I will always offer my insite in a priv email but I can not on a public
site as it is unethical.
If you think you suffer from depression please seek help with a DR whom
you can trust.

One question...if the family members knew that she was on multiple
medications and being seen by multiple doctors...why didn't you get
involved and speak up on her behalf for her? Where was her support from
you?

Not to pick during your time of grief, but I live 2300 miles from my
grandfather who is 80 years old and I know every medication he is on,
what is is prescribed for, which doctor prescribed it, the dosage, and
the names and direct numbers of ALL of his doctors. I speak with them
regularly to coordinate his care with them.

I understand that he doesn't necessarily have the "mind" to deal with
this now, and because I love him I watch out for him.

just a thought...

and again, I am so sorry for your loss...

Bigtiki
I just read two posts after returnning and your was 1 of them that stood
out for me and I thank you for reponding to my post.I'm unsure at this
point just as the main reson why she was seeing 6 doctors at once but
even tho I'm unsure I don know that the records dont or shouldnt lie
meaning least one 2 or three doc's had to of known about each ohter and
what med's she was given but not one stopped to think about how it was
breaking her mind down to nothing but dealth.

Chuckeee
How dare you be so cruel in the wake of death...lady63 came here for
support and you just want to beat someeone down. Don't know how or where
you were raised, but girl your mama sure didn't teach you any compassion
or manners. Here in the SOUTH we say IF YOU HAVE NOTHING GOOD TO SAY,
THEN KEEP YOUR BIG MOUTH SHUT...(or someone will shut it for you)
You owe lady63 an apology...

Come on down country. There ain't nothin between us but air and
opportunity. C'mon, shut me up. Hell, this oughta be good. I don't
know how you read what I said, but I wont backstep for anyone. The
woman took her own life, I don't feel for people like that, I do feel
for her family and for the fact that she needed help that she didnt get.
I simply gave my opinion. If you dont like it, well, tough. Bye bye
now, this subject is gettin boring to me. I'm beginning to need
medication.

Oh, and just INCASE I failed to mention to lady, I am sorry about your
loss and for the sorrow the entire family must feel during this time.
HOWEVER, I stand firm on what I have said regarding my OWN opinion of
what she alone chose to do. There isnt anything funny about depression
and if you knew me, you would know that I am a very compassionate
person, I just can't and won't feel bad for people who take there own
lives. I care about the lives they've touched and left behind. Ok, I'm
done now.

wow..online threats are the best :D

don't you talk to me that way!
oh? whatcha gonna do about it?
i'll beat your ass!
don't let nothing but fear and common sense stand in your way
<insert eye roll here>

grow up already :|

1. I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY?
I DON'T KNOW WHAT THE HURT WOULD FEEL LIKE, BUT I DO KNOW THE VOID WILL
BE WITH YOU UNTIL YOU DIE? NO-MATTER ANY
CIRCUMSTANCE'S?
A LIFE WAS LOST HERE?
THERE ARE SOME ISSUE'S, A FEW, THAT DON'T WARRANT OBJECTIVE CRITICISM?

ARE WE SO SHALLOW AND VAIN, THAT AT THIS TIME OF PAIN,
WE CANNOT PULL TOGETHER AS ONE KIND, AND GIVE HER PEACE OF MIND.
love?

hey "BADS"??? where's that pool of jello?

wow ellgee, I don't think any of those words were used. No threats were
made, and your grow up comment, NO WAY, then what site would we go to?
I've read some of your posts, what happened here? Oh, I see, ya had a
moment of maturity?!!LOL!!!!

Chuckee
Sorry that this is boreing you and your needing to take meds because of
the posting from me.But i will never agree with your thoughts about my
sister-in-law killing herself for she had no control over her actions
for the meds kept her from thinking in the right way.

Peachiepoohie thank you very much for commenting your my loss and your
thougths.

iam4u
Thank You For Stepping Up And Speaking About My Loss And How Some Are
Commenting On This Subject.

NO I WASN'T AWARE OF HER THOUGHTS OF ENDING HER OWN LIFE NOR HAVE I SEEN
HER FOR A YEAR UNTIL HER DEALTH.FROM WHAT THE FAMILY HAS TOLD ME MY
SISTER-N-LAW WAS FINE UNTIL THIS LAST MONTH! YES SHE WAS DEPRESSED PLUS
DEALING WITH ALOT PAIN BUT ONCE SHE SEEN THIS LAST DOCTOR AND HE ADED
MORE MEDS SHE BECAME VERY UNHAPPY ABOUT HER HEALTH AND NOT BEING ABLE TO
WORK JUST CARRY ON IN DAILY LIFE!
THE FAMILY KEEP UP WITH HER EACH AND EVERY DAY ALL DAY BUT SHE HIDE THE
FACT OF THE THOUGHTS OF KILLING HERSELF FROM EVERY ONE BUT SHE REACHED
OUT TO THE DOCTORS FOR THE HELP BUT INSTEAD THEY ONLY ADED MORE DAM
MEDS!THE CHILDREN TRIED TO HAVE HER CHANGE THE MED'S TO NATURAL MED'S
BUT MY SISTER-N-LAW WAS SCARED TO STOP WHAT THE DOCTOR'S HAD HER OWN
THEY NEEDED MORE TIME TO WORK ON HELPING HER REALIZE THE TRUE FACTS
BEHIND ALL THE DAM MED'S THAT DOCTOR'S WAS FEEEDING HER.
I QUESTIONED WHY THE FAMILY DIDNT STEP UP AND GET HER SOME REAL HELP ON
DEALING WITH HER PAIN AND HER THOUGHTS OF KILLING HERSELF BUT THEY ALL
TOLD ME THAT MY SISTER-N-LAW WOULD SEEM FINE UNTIL SHE WAS LEFT
ALONE.NOT EVERYONE LIVES NEAR HER SO IT WAS HARD FOR THE FAMILY TO STEP
UP AND JUST TAKE CHARGE.I ASKED WHY DIDNT SOMEONE CALL ME BECAUSE I
COULD OF HELPED HER WEED OFF THE MED'S AND HELP HER FIND THE ONE RIGHT
DOCTOR TO CARE FOR HER NEEDS BUT ALL I WAS TOLD IS THAT NOBODY FELT SHE
WAS GOING TO TAKE HER OWN LIFE!
MY NEPHEW LOST HIS FATHER TO A CAR WREAK AND NOW HIS MOTHER KILLED
HERSELF WITH LEAVING NO TRUE REASON WHY SHE KILLED HERSELF HE JUST
RETURNNED FROM FIGHTING THE WAR SO HE HADNT ANY CLUE OF THIS ALL
HAPPENING UNTIL IT HAPPENED.THE OTHER TWO CHILDREN ONE LIVED WITH HER
AND ONE LIVES IN ANOTHER CITY BUT CALLED HER MOTHER EACH AND EVERYDAY
BUT COULD ONLY HELP HER MOTHER IN WORDS.THE ONE WHO LIVED WITH HER NEVER
SEEN THE SGIN'S OF THIS TAKING PLACE UNTIL IT HAPPENED!

i think there are a few people on here that either need to be on or
forgot to take their meds.................

lol chuckie...but...a moment of maturity is something you should at
least consider investing it...for you're the only one here with no
sympathy

try thinkin of someone other than yourself for a change, and then come
back

already figgures chuckee out. if she wanted my opinion she would give it
to me.

thank you all for talking with me about this it's helped alot
God Bless You All

Yawn. Elgee shut up, you get dumber with each responce to me.

chuckees a cop. you cant expect a cop to have any feelings or sympathy.