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Topic: Whirlwind Romance?
im_cherrylou's photo
Tue 01/24/17 04:30 PM
Is it normal for a man to ask a woman to be his girl just after chatting and talking for only two weeks?

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Tue 01/24/17 04:34 PM
Edited by Unknow on Tue 01/24/17 04:34 PM
Well sounds a bit too fast for me but obviously you are here asking so you are unsure but hey, what is normal anyhow? Have you chatted face to face? Skype etc? Facetime? If he is going too fast tell him lol

travellerfromnl's photo
Tue 01/24/17 04:34 PM
My experience might be the worst measure, but anyone having to ask that is probably, not "yours".

travellerfromnl's photo
Tue 01/24/17 04:35 PM
And i do mean in real life, even after few months or so, not ever.

im_cherrylou's photo
Tue 01/24/17 04:43 PM

My experience might be the worst measure, but anyone having to ask that is probably, not "yours".

I'll take this as a reminder. :blush:

im_cherrylou's photo
Tue 01/24/17 04:45 PM

Well sounds a bit too fast for me but obviously you are here asking so you are unsure but hey, what is normal anyhow? Have you chatted face to face? Skype etc? Facetime? If he is going too fast tell him lol

We haven't tried Skype or Facetime yet. But he seems serious, too serious actually to have me invited to go to his country this summer. Though, this whole thing is too fast and its kinda freaking me out.

NotPay4Play's photo
Tue 01/24/17 04:46 PM
Yup two weeks is way early for that if you two have never met face to face.

If you have any doubts tell him it's too soon. But then again I'm not looking for that myself. So two years would be too soon. rofl rofl

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Wed 01/25/17 02:06 AM


Well sounds a bit too fast for me but obviously you are here asking so you are unsure but hey, what is normal anyhow? Have you chatted face to face? Skype etc? Facetime? If he is going too fast tell him lol

We haven't tried Skype or Facetime yet. But he seems serious, too serious actually to have me invited to go to his country this summer. Though, this whole thing is too fast and its kinda freaking me out.

Go to his country? Be very careful, girl! Trade in girls/woman is still alive and kicking to date...

im_cherrylou's photo
Wed 01/25/17 04:59 AM



Well sounds a bit too fast for me but obviously you are here asking so you are unsure but hey, what is normal anyhow? Have you chatted face to face? Skype etc? Facetime? If he is going too fast tell him lol

We haven't tried Skype or Facetime yet. But he seems serious, too serious actually to have me invited to go to his country this summer. Though, this whole thing is too fast and its kinda freaking me out.

Go to his country? Be very careful, girl! Trade in girls/woman is still alive and kicking to date...

I know right. Its just crazy.

meajoy's photo
Wed 01/25/17 05:07 AM
Be very careful my dear. Others will ask you just days after chatting. Don't fall easily.

krissy55101's photo
Wed 01/25/17 05:10 AM

Be very careful my dear. Others will ask you just days after chatting. Don't fall easily.


I totally agree with this and the going to his country invitation would really freak me out!

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Wed 01/25/17 05:24 AM
looking for that special woman

Em6teen's photo
Wed 01/25/17 10:25 PM
The woman in my last relationship, with whom I dated for 3 years...It took two weeks before we even exchanged numbers, then two more weeks before we met, then another two weeks before we decided to make it official. 6 weeks total. Taking things slow is probably best. Everyone is different though.

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Thu 01/26/17 01:04 AM
Edited by Duttoneer on Thu 01/26/17 01:15 AM

If he requests a loan of money from you it's probably a scam,(you never send money to anyone you have only met online),if not, nothing wrong in finding out if he is genuine by chatting online. There is no need for you to commit to meeting him until you feel comfortable in doing so, you move at your own pace and don't be rushed, if he is real and interested in you he will wait, fakes/scammers move on quickly most of the time. A Skype type video call is a good idea.

Welcome to Mingle2 and Good Luck.

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Thu 01/26/17 06:56 PM




Well sounds a bit too fast for me but obviously you are here asking so you are unsure but hey, what is normal anyhow? Have you chatted face to face? Skype etc? Facetime? If he is going too fast tell him lol

We haven't tried Skype or Facetime yet. But he seems serious, too serious actually to have me invited to go to his country this summer. Though, this whole thing is too fast and its kinda freaking me out.

Go to his country? Be very careful, girl! Trade in girls/woman is still alive and kicking to date...

I know right. Its just crazy.

I say don't walk, RUN AWAY from this as fast as you can. Anyone who is trying to close the deal that fast has got serious problems or is most likely as scammer.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 01/26/17 07:11 PM
But he seems serious, too serious actually to have me invited to go to his country this summer.



Monica's photo
Fri 01/27/17 02:37 PM
If they need papwrs to stay in the country. They will ask that fast. be carefull. Go qith your gut feeling

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Fri 01/27/17 03:44 PM

Is it normal for a man to ask a woman to be his girl just after chatting and talking for only two weeks?


No... not normal at all. Nobody knows anyone after just 2 weeks... watch you pocketbook.

msharmony's photo
Fri 01/27/17 04:27 PM
as 'normal' as it is for him to ask her to stay overnight with him after a few drinks at a bar

just depends upon compatible desires and goals

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Fri 01/27/17 05:20 PM
she asked if it was normal for her to be is girl after 2 weeks

A one night stand is not " being his girl".. it is a few drinks and a f***

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