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Topic: Questions to the Other Gender - The Things You really Wonder
peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Mon 04/04/16 01:25 PM
This is a GREAT thread B. !!! I don't have any questions for men right now , but I think I can explain some women's obsession with shoes. The average woman thinks that her body and face are very flawed. They think their boobs are too small or their stomach is too big or their lips are too thin etc. The list goes on forever...... And because of that, we have an ongoing battle with finding clothes that hide our flaws and make us LOOK and FEEL sexy or free. (This may also explain why we stand in front of a closet full of outfits and moan that we have nothing to wear . Sometimes if we are not feeling good about our bodies on that day, we worry that nothing in our closet will make us look and feel sexy or free And unlike the rest of the body, which often requires a lot of effort to beautify, our feet can be transformed to look sexy, and to make us FEEL sexy the minute it goes into the shoe of our dreams. There are some shoes when I put them on, that change my whole mood in that moment And then, from experience, the average woman then changes her mind the next day and we start all over again Different outfits or shoes make us feel different from one day to the next. It's kinda like food giantowl. Even if you love a particular meal, your tastebuds don't crave that same meal every day of the week. It changes according to the mood you are in

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10868	Mon 04/04/16 02:20 PM
currently own 5 pairs of shoes. None of them are heels. I've never used any kind of lotion with glitter.

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Mon 04/04/16 02:29 PM
currently own 5 pairs of shoes. None of them are heels. I've never used any kind of lotion with glitter. I'm sure you have something that you use which makes you feel desirable Cantinidaho, like a perfume or a shade of lipstick maybe, or a hair product?

adivorcedone Joined Wed 08/12/15 Posts: 7591	Mon 04/04/16 02:30 PM
Why is it an unwritten right for women to change their minds?

RebelArcher Joined Sat 08/02/14 Posts: 5247	Mon 04/04/16 02:35 PM Edited by RebelArcher on Mon 04/04/16 02:37 PM
If men like the feel and look of fake boobs ???????????????????? I didnt mind in the '80 when the fake ones resembled torpedoes...and I damn sure aint picky now...we wanna see and feel 'em all, theyre BOOBS! If there was such a thing as a fake penis .. Would they consider an implant lmao :-) Can you imagine the rush to the plastic surgeon's office? And the ensuing convo? Doc: "Mr. Williams, small, medium, or large?....Oh I'm KIDDING! They dont make small and medium" Why do some men have short attention spans :-) The first part of your first post....BOOBS!

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Mon 04/04/16 02:37 PM
Why is it an unwritten right for women to change their minds? Because if we documented that right in WRITING, you guys would make it illegal. Men make most of the laws, don't they?

RebelArcher Joined Sat 08/02/14 Posts: 5247	Mon 04/04/16 02:46 PM
How can the feel of rock hard breasts compare to the real thing . Because theyre the ones in hand NOW And yes Ms Blondey..we ARE really easy to please....bless our hearts. Still no smileys, eh?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 04/04/16 03:02 PM
My query to men..'Where do you go when a woman is talking?' Your face is still there, making appropriate wiggles. But we can see you have left the building. I think the movie Inside Out will give you a better understanding of this. Especially the scene where the Mom is signaling the dad at the dinner table (their daughter is in a foul mood and the mom subtly tries to get his attention for help). It's hilarious.

RebelArcher Joined Sat 08/02/14 Posts: 5247	Mon 04/04/16 03:04 PM
How can the feel of rock hard breasts compare to the real thing . Because theyre the ones in hand NOW And yes Ms Blondey..we ARE really easy to please....bless our hearts. Still no smileys, eh? just as well I can get my point across without Smileys ..The old fashion way .. Laughing :-p No worries...I understand lol...was just curious if you were still experiencing that smiley issue youve been having.

