well im not gonna play their sad games anymore
and yea some girls are still worth it
at least they are honest

and i wasnt being negative on how girls are
just asking if anyone else has been through this
other than dat , if you gotta rant then say your dues
but dont have keep being negative about it

Yep...you want to hear what you want to hear...good luck with that..

Straight up.

who is lying about what??? and when and where??? I need more info.....

Hope you weren't holding your breath Gypsy, one could pass out waiting..

Gypsy, it seems we got here late.

However, Caris, I have got to agree with Sin, you are still in your 20's and are young. Don't get upset with your youth. Enjoy it!

Step back and rest awhile. You will find someone that is interested in you for you and the feelings will be mutual.

A special man in my life said to me when we met..."Friends first, then let it breathe."

So on that thought, have fun, be safe, and enjoy the ride.

M

thanks michele
but still to be labeled as young isnt right
other that dat, i wil ljust have to see how far a girl really know wat she wants, and not get into any of those games
im a sucker for a girl who shows she is sweeet but turns out to really be my worst nightmare
it is a weakness i will admit
but yea i shall find dat girl who is worth enough to even be with me
<3

YOU ARE YOUNG, YOUNG, YOUNG. As far as I am concerned, if you are a week younger than me, you are YOUNG!

Chalk the bad times up to life experiences. Learn from them if possible.

Get out there and meet people. And remember to enjoy yourself.

And one day, the girls that were your worst nightmares, you will remember fondly....maybe.

Hugs to you for spellng my name right! M

well im just not gonna be fooled anymore
and im goin to have tha backbone to also ask wat i want

not just girls, guys can not be straight up either...
there are all types of people

you got nice legs lol

thank you

you are soooo welcome lol O_O
<3

men and women will always play games...its life and that will never change.

Ooooh, Michele - I loved what you said about friends first. But some of us have problems holding back and BREATHING, which seems to contribute to this issue we are discussing. Any suggestions on how to chill for those of us who are hot and fast? lol.

here is my thoughts on this whole new dating situation that I am in again
Hi my name is............ I have no Expectations of where
I will end up and with who at this time. I look forward to meeting new people I do like Being some kind of friend first take some time to get to know who ever it is and then see where it goes from there.

(and the meeting new people is a generalization it doesn't mean that I want to date tons of men)
when those connections of attraction or a spark of feeling pop into our heads we usually know it
we don't always know about the other person we are getting to know and thats where the fears and confusing aggravating mixed signals come into play.
I don't think that men or women set out to play games with a new person they meet. on both ends I do see how things can get complicated or confusing.
We all have different habits, beliefs ways that we ourselves Men and Women approach these situations,
I think that if people let themselves not have the huge expectation of a perfect future or put all their hopes into one box when they start the ball rolling on a possible new relationship things will work themselves out.
but thats just my view

to whoever started this thread I do wish you better luck in your next try to get to know someone