Topic: Does this happen often to others as well?
Ising's photo
Fri 11/02/07 09:17 PM
Yep it has happened to me too!!! It really is hard because you want to be honest and lay your heart out there, but then it gets hurt! It really is hard to try and figure out some guys. They constantly give mixed messages (I really like you, your so different and special,I could just sit and talk to you for hours and be totally content....) but then they say I don't want a commitment. I feel like a yoyo. Then they wonder why we have a trust issue!!!!

Gams's photo
Fri 11/02/07 09:17 PM
and those are the BEST starts, for the record wouldee, glad you got to experience that....obviously you still have fond memories...!!! bigsmile bigsmile

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Fri 11/02/07 09:19 PM
So what about women that do this? Are they pigs too?

wouldee's photo
Fri 11/02/07 09:21 PM
naw, BBF... they're called gold-diggers laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Fri 11/02/07 09:25 PM
Well, what if all they get is sex or a hook up and no money is involved and the guy wants to take it further and they ignore? Let me guess most women still think the guy is a pig and the woman is just not interested

wouldee's photo
Fri 11/02/07 09:27 PM
in that case.... he wasn't that good!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

ShagnaC's photo
Fri 11/02/07 09:29 PM
Yes his wife passed away, so I knew he was not ready to commit and that was okay with me as I was not either, but to just poof was wrong. Then to find out he has another date this weekend. I am not going to knock this man as he was very nice, I just think he has a lot on his plate, But again this is not the first time it has happen to me. explode

bluebell's photo
Fri 11/02/07 09:30 PM
its happened to me a few times but i have done it as well or i guess i am a pig

ShagnaC's photo
Fri 11/02/07 09:33 PM
I have stoped talking to a man online if there is no interest but why would I go on a second or third date if I was not interested, that is what doesnt make sense to me.

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Fri 11/02/07 09:34 PM
yes all men are pigs but dont be a hater

ShagnaC's photo
Fri 11/02/07 09:36 PM
I am not a hater, I try not to judge all men as the same, but men can not be pissed when women have their guard up either.

bbbutterscotch's photo
Fri 11/02/07 10:11 PM
I don't get pissed because women have their guard up...right away. It's when two years have passed in the relationship and they still expect me to cheat on them with the first hot thing to look my way that it pisses me off.

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Fri 11/02/07 10:15 PM
its not you, it is just one of them things...better that way than to hear his pathetic excuse if he wanted out

mikecom21hotmaiL's photo
Fri 11/02/07 11:45 PM


__ they may be chasing some other tale and getting some___

Both sexes are way too confusing to me, thats a reason Too

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Fri 11/02/07 11:47 PM
Yeah the dude got what he wanted

CaRisLOVE's photo
Fri 11/02/07 11:56 PM
women do tha same
so to be fair
some humans are just too greedy and fool others well
we must not give into their games and foolish ways

Wolfeyes58's photo
Sat 11/03/07 01:12 AM
Shag, it happened to me too from this very site only I didn't get to go as far as you did. We talked online, we exchanged cell #'s, we met, and poof, she was gone. Never answered my emails, never told me why, so it left me with the idea I wasn't worth the looksee. Talk about giving the cold shoulder.

FalconGTHO's photo
Sat 11/03/07 01:21 AM
Yes, they just want ass. You didnt put out fast enough. OR, they determined that if they DID bang, youd be up their azz like a proctologist.

Yes, it IS you. For ANYone, the common denominator among ALL failed encounters, relationships, etc, w/e, is YOU.

FalconGTHO's photo
Sat 11/03/07 01:23 AM
Wish we had an edit function. Youre picking douchy guys. Reevaluate. What you want, what you like is attached to douchebag chitheads. Most likely, your aiming for the looks. If so, then this behavior should NOT be ANY sort of surprise.

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Sat 11/03/07 01:29 AM
There will be no fool if there is no one to be fooled.

I just think that's a clear statement huh