"You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfectly person perfectly!"

I'm sorry
That I was raised with respect;
not to sleep with you when you were drunk

I'm sorry
That my body's not ripped enough
to "satisfy" your wants

I'm sorry
that I open your car door,
and pull out your chair like I was raised

I'm sorry
That I'm not cute enough
to be "your guy"

I'm sorry
That I am actually nice;
not an asshole

I'm sorry
Forgiveness is only a one way street

I'm sorry
I don't have a huge bank account
to buy you expensive things

I'm sorry
I like to spend quality nights at home
cuddling with you, instead of at a club

I'm sorry
I would rather make love to you then just f**k you
like some random guy.

I'm sorry
That I am always the one you need to talk to,
but never good enough to date

I'm sorry
That I call to check up on you when your sick and no one else will.

I'm sorry
That I always held your hair back when you threw up,and didn't get mad at you for puking in my car,
but when we went out you went home with another guy


I'm sorry
That I am there to pick you up at 4am when your new man hit you and dropped you off in the middle of nowhere,
but not good enough to listen to me when I need a friend

I'm sorry
that i loved you, but was a minute too late, and you moved on as if i was nothing

I'm sorry
If I start not being there, and being used as a door mat, only to be thrown to the side when the new asshole comes around

I'm sorry
If I don't answer my phone anymore when you call, to listen to you cry for hours, instead of getting a couple hours of sleep before work

I'm sorry that you can't realize.. I've been the one all along.


I'm sorry
If you read this and know somebody like this
but don't care But most of all

I'm sorry
For not being sorry anymore

I'm sorry
That you can't accept me for who I am

Ladies always ***** and ***** to their friends that there is never any good guys out there anymore, and they always end up with assholes who treat them bad. Well ladies next time your *****ing, maybe look up to see who your *****ing too, maybe that special someone is right there hanging on your every word like usual, screaming in his head "why don't you give me a try?"
Because the person you are usually searching for is right by you.

Sadly all this is true, but yet girls still go for the guys that dont care ****less for them......

WELL SAID

BUT THAT'S THE WAY IT HAS BEEN & ALWAYS WILL BE

Dude - you need better boundaries. When you put up with all that crap, you act like you don't deserve any respect. If you don't act like you deserve to be respected, why should I respect you? I think I can imagine how you feel, though, because I have always been the one to make the extra effort, to do the nice things for my guy without reciprocation, etc. Seriously, do some reading on boundaries in relationships.

I'm sorry I read that

Im sorry I like to speak my mind!?!?!!?!?!?!

You are root deprived......spiders are crawling out of your ears

its only been a year since my gf moved away and we broke up, sheesh makes me feel old or something.

i hate generalizations

only a year? that is close to being a decade lol

I THINK YOU SHOULD MOVE ON

Apology accepted, just don't let it happen again.

LauraJ-Are you talking to me?

why are you sorry for a woman's attention that you've never had?

sounds like she turns your stomach.

you've never tasted the fruit of a woman twisted from the cradle?

she likes men that have her back and know where she was!!

too many realities in the jungle for white bread and Volvos..

lotta gotta and no woulda shoulda coulda.

I'm sorry that you spent so much time pouring your little heart out while relating a frustratingly common problem, but nobody cares how hurt you've been or cares about CHANGING this problem not just for you, but for all of male-kind.

Obviously you've had your heart-broken, but I gotta say your post smacks of desperation. You're 18, dude...get a grip...you let the bitterness direct your life then you're in for more of the same.

Sheesh, give the guy a break. Unrequited love sucks. Most of us have been there.

Everyone has to learn how it is at some time or another. He'll get over it - he just has to get it out. Don't beat him up over it.

=P

That wasnt directed at my ex, we broke up becuase she moved. That was understandable, I wrote that becuase theres a girl I hang out with all the time that would rather test the field with so called "hotties" so I guess im going to have to wait till she realizes that their unsatafying and looks right underneath her nose to find me. And these are just some myspace bullitens, lol I just found them to be true thats why I poseted them to see what others think.

ahhhhh sounds like to me that your on the friends list............with that particular person......

RobT - listen to what brvereenie says and don't take some of the responses personally.

Why are you going to wait to date someone whom you don't like when it comes to their choices of dating people? You can either be a real friend to her without expectations, or find someone else that is more agreeable to you that can return your feelings and you'll be much happier.

Being a woman's friend and thinking you deserve more than friendship for it = setting yourself up for failure.