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well as of today im single...and i kinda am confused. i break up with my girlfriends for not caring..maybe its because i havent seen my mom for 14 years but i never asked anybody about this its strange...
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A male in a female silhouette ...confused are we?
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You break up with your girlfriends because you don't care about them??
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i dont know. but its like if a female tells me she will be back later i will call and make sure. or if she doesnt come to a date i will call maybe im clingy everytime i allways break up with them for this because i feel that they dont care to give me call
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can anyone say
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Please don't tell me you're one of those untrusting, controlling, dominating types.
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ya think????
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maybe its because i have add. who knows women fall in love with me i tell them that im not ready. and i say i love them. i guess i get needy. but i get tired of arguing about where she is and why she didnt call me....
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can anyone say
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im none of those types. i guess i just wanted my ex to tell me how she is doing. instead she does not call or come over. ex talking about she taking to much time to be with me she needs her sleep she says.....
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Yeah...well, you are NOT the boss of any woman you date, and you need to understand that and respect her boundaries and trust her. You cannot be in a healthy relationship and not have respect and trust for the person you are with. You need to let them have their independence and stop with the jealousy and neediness. It is completely smothering.
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If your ex is actually and truly constantly blowing you off, you need to end the relationship and move on. That is a big hint that she is just not that into you.
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why does everybody blame their flaws on ADD??
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im not controling nor jealous. thats not my problem i dont know what the prob is
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Yeah...that's a total cop out.
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No that is one smart Dame
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Thank you.
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the problem is u need to get a grip
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i feel i am to needy.... i just needed to get that out. i know what i need to do is get out more and make more friends and talk to my women friends instead of thinking about my girl. well thanks for listening
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Exactly. And if she is clearly sending you signals that she does not want to contact you and is not interested, you need NOT to stalk her. Just leave her alone and get professional help.
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