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Topic: who has your back....??
adivorcedone's photo
Mon 07/11/16 02:04 PM
Being on this site has taught me quite a few things....and you can say the same, most likely.... But there comes a time when you find yourself alone, ,helpless, confused, and in need of advice, verification, validation or whatever.....who has your back, who can you turn to, who will u confide in, who will set ya straight....etc...A friend from this site or a relative or an ex or a BFF or your local witch doctor...Who?
Whats your story, and do you care to share, briefly....

soufiehere's photo
Mon 07/11/16 02:28 PM

Strangely enough, tis 2 friends I have on here,
known them both mmm since about 2010..we share every day.

They are both straightforward, kind, witty but most
important, they both have deep hearts. One I have met many
times and the other, well we be sisters from another mister..
or something like that.

There is something about bonding with people who do not see
you as an agenda that is appealing and lasting :-)

no photo
Mon 07/11/16 02:35 PM
My Chiropractor has my back... :laughing:

On the serious side, I have learned there are some crazy funny people here and a ton of bots and fakes here... I love watching my match number go up and down and up and down... I have not been here long enough to really know who has my back or who I can turn to, be it a Guy or a Gal. There have been a few members that seem to be really nice here that I have had some communications with but at this point in time I couldn't say if they really have my back or not... There are a couple that I suspect I could lean on but until they stick with you in tough times to assist you, you never really know.

I will say I am always open to listen to anyone that needs to vent or talk with someone (Guy or Gal). I would hope I am the type of person to respect all other users and be a friend if needed. That's what I would hope they would be for me too...

My 2 cents...

And dOne, I respect your post and comments. They can be very serious and funny which helps to make this an enjoyable site. Hope you find what you are looking for here.

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Mon 07/11/16 02:37 PM
Nobody, unfortunately. Nobody at all. Can't say I blame them entirely, though. I'm not really handsome and I don't have any money. I don't see much of a future with women here or anywhere. I'm not sure why I'm still here. Maybe out of desperation. Or maybe just for the stupid subjects in the forums, I don't know. But no one's "got my back" as far as I know. Maybe they do and they're just holding it from me, not revealing themselves until some "unspecified time in the future". But I don't think so.

BreakingGood's photo
Mon 07/11/16 02:42 PM
Edited by BreakingGood on Mon 07/11/16 03:07 PM
I've had many people "have my back"


RustyKitty's photo
Mon 07/11/16 02:59 PM
hmmm, no-one anymore these days. but I have lots of friends who would help me, if asked,.. depending upon what/when it was...ya know how that goes..

darkowl1's photo
Mon 07/11/16 03:11 PM
I wouldn't wish that on anyone....to have my back. And I don't want it. Many times as of late, they would have perished if they tried, and I wouldn't have been able to live mentally with that... I had to make those journeys alone...

From awhile ago, on, if I can't handle it, with the incredible new lease on life I have, I deserve to rot, slow and painful. A few people have had my back in the long ago past, and I'm beyond thankful!... more than they will ever know!

I study the up-side down, ever increasing pyramid of knowledge and wisdom, and as they fit together, they are completely separate entities and I am stunned much at how I know nothing, and am less than a speck in the grand scheme of it, and totally at one with it... giddy almost at times... honored to be that useless nothing... what a grand privilege it is to me!

Since I have made patience my ally and perseverance my tool, Integrity, my shield, and my worthlessness(and my comfort in being so), my sword... with absolutely nothing to lose, I'm just thankful that I'm above ground, and I have no complaints...

And VERY THANKFUL AND HUMBLE TO BE EXISTING STILL...

And.... I have been below ground in the sand... not much fun... but... I'm still here, walking this land on Five Fingers(Vibram), despite the many incredible times I shouldn't be here, both on domestic and foreign soils or sands. These tests of life, broke my "give a Phuck and fear buttons", as nothing could have ever come close in my opinion to what took place. After that, anything that tried was actually laughable...BUT... Every minute is precious. Right now is precious! It's amazing to be an infinitesimal breeze, meandering through eternity, and pick up a morsel here or there to marvel in it, and learn from it, then set it gently down, hoping it might help another...

Godsfriend10's photo
Mon 07/11/16 04:12 PM
Edited by Godsfriend10 on Mon 07/11/16 04:17 PM
For me its Empress Sassyeuro2.
I like to call her EMPRESS that's her title on M2 forum because of her amazing inputs on the forum. She makes so much of the threads.We share lots of ideas and if need be will not hesitate to defend her kid bro from another mom.Lol.
Thumpsup to ya Empress!:thumbsup:

TMommy's photo
Mon 07/11/16 04:14 PM
no one

Goofball73's photo
Mon 07/11/16 05:05 PM
God is my co-pilot!

