lol lex, theres an idea!

we might be complex, bike, but it's easy to know when you have a cool lady

She says she's 38. You show up she's 60. Sorry I lied. I'm lonely. Can you forgive me? No.

haha yea that sucks

lol or when they have a pic and they look great and when u see them in person u just cant hide the surprise look on ur face cuz they look nothing like their picture

Well I look just as bad in person as I do in my picture so HA!

wardriver ur kitties look really nice, u shouldn't say those things

you heartless BASTARD LHB!!!

Well for the most part, people who join the dating sites are just trying to meet new people since the real life approach seemed to get harder as time went on. Which is why myself and others are here now.

The downside though is that some people get on these sites girls and guys alike, and they set their standards up way too high. A person that talks to them has to look a certain way, listen to a certain style of music, drive a certain car...blah blah....what they forget is that they are online looking for someone just like everyone else. When it comes to online dating sites there is no such thing as high standards. Just keep an open mind and eventually you'll meet some really cool people.

>When it comes to online dating sites there is no such thing as high standards.

What is wrong with having high standards? Especially for women who know what they want in life. It works both ways, does it not? I like to think you men have some sort of protocol or expectations too....

But I think it is so funny to see someone new wanting to find a gal in less than a week, get no responses or participating in the forums and give up and say the site sucks....and off to another site....

Any thoughts???

But I think it is so funny to see someone new wanting to find a gal in less than a week, get no responses or participating in the forums and give up and say the site sucks....and off to another site....




yokoke,i definately agree with you on that.that's why i try to advise all the new members to get in the forums and get to know people because the forums are where all the cool people hang out at

totally agree yokoke... just here to have some fun and meet people if something more comes along great..

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Totally agree Claudette

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truly the people posting these stupid things are most often superficial with the perfect looking woman in mind and they dont try to convers with any that dont fit into their looks category

high standards SHOULD apply everywhere.
online or not.
why should there be a difference?
is it suppose to mean that if you're online you like OFF CUTS or LAST RESORT material and therefore should SETTLE for the 1st thing that falls your way?

BS.

I believe there is a big difference between setting high standards and being dilusional and not putting your expectations in check.

hate to break the ice---ya just gotta take time by posting in the forums more often to find a woman--i mean they may find ya first--so--start putting yaself in the forums and enjoy--no need to rush--

Sometimes I think people join these sites just to flirt and try to kill time because they are bored. There is no depth or realism in what they say or offer, they are just here because it is entertainment to them... much like playing a game, like in an arcade... expect the thrill here isn't that you have to put in a new quarter when your character gets blown up...

The thril is that you can play with someone's heart, play with their life, and then if you chose... disappear... whcih has happened to me recently from a woman I thought was really attracted to me...

>>POOF<<

They disappear...

Its all a big game, shallow and probably not worth my time to seriously consider that I could actually find an honest, wholesome, caring, loving woman...

Amongst a system that is set up primarily just as an entertainment site...

"Free" means you don't even have to put a quarter in the slot to play...

You gotta understand what this site is for what it's worth... its just a play toy to some... its an Asteroids game at the arcade where they can manipulate real people... its like they are about curious enough to play Frogger for about a month with somebody's feelings... and when they get bord, they disappear without a trace...

But being the little spaceship that wants to keep shooting laser beams at the rocks, the person left behind wonder why the other person has stopped putting quarters into the machine,... Being the little frog who was so happily jumping across logs and getting squished my cars and dropping off the ends of logs... it leaves one to wonder if green wasn't really the game players color... or did they run out of money and decide buying a Pepsi at the counter would be all the fun they would throw my way for the day... no quarters... no joystick... no more playing me for a game...

Ribbit ribbit...

I've been the frog in the Frogger game to many times...

Some chick grabs the joystick... thinks she can play me for a while... "oh, looky what I found here, a pretty new game to play... weeeeeeee"

The when they are bored, they grab thier Pepsi and they are gone... shuffling down the street, still lonely... leaving me with yet another question mark...

Except I got their question mark...

Its all entertainment and nothing more...

no--it doesn't go that way--maybe some but not a lot--you just gotta give some time to explore what you're looking for and in the meantime start making some friends--one of the friends could be your luck--

i see you have not been on this site long--with 8 posts--you need to meet the peeps out here so the lots of us would get to know you better--