Topic: where have all the good men gone?
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Tue 10/23/07 12:27 PM
grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble

s1owhand's photo
Tue 10/23/07 12:29 PM
we are daydreaming of exotic vacations on yahoo travel
and phonesex of course.

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Tue 10/23/07 12:29 PM
I think there's one left, and I'm talkin to him...lmao. At least I hope he's one! HAHA, I really think I may have found a good one, only time will tell!

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Tue 10/23/07 12:30 PM
LOL oh man not another one!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

yahoo travel.......expedia is good too!!!love love love

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Tue 10/23/07 12:32 PM
Gypsy! Oh Beehave, Baby!

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Tue 10/23/07 04:25 PM
This is great, I wasn't sure how what I said was going to be taken. I did mean it in jest, however the website thing I did was real as was the answers.

The good ones (both men and women) are out there but not where you might think they are, you just have to be patient and know what you want, be willing to give it yourself.

When one lives a good life, good things come to them. It's not instantaneous but but it will come. Hang in there and your day will come.

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Tue 10/23/07 04:29 PM
Well put.

ArtGurl's photo
Tue 10/23/07 04:34 PM
s1ow!!!! How did you get out of my basement? laugh laugh laugh

flowerforyou

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Tue 10/23/07 05:00 PM
too bad im far away and too young. i wish you had aim

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Tue 10/23/07 06:33 PM
I know your pain, although I haven't found anyone that I can even take serious for a moment. One girl says some things and she is off flirting with someone else. I can't take such a girl serious. On top of that, I haven't even found anyone near my age or "looks-wise" be what I would consider trying to get to know for anything possible. Do I have to go and hunt some people down or what? What's the use? Sorry, this is your thread. LOL I'll shut up now.

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Tue 10/23/07 06:49 PM
wow never thought i would get such a good response! np random_stranger, it is like you have to hunt them down, and i know what you mean about flirting with others, but this is a dating site so i think people get carried away when attracting a new person to them, im guilty of it im not good at telling when im flirting my gals have to bop me on the head when i get outrages!

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Tue 11/06/07 05:05 AM
glasses

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Tue 11/06/07 05:12 AM
I too long for a good person to be with, she doesn't have to be "gorgeous" in the eyes of society (in my eyes she would be to me regardless) or rich or any of that noise... those would be bonuses.

I like to think I'm a nice, sweet, good decent, honorable man, but I only have to words of others to tell me if I am or not.

Oh, and Thief, you can flirt all you want with me... I'll flirt back, it's all in good fun! :wink:

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Tue 11/06/07 05:36 AM
Well thief, I live like 300 miles away from ya, so that's no good. Sorry, just won't work, haha. Ok. Time for me to be serious.

I'm sure that you will find someone that will be the person you are looking for. Takes time (yeah, it is cliched to say that, but it is true) and you have to realize it when it comes around. For all you know, there could be a guy that is your friend and he so desperately wants to be with you. But, you guys are friends, and while he might be the one, you might not ever know it. Okay, that was confusing, but you get my point right? RIGHT? Lol!

I don't know thief. Even if you met someone who didn't live near you, but you had a connection with them, wouldn't it seem worth it to try and find out if it is meant to be? Just a thought.

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Tue 11/06/07 05:38 AM
Ahhh, Thief, you will break many hearts before you find the ONE. You are so young and pretty, just get out and enjoy yourself. Oh, youth, I remember it well.

There are good men and women out there. Remember, you are not looking for the perfect person, just the person that is perfect for you.

Hugs, M


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Tue 11/06/07 05:55 AM
Your last paragraph, Michele. Well put. I think that sums it all up.

adj4u's photo
Tue 11/06/07 06:14 AM
all the good men are out looking for the good women

that are out looking for the good guys

but neither of them think they are good

cause they are out looking


but hey what do i know

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Tue 11/06/07 06:24 AM
things will always work out but its something u cant rush u have to take your time if you want someone special just take your time and it will happen when it comes to find that someone special u have to take your time with it so it can work out

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Tue 11/06/07 08:25 AM
Well, it's hard to find anyone on here unfortunately. The problem with a dating site is everyone is from so many different places that it's next to impossible to find someone from where you are unless you live in New York City or any large city filled with singles who don't have time for dating.

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Tue 11/06/07 08:41 AM
Very true baseball. It is hard. No doubt about it. Seems women and men expect to come here, set up a profile, get hooked up on the first or second day, and then...well....that's that. Funny thing though. I think if you take time to talk to people without wanting to get intimate (not sex. Just starting a relationship)then you find out alot about them. And, while they could be few hundred miles away, if you make that connection, then maybe a leap of faith is in the books. IDK. Just my thoughts here.