ok so this is partially for catharsis on my part. (i.e. purging of emotions). but i was so so dumb last night, i drank more than i intended and text messaged a girl i'm really into on here and said some really dumb things that aren't like me at all. hell i don't even remember doing it. now i'm really anxious that i screwed things up. whether i did or not, its how i feel. i mean..i don't know what to do besides say i'm sorry and explain how i was inebriated. any other thoughts? and girls out there, what would you do if you were just meeting a guy and he messaged you like a moron telling you he was at a house with two strippers (incidentally they are friends who do it for a living, i don't goto strip clubs) or later that you were home and sexually frustrated but into her so not sleeping with anyone? its just not me either..i don't sleep around or anything...or that she had me if she didn't screw things up by being a ****...lord i would never say these things sober...i can't believe i drank that much...ok..help ladies..opinions? sorry for the novella, but i needed to get that all out.

personally, I don't buy the inebriation excuse. It's just that...and excuse to apologize for doing something that you were aware could be wrong in the first place.

Then again...I'm a bytch...and still single..so don't listen to me. lol

Hate to say it man, while i sympathize, Drunk is not an excuse. your still responsible as well as liable for your actions. no matter what story you give it. its her you have to convince for another chance, not the rest of the members here.

Talk it out with her. and learn from this, while drunk dialing or drunk texting can be fun, it is just like drunk driving, .. eventually your luck will run out.


just my 2 cents. now i am back out.

Being drunk will screw alot of things up...

Sounds like you stpped in it big time. People when intoxicated tend to show thier true personality. That's been my experience dealing with people during security assignments.

Alot of truth tends to come out when a person is drunk. With the inhibitions lowered, one is much more likely to express things that might be better left unsaid. I don't know how long you have been acquainted with the lady in question, but were it me, it would turn me off and make me wonder about your stability.

Being drunk ****s widd your head and can reuin alot of things in your life...But still you did the crime now you have to deal with the consequences

just for a response here..i'm kinda perplexed here, everyone seems to think i am not taking responsibility for being drunk. i didn't mean its an excuse, but it is an explanation. incidentally, it didn't screw things up, she was nervous about what she said too.

oh and yes, there is some truth in drunkenness, but i think its revelatory in regard to impulses and desires, though i don't think that's the sum total of thought nor would it constitute truth. it would simply reveal my impulsive, baser desires. but i think truth of a person is also partially their thoughts and feelings that are created from a sober mind. i mean i agree that its easier to trust someone's words because they are less able to be dishonest, but that is not the same as saying its who they are.

and yes i am responsible for my actions, for being drunk and dumb.

being drunk only lowers the inhibitions

on the things you want to do anyway