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Topic: Biggest Reason for breakup?
SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33269	Tue 05/10/16 02:45 AM
Wow I thought infidelity would be the popular choice here but money and lack of interest...amazing Most of the couples I have known, including those that divorced. Infidelity was not the reason. Same here... hardly ever hear about infidelity.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33269	Tue 05/10/16 02:48 AM
I think for me it's over when the relationship / he doesn't add anything to my life anymore. Basically a relationship should be about nurturing each other into growing and developing into more than you can be/are on your own. If instead it starts to drag you down or stops you from being you, from growing ... that's pretty much it.

Maxsterx Joined Mon 03/07/16 Posts: 2314	Tue 05/10/16 03:04 AM
She tasted funny.

Kathyzee Joined Fri 05/01/15 Posts: 1791	Tue 05/10/16 03:38 AM
She tasted funny. That's ur bfs scent

adivorcedone Joined Wed 08/12/15 Posts: 7591	Tue 05/10/16 03:40 AM
Lmao

Maxsterx Joined Mon 03/07/16 Posts: 2314	Tue 05/10/16 03:41 AM
She tasted funny. That's ur bfs scent Then I'll have to cut him loose too.

Kathyzee Joined Fri 05/01/15 Posts: 1791	Tue 05/10/16 03:48 AM
She tasted funny. That's ur bfs scent Then I'll have to cut him loose too. That's no loss to him :)

Maxsterx Joined Mon 03/07/16 Posts: 2314	Tue 05/10/16 04:16 AM
That's no loss to him :) He can keep her...I've got his leafblower. It probably does a better job than her anyway. I'll keep you posted.

Kathyzee Joined Fri 05/01/15 Posts: 1791	Tue 05/10/16 04:24 AM
No need for that post cuz we're busy:)

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4746	Tue 05/10/16 04:46 AM
There my be many reason for couples to go on their own merry way but mostly there is a pattern which get repeated. What do you think is the biggest reason for breaking up? When love leaves the relationship by one or both parties, because when that happens, and you cannot talk about saving the relationship, the sooner you break up and separate rather than prolong the agony the better in my opinion.

Imadbar16 Joined Tue 05/10/16 Posts: 2	Tue 05/10/16 06:01 AM
Cheating

mj00014 Joined Mon 05/09/16 Posts: 174	Tue 05/10/16 09:02 AM
There my be many reason for couples to go on their own merry way but mostly there is a pattern which get repeated. What do you think is the biggest reason for breaking up?[/quote too much fishing around... cheating.and some human who never grow up,..that's why I don't believe in age is the measure of maturity,

babykris6c Joined Tue 05/10/16 Posts: 2816	Tue 05/10/16 09:19 AM
falling out of love and no dedication

Jimmy_roy Joined Sun 11/15/15 Posts: 1121	Tue 05/10/16 10:17 AM
Wow I thought infidelity would be the popular choice here but money and lack of interest...amazing Most of the couples I have known, including those that divorced. Infidelity was not the reason. Same here... hardly ever hear about infidelity. Wow really...never heard of couples divorcing or moving apart because of cheating or an affair..You guys must be living in dreamland....it almost comes daily in mingle itself.

Jimmy_roy Joined Sun 11/15/15 Posts: 1121	Tue 05/10/16 10:26 AM
can lack of sex be another important reason? Is it same as lack of interest or cause of laziness?

sharpapex Joined Tue 05/10/16 Posts: 25	Tue 05/10/16 10:39 AM
Distance :(

Jimmy_roy Joined Sun 11/15/15 Posts: 1121	Tue 05/10/16 11:52 AM
Distance meaning long distance or mental distance???

Jimmy_roy Joined Sun 11/15/15 Posts: 1121	Tue 05/10/16 11:53 AM
She tasted funny. That's ur bfs scent Is it mingle or me? You were such a nice gal before

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33269	Tue 05/10/16 01:54 PM
can lack of sex be another important reason? Is it same as lack of interest or cause of laziness? Yes! It sure as hell can be (big part of it!)! Lack of it, but also not really matching between the sheets.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33269	Tue 05/10/16 01:59 PM
Another reason, that I don't think anyone's mentioned: the kids. My kids' father wasn't too nice to our son. The kids was suffering and as he got older, that got worse. When he was 10, 11 I decided I had to end the marriage, even if it was just for my son's sake. There were other things not working out, but the way he was -and always had been- towards our kids, and mostly our son, was the main reason my love for him died, bit by bit. And his behaviour resulted in our divorce.