You are f*cked in the head, Player. That in and of itself is your problem and it should become your main concern. You are too screwed up in your own mind and thought processes to even entertain the THOUGHT of dating. You have no business getting involved with women. You are on the borderline of narcissism and possibly somewhat sociopathic. Not good, my friend. Borderline Personality Disorders are never good. The more you post, the more certain I am of your pending mental break. Get some real and extended mental help.

Enough of the "player" issue, let's get to the part where thatplayer89 is an immature, conceited, addle-brained, control-freak with a low self-esteem and needs to fix these problems BEFORE perusing any romantic or even social endeavors. It's doesn't matter if you THINK these problems harm you or not, I've known all too well that just because a character flaw seems harmless, that doesn't mean it is.

Do not misunderstand, I am not trying to be mean, I am not trying to control your life and tell you what to do either. All I am doing is tying to dispense advice that I feel will indeed help you in finding a lady, keeping a lady, and most importantly treating that lady with respect, love, honor, and dignity. It's one thing to claim to be a nice guy who's funny and great to be around and great with women, it's another thing to be that way.

I don't know you personally so I can't actually say one way or another what you are actually like, but from what you type here, you always come off as an arrogant jerk who:

1. Always has to be right (I fully expect you to post telling me I'm wrong about this, which will actually prove the point, so don't bother)

2. Wears the title "Player" proudly, even though there are types of players he finds disgusting. If it were me I would walk away from ANY association with such scum and call myself something else.

and 3. Claims to be confident and "cocky", but then breaks up with someone for not calling, thinking it means they don't care. From someone who has been building confidence after being a crushed nerd with a broken spirit, someone not calling you shouldn't make you freak out THAT much. Did you try taking charge and calling her instead? Maybe there were good reasons why she didn't call that had nothing to do with you, if you can imagine that things DO happen in the world that don't effect you at all, that is.

...That is quite the rant, I think I got carried away =^v^=

...I could go on, but that's enough for now, I'll let you take a swing back before I post again.

good post joshy!

Aint being a wannabe a drag?

If he is telling the truth that he hasn't seen his mom in 14 years that makes since. That could cause a longing for female companionship as well as a distrust for females at the same time. The bonds we have to our parents when we are young are vary important in our development.

Player, really. Everyone can see this except for you. So, it's obvious you need to grow up and work on your issues with a professional. No one wants to be in a relationship with someone who isn't a whole, grounded, healthy person. You would really be doing yourself a world of good if you just focused on yourself for a while and stayed away from the dating scene.