What is the MOST important date; the first one or the second one?

Thanks for comments

Getting to that second date, of course.

Well the first one determines if there will be a second date and so on and so forth. I think the.last one is the most important of them all.

the last one

The second one . You should both know what your likes are and plan something fun to do .

second of course
for it means you want to see him again

The first date of course. Simply because without it there can't be a second date. The first determines whether or not you will want to see each other again.

All dates are important.
Ranking them IMO minimizes any that aren't considered the "most."

I'm still struggling with the instructions.
If my thought is a single flow with many branches and eddys. Can I start a second flow?

Oh I'm in need of further clarification.
Is the first date conception or birth?

Is the second date death?

While I ponder I shall go and eat some dates, probably three all equally delicious.

it's always the first one.

the first impression
the first conversation
the first look
the first laugh

these are merely few I considered as gauge if there could be second..third date or perhaps forever.

In general the 2nd. Had plenty of 1st dates, not 2nd dates. 1st dates can be disappointing, 2nd date not so much otherwise you wouldn't go on a 2nd date.

For me right now the 3rd date is more important as that is yet to come

First date goes to discover the most visible points of a person
Second date goes to confirm these ones as real ones

Simple as that

Even the Elephant man could muster up a 1st date...

yeh but yeh but yeh but
Which is the most important?

The first one, the anticipation, hoping things go well.

Very clever Jazz, and a great play on words. You already put the answer to your opinion in your topic line… think “TWICE” before answer. Both the first and second dates become one. So if I’m reading you right, you form an opinion of the person on the first date and then confirm that opinion on the second. Making them both the most important. Unless of course the person is a total derp and totally not what you expected, in which case you would probably end it quickly and wouldn’t call it a first date anyway. But to be fair, (especially if you felt a connection), you should date the person at least twice to form a proper understanding and opinion of the person. Like what happens if the person just has a bad case of gas and is too embarrassed to say anything about it on the first date? They’d be sitting there all uncomfortable, squirming around, making faces etc. You would probably form the opinion that they were really weird unfairly. But on the second date they didn’t act like that at all and you had a total gas, (no pun intended), you may have just given yourself a chance for happiness. However if they start acting the same way on the second date, again end it quickly and RUN! If that’s what your trying to convey, then I do agree with your opinion.