Topic: confused
adamxa's photo
Fri 11/09/07 01:53 PM
so i asked out and girl and she said no. which i was cool about it. so i decided to ask someone else to see a movie and they said yes. and now the first girl wont quit bugging me and asking me where i am and who i am with.
and also keeps asking when am i going to give her a chance..
i think she wants me now, knowing she cant have me.

why do people play those games of confusion.?
ohwell


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Fri 11/09/07 01:55 PM
don't play the game ,run for the hills
she's carry a big knife , read your own post

Wishin's photo
Fri 11/09/07 01:55 PM
People always seem to Not want something until someone else has it

lolita4luv's photo
Fri 11/09/07 01:56 PM
ask a doctor.....

dhutch9's photo
Fri 11/09/07 01:57 PM
Don't play the game. You'll end up without either girl.

adamxa's photo
Fri 11/09/07 02:06 PM
im not playing games, i just wanted to hang out as friends with the first girl. i guess i should have made that more clear in the first post.

and of course who calls me after i post this asking "where are you ,what are you doing"??
hmm i wonder haha

she makes me happy im single right now.

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Fri 11/09/07 02:24 PM
ur gonna do what you want
don't say you were forewarned
you 'll come crying again how she hurt you

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Fri 11/09/07 02:26 PM
doen't anyone go with their gut feelings any more ?

whats your gut telling you?

CaRisLOVE's photo
Fri 11/09/07 02:29 PM
cause some people are just too greedy

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Fri 11/09/07 03:35 PM
ya like me i want them all fill my mailbox boys laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh just kidding i can't handle more than one at a time anyways

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Fri 11/09/07 04:39 PM
i don't know...she is playing games...just stay away from her

mbcasey's photo
Fri 11/09/07 05:49 PM
umm.......what is wrong with dating both of them? Not at the same moment, but see which one is more to your liking, have more in common with, etc. Then, if you choose to see one exclusively, you can make an informed choice. Good luck to you!

UWannaBSpontaneous's photo
Fri 11/09/07 05:55 PM
Depends on why she said no..... If it was to get rid of you and then ask you back that's borderline.... Don't mess with it. If she said no cause she was thinking she had other commitments maybe she deserves a chance.....

But then sounds like you really aren't that interested so I'd tell her again that you just wanna be freinds for now.

That's easy enough

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Fri 11/09/07 05:59 PM
I agree with mbcasey...why can't you date both of them? Just don't sleep with either one of them...when you cross that line then you have pretty much made it clear who you want to be with. I see nothing wrong with dating more then one person until you find the one that is right for you.
You are young, there is no reason to tie yourself down to just one person. Go out and have fun!! Good luck flowerforyou

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Fri 11/09/07 07:04 PM
I'm just going to put it out there that we all do this. Its human nature to want what we cant have. She wanted the chase probably. If you acted into her it was way to easy. I'm like that to be honest. If a guy is WAY into me then I split but the guy that makes me chase is the one I want. Just tell her you just want to be friends. its easier to just put it out there.

ksrover's photo
Sat 11/10/07 07:04 AM
Some people like to play the mind games like that. Sometimes it can be fun - if you know how to play. But for the majority, it's nothing but trouble! Like what PrtyMuchAmazing said - be open with her about what you're wanting.

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Sat 11/10/07 07:15 AM
Choices....

We all have then to make in life. I agree...go out with both of them, but don't pit one against the other. You young, who says at your age....or any age that you have to be exclusive to just one? You have plenty of time to make up your mind who you want to be with.....

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Sat 11/10/07 07:24 AM
Then tell her to she had her turn and if she wants a go, get in the que like everyone else bigsmile