I was wondering, you i am in a wheel chair right and the type of girls im intrested in, may be too beautiful for a guy like could this be true?

no! they will LOVE you for who you are..NOT your appearence!

You have the confidence...you'll get the girl!

just be yourself hon; wheelchair's got nothing to do with feeling and honesty between two people who care for one another.

hey there!!!


some girls like heavy metal!

seriously..... what is beautiful??? when you connect with someone heart to heart......wheel chairs, looks, income, even distance ...


won't matter at all

welcome to JSH!!!

a little mad , certainly addictive, and often one's home away from home

absolutely not...however if you're like most men they may be too dumb for you...welcome...b

tigman I spent 25 years in the U.S. Army. I have several buddies
that have ended up in Wheelchairs. For the most part it does not slow them down a bit in the ladies department. Attitude plays a big part of it. Dont think of yourself as handicapped. Stop to think a second, Supermodels not many regular guys get even close ot them. Face people well you would not spend to much time with them anyway. If you look around trust me there are a lot of ladies very good looking ones who will not think twice about going out with a guy who is sure of himself, honest and funny they wont see the Wheels. Go out there and have some fun.

retired -- very well said and you're very right

yes what he ^^^^ said...

Stephen Hawkins. Nerd incarnate. Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis - more going on than just being in a wheelchair.

Married, cheated on his wife. Divorced. Dating...

I don't know... probably not good to compare, but it's reality. And that guy gets around with the women...

Most of that happened before he became really famous too by the way.

Stephen Hawkings - misspelled his name. Oops.

ya know the girls that would be bothered by the fact that u are in a wheelchair don't deserve..the ones that aren't, well those are the ones you should keep around. best of luck to u.
Becca

You are a person first. Any disabilities are secondary.

I had a crush on someone who used a wheelchair. I knew that her laughter and charm were what I really took to and it didn't bother me that she was in a wheelchair. We danced and talked all night on several occassions because I liked her confidence as a person... not a disabled person. If it weren't for the long distance between us I might have pursued her. We remain freinds.

Just enjoy life and your pursuit of happiness. Make sure you have confidence in your ability to socialize and be a good person.

Here are a couple of sites I'm familiar with.

http://www.match.com/magazine/article2.aspx?articleid=5823

http://www.peopleonwheels.org

John

Hello Tigman ... I don't think that would matter to genuine people ... air heads maybe .... surely you are not looking for one of those. Just be yourself. Be proud of who you are no matter what your limitations are.

I think way too much is put on the outside package, and not enough on the inside. I was in an interesting chat last week about the way a person's weight affects their potential dates.

tig you are adorable! wheel chair or not...if someone cant see past that then they arent the kind of person you should be into.

you are you...and a wheelchair isnt going to change the fact that your an amazing person or if you were a jerk...ya kno?

hope your feeling better about all this :)

why are you in a wheelchair???

Totally agree - you're very cute. Anyone worth their salt won't care about the chair. :)

love is unconditional just keep being you

Would you want someone that was prejudiced against anyone?

Man, prejudiced is butt ugly!

...but...

You say you like beautiful girls, surely you must have another metric by which to judge women...

Anyone who goes only for beautiful girls is gonna get burnt, wheelchair or not!

My best friend is in a wheelchair--he does very well!! Go for it and good luck!!