Because you have your mail filters set too broad.

If you don't limit to local, you're pretty much saying "anyone."

Internet dating without distance filters is like standing on the side of a global highway holding a big sign that reads "Come Get Some."


Doesn't matter.
From their perspective.
You are on the internet.
You are not a guy or you have something they want.
You don't make real efforts to keep them from contacting you.
They're going to contact you.


The internet is a personal experience.
To each and every one of them as an individual you are on their internet.
To you they are on your internet making it more difficult for you to do what you want to do, control who you want to interact with.
Just because you are using your phone, or your computer, and maybe you're alone in your house staring at a screen, it's no different than stepping into a giant business out in public full of people.

Going on the internet is little different than using a public bathroom.
You may want to leave the doors open and talk to your friends standing outside but it just doesn't work that way.
Either shut the door, or realize people are going to be peeking at you and you can't control who.
At best you can make some stop by being mean but that doesn't keep new ones from coming by.

Don't ever date an Indian man..
unless you know where his mother lives
then you can blackmail him

Don't ever drink with Indian man..
cause he carries curry leaves
the drink can make you very weak

Don't ever wear that dress..
cause he will ask to lift it up
He likes to see what he is going to feel

the list is long
it's all there in Google
but as Jacktrades says
there are some exceptions..

like mememememe, i,i,i,i, memememe

shucks, don't ever date an older Man
because all you get
is a lot of advise.

Love is the feeling ,you feel deep down,uncontrolled emotions. Love is not to be worked at,its amazing and hurtful. Don't rush love
you may feel it right away or it may creep up on you. It can and is very powerful
you don't contorl love, love is blind & comes in so many ways,you will know when you find the 1. Your
Heart will say.

Off course there is.

I met someone some gorgeous people on here.

And fell in love with one of them,
now we live together.

Just don't give up, look for the right one.
And DON'T settle for anything less!


Good Luck

you and every other woman in here... i guess when there's a billion horny dudes with internet access, women will have that problem...

I would like to trade you.
I will give you 3 for 1 Indian....,
one clamins he is South African, one claims he is in Germany & one that claims he is in Italy, but can't speak Italian.


It is an international adventure & game of ' Lier Lier Pants On Fire'

Why is it when u go on an app like this 99% just want sex out of it?

It does...
And it can...
But one or both of you needs to travel and visit each other as often as possible...
And you need to have an end goal, with a time frame attached to it...

It does...
And it can...
But one or both of you needs to travel and visit each other as often as possible...
And you need to have an end goal, with a time frame attached to it...

I think some of the respondents in this thread are assuming that the distance in a long distance relationship is a permanent situation.

I only know of 2 long distance relationships that evolved into marriage , a family etc and in both cases, the woman moved to the man's country.

In one of those cases it took 4 years for the transfer to happen ,but ultimately moving to the other person's country is mandatory for such a relationship to work. There is no other way .

Distance meaning long distance or mental distance???

Yes you're right...it doesn't...a couple ought to be together no matter what barriers there are