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 07/11/16 06:29 PM
Anyone who wants my back can have it. That way I would experience less pain.

no1phD's photo
Mon 07/11/16 07:46 PM

On mingle .. No.1 has always had my back .. Without a doubt . Right from the start .. he was and is my best friend on this site . From day one .. we shared an instant connection .. Like two peas in a pod .. And that has never changed . Always my knight in shining armour .. Sometimes my partner in crime .. laughing .. though usually i was the one serving time and he was the one visiting with a file baked in a cake . no matter the situation .. he makes me laugh and smile . He is one of the reasons I continue on mingle .. And milo of course ..i adore that puppy too !!!! To my best friend ..as a small thank you.. I am sending you a supply of nz oak tree seeds .. Laughing .. Your future Kleenex supply .. Just in case you still have the need .. Laughing xoxox


..awww back at you sweetie pie..wink.wink.... and to be honest as far as back's go..... yours is a pretty nice one to have.. to look out for..wink wink..lol

msharmony's photo
Mon 07/11/16 07:52 PM
an ex boxer brother and uncle
a demolitions expert brother
a feisty independent mother with a gun
and many more family members all over the country and the globe

family always has each others back and always will

no1phD's photo
Mon 07/11/16 07:52 PM
... now as far as myself goes..
Hmm.. I am fortunate to have a great support group around me.. of family and friends... some friends online some friends offline.... my father was a rock I would lean on from time to time.. but he is no longer with us..
My oldest sister was another rock..
Who I cold crash upon from time to time.. but she is no longer with us..
. So I have learned to pick myself up on my own... but on those days where my own advice is not received well..lol..
I refer to those people... I consider my friends... a big shout-out to Chris..
Tamara....and B... and all the north side boys..... and those of you online..
Who have always supported me..
And stood behind me... when others were trying to put the knife in my back... well... words of gratitude and thank you.. just don't seem to be enough... and the list is too long to mention names.... but to each and everyone of you my sincerest thank you..flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Mon 07/11/16 08:06 PM
who has your back....?

OMG! I had no idea it was missing!

My mom got my nose once....once.

Being on this site has taught me quite a few things

That statement should scare you.

you can say the same, most likely

No.

there comes a time when you find yourself alone, ,helpless, confused, and in need of advice, verification, validation or whatever.....who has your back

If I'm alone...then I have to have my own back.

If I happen to be by myself, then I stop being by myself...then I have friends and family. Community.
Or civilization...

That's kind of the point of all that.

who can you turn to, who will u confide in

Depends on what I need and how accurately I identify that need.

who will set ya straight

Pretty much anyone.

doctor...Who?

Are you calling me retardis?

do you care to share

It would just be posturing, otherwise it would have absolutely no meaning to you.
So, no.

soufiehere's photo
Mon 07/11/16 08:11 PM

who has your back....?

OMG! I had no idea it was missing!
My mom got my nose once....once.

hahahahahahahahahaha
My grandfather used to 'get' my nose every time
I saw him, we would laugh and laugh, thank you
for reminding me of this :-)

BabyJo75's photo
Mon 07/11/16 11:05 PM
I've learned that I have friends as long as they can benefit from it, they'll hang around. For Example: When that flood hit us in West Virginia, and water was up to the waist and higher in your hometown, in your house, neighbors house, and nothing you can do by cry. Long story short, when the water finally went down, it left nothing but mud. I couldn't have stayed at my place, so I asked a friends..that I worked with or I've known for years. Not one person, let me stay for about a week, not one person offered to help clean up the community. That pissed me off, they was supposed to have my back, as I would have theirs. Moral of the story, when all is going awesome, you'll have friends, but crash n fall just one time....you're left alone.

no1phD's photo
Mon 07/11/16 11:15 PM
Awww..^^ I will help you clean the mud of your things....hmmm...I will tell you what !you start in the kitchen.and I will...wash ...your laundry..
Ok...now give me what you have on..it's got mud on it....lol..wink...jk..lol..

no1phD's photo
Mon 07/11/16 11:17 PM
WHAT !!@.. just trying to get her back...be helpful....lol..:angel: winking

Annierooroo's photo
Tue 07/12/16 06:08 AM
Who has my back?
I have a number of people on here that have supported me when I needed it.
Encouraged. Loving, caring, Given me good advice, even kicked my backside when called for.
I appreciate you all. You know who you are.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
love :heart: flowers

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