There are lots of men who don't like to play mind games because we have also been a victim of them. But the internet is a playground for people who just want to take advantage that is why there seems to be a ****head round every corner.

Games? Sex specific? no!
character defects abound universally.

Now everybody is thinking! This is good!

Why don't people respond LHB asks, I cannot begin to answer for everyone but I can answer for me. For the most part I do respond to emails sent to me, it also depends on the content of the emails, when sent the rude nasty ones I block and discard them, sorry I just don't want to deal with some asshead who thinks its cool to be a pig.I've sent out emails to those who ended up on my Mutual Match list, and I waited for a week or more after no response I took them off the list, I 'm sorry I'm not going to waste my time emailing them again since they obviously are not that interested in what I have to say.

LHB are you gonna make me think any more?? I'm kinda tired and my brain is all wonky...but if I have to I can..

It's easier to point at another, and not notice the three fingers pointing back at oneself.

We are all flawed...we are also all perfect, for us...

Most prefer to shift responsibility onto the other, rather than do the work, and own their share.

As to mail....I was given choice, as part of this human condition, and I will choose to whom I respond to...no matter who decides otherwise.

I thought this was just another online game!
we just have to choose our options & what package we wanna play.

And for the record to ALL women on this site who don't think I have a clue what the hell I'm talking about. Well let me tell you this.......... If you think I have just one url on this site you are sadly mistaken. I have two identities on here. I thought it would be fun to portray myself as an attractive woman and see what would happen. Put the shoe on the other foot as you say. Do you know what I discovered? That's right. A lot of losers, perverts, freaks, and downright scum with absolutely no taste. I have a wit you couldn't believe but even I was shocked by the replies I was getting. Beyond shocked. I WAS ANGRY!! So I can relate some but not all to what you have to deal with on a daily basis on dating sites. And I am on your side on defense against scum or predators. But you can still hate me and think I'm crazy or worse. I sleep with a clear consceince and I live my life with no regrets.

flames, smoke, billowing in large explosions "I am the all powerful OZ"

^^^^^Waves to OZ!!



Do I have to go back & read all this??

LHB are you a good guy or bad guy what's the deal here??

beware dredging the sewers of jsh in search of rancid effluence!

I guess when you put yourself on a something like a dating site online, anything goes. Good to be wary but don’t waste your time getting beat by those that let you down because whatever they do they are only hurting themselves in the long run and not you. You just have to weed through the tossers, liars, drama queens, players, blah

I dont know where you have been looking ,but there are alot of guys in this world that don't play games
Its the ones that do that ruining it for the good guys

And I have made amends to all those I have hurt in my life except for those who have a headache from all my psychobabble. So I'm sorry if I offended anyone and I have exedrin, motrin, aspirin, alleve, ibuprofen. Send dot com and I will deliver.

LHB, your posts make complete sense, commonsense, spoken plainly and clearly, and I for one, appreciate it.

Biker I need Valium

people can be like the residents of Asimov's fictitious Aurora. they need human interaction but fear real human touch and real human intimacy. Aurorans have taken this to the extreme of never interacting directly - only via computer and robotic intermediaries...and have developed asexual reproduction technologies...but they are languishing and failing to flourish within their walled and heavily guarded estates...

but it is understandable why the locals are chicken of long haired bikers.....

You already know how I feel LHB

I am a s1owhand fan!!!!