●Don’t shout at your wife when you are talking. It really hurts her. (Proverbs 15:1)
●Do not speak evil of her to anyone. Your wife will become who you call her. (Gen. 2:19)
●Do not share her love or affection with another woman. It is called Adultery. (Matt. 5:28)
●Never compare your wife to another woman. If the other woman was good for you, God would have given her to you. (2 Cor. 10:12)
●Don’t ever allow her to beg you for sex. She owns your body just as you own her body. (1 Cor. 7:5)
●Be gentle and accommodating. She has sacrificed so much to be with you. It hurts her deeply when you are hash and irritating. Be tender. (Eph. 4:2)
●Hide nothing from her. You are now one and she’s your helpmeet. Let there be no secret you are keeping from her. (Gen. 2:25)
●Do not make negative comment about her body. She risked her life and beauty to carry your babies. She is a living soul not just flesh and blood.
●Do not let her body determine her worth. Cherish and appreciate her even till old age. (Eph. 5:29)
●Never shout at her in the public and in private. If you have an issue to sort with her, do it in the privacy of your room. (Matt. 1:19)
●Thank and appreciate her for taking good care of you, the kids and the house. It is a great sacrifice she is making. (1 The 5:18)
●All women cannot cook the same way; appreciate your wife’s food. It is not easy to cook three meals a day, 365 days a year for several years. (Pro. 31:14)
●Never place your siblings before her. She is your wife. She is one with you. She must come before your family. (Gen. 2:24)
●Invest seriously in her spiritual growth. Buy books, tapes and any material that will edify her and strengthen her walk with God. That’s the best thing you can do for her. (Eph. 5:26)
●Spend time with her to do Bible study and pray. (James 5:16)
●Make time to play with her and enjoy her company. Remember when you are dead, she’s gonna be by your grave but your friends may be too busy to attend your funeral. (Ecc. 9:9)
●Never use money to manipulate or control her. All your money belongs to her. She is a joint heir with you of the grace of God. (1 Pet. 3:7)
●Do not expose her weakness. You will be exposing yourself too. Be a shield around her. (Eph. 5:30)
●Honour her parents and be kind to her siblings. (SOS 8:2)
●Never cease to tell her how much you love her all the days of her life. Women are never tired of hearing that. (Eph. 5:25)
●Grow to be like Jesus. That’s the only way you can be a good and godly husband. (Rom. 8:29)

Courtesy of a pastor.

Wow UML, this is really great. This pastor sounds like a good guy! You should ask him out!

...this is great...(really)...perhaps Islam peeps will figure it out ...the bad ones..not meaning to offend all the peaceful ones ...

You lost me right up to the all your money belongs to her part..
Yeah!!! right!

Shouldn't this be in Christian Singles, with all the Scripture notations ?

Then the battle of interpretation' & which Bible.? . Can begin

Matthew 7:1-3
John 8:7

Don't believe everything you read.

I have always been partial to
Ephesians 5:25-27

And in saying this I believe the wife should do the same

Now the ultra scary part is the name wife or husband...

That's why I never come to a complete stop at a 4 way.

YOu kidding me? You got that far!!
The only word I've seen was "Funeral" somewhere near the end. Lost interest then and there.
I'm not into biblical, churchy stuff anyways.

If you have to give your money to the missus, maybe it's a Scientology spin-off?

Easy Tom Cruise

Very hilarious and interesting insights, thought line, outbursts.... I love the forums!

We started the journey to discover what women want or need. It's a brainstorming one. I think we are doing well in these sessions. Man species with their note books lol.

For every post shared, take home options could be three...
A full package .
Selective learning.
Simply have fun.

May I please add....i see the writer or source of wisdom is like a packaging or avenue, the contents is what is important. Let's be flexible and accommodating for the sake of those willing and able to learn.

Keep sharing, keep learning, keep having fun! The emotions will fluctuate along the learning curve.....

Oh, I'm all up for learning & growing, personal growth etc. etc.
I'm just not into the Bible, Toras etc., religion & church doctrine.

Wait a minute...

Isn't it the men that do all the begging for sex?

Don't the women just kinda hop on and take a ride , once the horse trots into the stable?

I think it used to be sort of like that. These days men have headaches. More often than women

You mean on top of all the other stress, I have to beg my mate for sex too????

Damn Crystal..

Clearly I've been away from the relationship scene for way too long

Nah, you got it right Peggy, just hop on, things like that will never change lol

Pancho 10:4
Yer not the boss of me.