mind that there are more where that one came from. And plenty of other sites to choose from.

Women want a good man who knows when to be bad.. and just how bad to be.. and as for grammar.. he knows when not to use proper grammar ;)

And as for waiting for them to contact you.. we are animals (men).. natural hunters.. so if you are not going to hunt.. you will be laying in that bed by yourself ;)

I'm answering the topic question.

The courageous people were killed by the Courageous Lion, after he lost his cowardness.

<<<< Drives a Ford, owns a boat (12 footer), travels to the south (side) frequently, seeks woman who knows how to make a good sandwich and fetch beer, expecting overflowing in-box shortly.

A Ford? How about a "427 4-speed midyear roadster with side exhaust"! (Probably all sound like foreign words to some age ranges.)

I like that one Scoob.

You be talking about a "snake" I imagine?

You have to message them first

most of them still fighting!!!ajah

most of them still fighting!!!ajah