I used to walk around her shown her my tight butt... oh memory... now a days my body used up

I usually just wrap myself around her leg and start dry humping her leg ..
It's a trick I learned from my dog Milo and it seems to work for him..lol..

I give a little casual touch on the upper arm while we are talking...It's a small gesture but usually gets my message across

Popcorn ready
Pen and paper for notes

Leg humping nooooo won't work here in the no column

Tight butt in the maybe column

Mmmmm?

Learning is such fun.

Umm, well I don't think I have ever used the bod to flirt
it was always more like trying to avoid the attention.

If I flip my hair it is probably in my face.
If I am taking off clothes I am probably hot.
If I am biting my glasses, well I can't think
of a good reason I might do that.

I am so literal, it would not occur to me to
have to flirt, if that makes any sense :-)

When talking I will glance at her mouth a few times so she notices me looking at her lips. I will also use a casual touch on the arm.. smile and agree with what she is talking about..

If all else fails I tilt my head back stick out my tongue and start rubbing my own breasts..

I've sucked my gut in and made eye contact (with my good one), with a quarter turned head (like photographers tell you to do)....and flashed a smile.

When I was younger and feeling particularly cocky I would walk in to a room, gaze upon my object of desire an unabashedly use the "backwards index finger wiggle" as if to say, "COM'ERE!"

Don't we use our body, voice, intellect, wit, humor......or any tool we have in the belt for our purpose?

Oh I've seen the other side too. I mean you can't really tell with the more universal likes or exciting hobbies. (I like to surf, love poetry & classic literature, love animals, the theater, hanging out with friends/outdoor cooking, fine wine, fine dining, etc. etc.)

I'm also a bit of a rock/anthropology hound (FAR from Geologist or Historian but am interested in stones). I can't be sure, but I suspicion when I see lit up eyes and smiles when I mention *rocks* or anthropological historical digs.....she might just be in to me???......unless I have found my archaeological soul mate.

My eyes just lit up, haha.
But not rock-rocks, crystals and gemstones

Oh I get excited at pyrite (fool's gold)...haha...joke here somewhere.

Ah...

Another riveting thread from Tom...

The thing is...I smile big, make firm eye contact, and giggle excessively by nature so a guy will only know I'm interested in him romantically if I initiate the idea of a date more than twice or if I accept his invitation to a date more than twice.

more than "twice"...right?

that was very perceptive of you Beach!, You are right . I edited my response from more than once to more than twice. That's very true!

Well anything worth doing, is worth doing in multiples.

I'm considering changing my strategy. What do you think of me tumbling onto a guy's lap and licking his face?

I prefer rubies

Note to self: Save licking for later...

Flirting ... I don't think it's one particular thing...
My movements slow down a wee bit, I smile differently, I might , and yes, maybe the occasional, brief touch of his arm or leg.

Yeah, it depends on the setting ... if it requires you putting a hand under the table, no no NO!!!
But if the other or both are sitting on stools at a bar ... it can be done rather casually, provided it's briefly of course, and close to the knee ... In that case the knee is closer than the arm, so it can be quite natural.
But I do think if a guy does that to a girl, it's a tad more precarious, lol