If you could change one thing about yourself or your life TODAY....

What would it be?

My tendency to procrastinate on major decisions.

i've long been wanted to be a mum

I would keep my life exactly the same, but I would like to get a new hairstyle....yup....

my location..

moving soon and just can't wait!

I would change my procrastination....I have no clue why I do it.


Maybe I'll change it tomorrow.

I like who I am and where I'm at ...

so if I would change one thing .....
I guess it would be to stop taking baby steps and really get myself back out there to find the man of my dreams to share my life with...

I would go back seven years and stay there

I have a casual "by the way" demeanor usually. That's not "usually" a problem. I like to Host, make folks feel at ease, be the one to diffuse awkward social situations, make friendly acquaintances easy, etc.

This casual (by the way...that's just the way it is) approach has served well in structured debate also.

However, "interpersonally" not so much. I don't "argue" well!!!....(even though in my head "I" am the one being calm). It's not that I don't listen, but I've heard it the minute the (well meaning) retort leaves my lips.....

The "casual thing" can come across...snide, authoritarian know it all, conscending, at times apathetic, not necessarily cold but indifferent, etc., not pretty

I'd like to not do this! I'm not a ranter nor do I blow my top...except RARELY when I am, and do....and then it's Ballistic!!!! I'd like not to do that either!

I don't know the answer. Perhaps a bit more fire in the "maintenance disagreements"?

I like be "engaged" with the person I care about and not SOUND like I am looking down my nose at them.

...and I'd like to finish just one project that I have star

Me not being a widower.

Now I feel like a blathering fool for my silly little worries.

I'm so sorry, David.

I tend to procrastinate on little issues, everyday things. Like laundry.

Big decisions, an emergency , a disaster & I am " good to go ".

I guess I hate mundane

You have the ability to work this one out, Beach. Use your brain, logic, psychology etc.
Is it who you are, part of your personality, or is it who (how) you have become because of life's circumstances? If the latter, the cause is usually to be found in (early) childhood.
Asking yourself questions beginning with why, where, when, how can help you get deeper and deeper.
Start with: why do I do this? what am I trying to hide? What do I really feel inside that causes me to react that way? Where do I feel that in my body? Does my stomach cramp up? Do my insides cringe? -please don't answer that, lol, too much information-. When did I feel that way before? Then go back in time, back back further back till you find where you felt that way the very first time and see what happened in that situation. That's the cause and the 'cure' can be found there too.
Dig in, dig deep. You got the ability to do that, if you really want to sort it...
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Big hug, David!

oh David,so sorry about that..

Id pick the powerball numbers right.

Oh! Sory about that sir.David

My ability to say no. I am so nice to everyone....until you tick me off about five times.