Jaan Doh Joined Mon 06/24/13 Posts: 2493	Mon 04/04/16 03:46 PM
Ask to the other gender..the things you wonder and want to know about the other gender. i am sure we will get many answers to many questions. ie. why do men not really care about their shoes? why women like watching a man shaving so much? do really men get nervous like the women do before a first date. why are you men so afraid of injection? how do men manage to think both sex and protection at that very last moment? do women really say no when they say no? here we go Hiya butribu, Mmmmmm what a lorra lorra questions I have to admit I cannot speak for all men, Only for myself... why do men not really care about their shoes? Off course men care about there shoes! Well at least decent men do lol why do women like watching a man shaving so much? They do? MMmmm I must remember to leave the bathroom door unlocked when shaving do men really get nervous like the women do before a first date? Yes off course, after all, I'd like to think I make a good impression, I mean.... I dont want the lady to think I'm some kind of goat herder Though I would not mind being a goat herder either Still, its important to take as many steps as possible to make the right impression, rather than look or appear to be some kind of slob lol why are you men so afraid of injection? Who told you I fainted when we took our daughter to hospital??? how do men manage to think both sex and protection at that very last moment? Hmmmmm speaking for those that don't think.... maybe they got other things on their mind's? like football? Off course protection is important, Not only can the lady end up preggers, but either of you can catch an STD of the other!! So better safe than sorry do women really say no when they say no? Gosh - Off course!!! No means No! Unless you think rape is okay!! Afterthought so many of your questions just dont sit right in my mind... Does this mean I am not normal? I would hate to think so! Off course I'm normal, Just different lol

RustyKitty Joined Fri 05/15/15 Posts: 1601	Mon 04/04/16 04:21 PM
Regarding the shoes.. my 29 year old son has a pair of dress shoes that he paid about $800.00 for..to wear with his $2,000.00 suit! As for me, I have many shoes, because there are many styles/colours.. but generally when I buy a pair, I throw or donate a pair away..

Robxbox73 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 5302	Mon 04/04/16 05:23 PM
Tribu, what a great post! Back in the day I was a suit wearing freak. I had 5 expensive suits Armani, Ralph Loren, Tommy Hilfiger, Shoes, exclusively Giorgio Brutini, belts by Oleg Cassini. Silk socks and sock supporters. Lol. My first wife said I was worse that a woman. I would say yes, I'M A MAN BABY!!!!! It's a guy thang!

butribu Joined Tue 03/17/15 Posts: 10533	Tue 04/05/16 03:16 AM Edited by butribu on Tue 04/05/16 03:17 AM
i will catch up with the thread soon, and reply to my quotes today is a big day for me, so i am quite away from the site (wish me luck ) i hope you enjoy the thread and i will come back with many questions men! find a place to hide

Robxbox73 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 5302	Tue 04/05/16 03:22 AM
Good luck Tribu, may good fortune follow you today.

Gummiente Joined Thu 03/17/16 Posts: 151	Tue 04/05/16 04:59 AM
Why do women spend a fortune on shoes and then run around barefoot all the time?

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Tue 04/05/16 05:16 AM
Why when women find something emotional and are about to cry do they wave their hands in front of their eyes like a fan. I've seen a few do this on TV and wondered why. Why has the word 'whatever' suddenly replaced the words' shut the f--k up'

butribu Joined Tue 03/17/15 Posts: 10533	Tue 04/05/16 05:50 AM
Why do women spend a fortune on shoes and then run around barefoot all the time? who says that? i wear what i buy barefoot is not good. a woman should not do that unless at home it is dirty and unhealthy :/

butribu Joined Tue 03/17/15 Posts: 10533	Tue 04/05/16 05:53 AM
Why when women find something emotional and are about to cry do they wave their hands in front of their eyes like a fan. I've seen a few do this on TV and wondered why. Why has the word 'whatever' suddenly replaced the words' shut the f--k up' crying.. that is not sth i can answer i do not cry except it is for really serious and sad family issue - and even at these cases i do not cry. i cry for animals, cats, dogs, any animal just very easily. animals are the only ones that can make me cry. whatever.. okay.. the place they are used may be very dangerous. sometimes when i say "okay" it may be a bad alert. that is when the words end time to give the man a go away lol

butribu Joined Tue 03/17/15 Posts: 10533	Tue 04/05/16 05:55 AM
Tribu, what a great post! Back in the day I was a suit wearing freak. I had 5 expensive suits Armani, Ralph Loren, Tommy Hilfiger, Shoes, exclusively Giorgio Brutini, belts by Oleg Cassini. Silk socks and sock supporters. Lol. My first wife said I was worse that a woman. I would say yes, I'M A MAN BABY!!!!! It's a guy thang! Good luck Tribu, may good fortune follow you today. first of all, thanks Rob you were a hoy guy, from your stories i made a picture in my mind about how u were back at those times. HOT!

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Tue 04/05/16 06:00 AM
Why when women find something emotional and are about to cry do they wave their hands in front of their eyes like a fan. I've seen a few do this on TV and wondered why. Why has the word 'whatever' suddenly replaced the words' shut the f--k up' whatever the crying thing...see girls do that when they know they are about to mess up their eye make up and mascara is about to run..