Wondering .. you peeps also get a wee bit lonely when you're feeling a bit under the weather?

I normally do alright, but every time I'm a bit unwell .. I wished I had someone to cuddle up to, and I can feel really lonely. The silence can be deafening while normally it really doesn't bother me.
Thank goodness I'm not ill that often.

I used to think it's just cos you feel somewhat 'weaker' than normal ... but now I'm actually thinking it's more that you have your shields down when you're ill or very tired?

na not like I had any sympathy when I was married anyhow

I was the only female in a house of men so it was my job to give it


mamas aren't allowed to get sick

To quote Scotty off of Star Trek.. captain the shields rrrr at 30% captain I don't think she can take.. much more captain..llol.ummm.. and cuddling with somebody when you are sick... so romantic..lol.. you know you always have us to keep you.. company

I watched Star Trek yesterday ... Scotty can get quite neurotic, lol.
And actually, cuddling when you're not feeling well can be quite romantic I'm not talking about being really really ill, but having someone who's sweet, puts an arm around you, holds you, is there for you, and falling asleep in his arms, my head on his chest.. mmmmm

Awww.. now now baby it'll all be better" soon.. let me make you some soup.. put your feet up and lay back on the couch.. here lift up, and let me fluff and put a pillow behind you for support . Would you like some apple juice maybe.... here's the remote control baby.... if there's nothing on tv you wish to watch.. I can put a movie on for you..ok.. now I will just be in the kitchen making your soup... I'm right here... and if you like later on I will draw you a hot bath.. get you in your pajamas.. and rock you to sleep in my arms while singing you a lullaby..ok..

I absolutely do!!

Have always wanted that cuddle-partner when sick. All the guys i've met since dating are the complete opposite.

Sounds good to me, although the lullaby is a tad over the top.
Oh, and in spite of feeling a bit unwell ... my hormones are seriously skyrocketing ... so can we fit some physical action in somewhere after the soup and before the pajamas?

.ohh no.baby.. you are sick.. under the weather.. no physical activity for you .no no... you need to get your rest so you can feel better..
... perhaps just a nice deep massage..
... and maybe I can throw in a little something something for you! towards that end of the massage..
But no intercourse baby. Would not want to wear you out..wink

The mate and I have been sick all week (he works at a casino
and brings home every popular bug) with only each other
for company.

Pretty cool, I wait on him doing every little thing then 4-5
days later he has to return the favor.

We each feel equally pampered.
When sick one needs all the attention they can get.

I know exactly how you feel, when your I'll all you want to do is lay in bed with a film and cuddle up to someone

Being ill ain't nice, but this sounds pretty cool to me, lol

Best cold ever :-)
(Well, except for the drugs, the cost, the pain and the lack of breathe-ability.)

Oh and indeed, when I am sick is the ONLY time I
sink to vulnerabilty :-)

Yeah, I'm cuddly then too. And both my exes weren't. They were more like withdrawing in their mancave to recuperate on their own. Didn't want lots of pampering, or "fussing" as my last would call it
I guess the male doesn't want to get seen when 'weak'?
Both also wanted to be in bed on their own, whereas I prefer to be in the living room, on the settee with a blanket, so I'm NOT on my own. Makes me feel even worse when I'm all alone in the bedroom feeling ill.

Haha, can't win 'em all!

I feel what your saying Crystal because I am the same way. Awhile ago I came down with a wicked strain of the flu, living by myself I had to go get the medicine and still keep up with all the things that needed to get done and being totally sick in the progress. I remember lying there thinking being alone is the worst thing in the world.I sure hope that when the good lord calls me home I get to say goodbye to someone.

Awwwww heartfelt.

when i'm sick i just hurl in a bucket and pass out...
if anybody was around, i'd never know it anyway....

And if that don't make them want to kiss and cuddle nothing will.

Humm honestly when I'm sick I like to be left alone so I can sleep...

Same after having surgery just let me go home and leave me be so I don't feel as if I have to entertain anyone or feel as if I'm ignoring them..

I can rest best when I'm alone well just me and my dog that is..

Well Pancho is sick right now with a bad cold and cough. I do wish I was there to pamper and baby him.

Now if I am sick I just want to be left alone... I am not nice when I am sick, it is safer for everyone if I am left alone. Bring me a cup of tea once in a while would be nice but No I m not lonely when I am sick I just want to curl up and sleep it away.