ok. Mot sure if this will take hold But,,,


during any given month there are literally DOZENS of threads from 'nice guys' who feel like they are being overlooked,, and since we ladies dont have time to pick through every profile on mingle to decipher who is or isnt a 'nice guy',,,, I am opening up this thread as an opportunity for the good ones to speak up

what separates you from the players?

.. I don't want to be separated from the players there is such a thing as safety in numbers..lol... and what's wrong with being a bad boy player..?..
It's gotta beat the heck out of pretending to be a nice guy...
Just for the Lady to find out down the road.... that Prince Charming is no Prince at all.... but if it will help my odds.. I'm a very very nice gentleman.. outside of the bedroom.. inside the bedroom I'm a very very bad naughty boy... okay I'm pretty sure you were expecting this form..me

honestly, i don't even know what to say... 'nice guys finish last' is like a fact of life... and they weren't talking about sex when they said it.

it doesn't matter what we (nice guys) do, women will always overlook us for some dumb reason. it seems women theses days think 'nice' is code for gay, when in fact, we (nice guys) are just being genuine and saying what we truly feel. no lies. no games.

the other sad reason is, women are so broken by all these players that they can't even tell the difference anymore from a Prince Charming or a Charlie Sheen. in any way, 'nice guys' are being burned and it's a sad thing because women are missing out too... only the jerks are having all the fun.

Players never quit...for them it's anytime, anywhere, anybody....
their favorite word is..... "Next"...

i ain't like that...i can be happy with just one....

Please continue to inform me what else I think and just how broken I am... Id love to learn something this afternoon...

Carry on...

Actually some of us non-players have managed to find someone because we didn't sit around whining and moaning and blaming everyone else.

Ya, 'managed' that's my point.

The way you ask this is a little dicey. There are various ways to answer, depending.

In one way, it's you, the woman doing the choosing, who "separates the players from the nice guys."

There's more to that, than simply your recognizing who is lying and who isn't. The players of the world, benefit more than anything else, by catering to the values of their "victims." It's identical to how shyster business people rip people off using their own actual hungers.

You know how lots of people say, and actually think that they want real value from the products they buy, but still run out and grab false bargains? They know full well that the cheap product with the shiny packaging isn't going to last as long as the truly good one will, but they decide to gamble that they'll have enough "fun" with it while it lasts, that they wont mind having to replace it later.

I've seen lots of people, male and female alike, who knew full well that they were taking on a "player" when they did so. Sometimes they talked themselves into it and ignored the warning bells going off in their heads out of simple emotional greed, and sometimes they were just very relationship-hungry, and decided to have a sort of "fast food gut bomb" relationship, and cross their fingers that it wouldn't turn into a long night hovering over their emotional toilet later.

Mostly, I've seen that it's actually pretty rare for anyone over the age of about twenty, to actually be fooled by a "player."

As for the "nice guy" threads, that's actually an unrelated subject area, usually. Genuinely nice people don't calculate why other people SHOULD want them, they just conduct their lives according to their personal sense of honor and principles, and hope that the person they are attracted to will appreciate them for being who they actually are.

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Right on the money, Frankensteen. nice one! ha

lol... my me.

Do I get a prize?

Safety in numbers ... LMFAO
Is there any situation you can't talk yourself out of? I mean, dang!

I'm actually impressed when I encounter a woman who even knows what fantan is.
Even more so, if she can play it.

Hell...
I may make "ability to play fantan"
a relationship qualification.

I love games. The right games.

Can't I be a player AND a nice guy?
I play DOTA2, I play League of Legends, I play Call of Duty: Ghosts (okay, so maybe I'm not a nice guy in THAT game...), I play TESV: Skyrim, I play MineCraft, I play...

Oh. That's not the kind of "player" you meant, is it?

Like Rock I love games.Problem is there are so many balls to choose from.
We have basketballs,tennis balls,golf balls,round balls,oval balls, I could go on and on and then we have just balls.
The difference is often down to who can say sorry and mean it.
Sorry about the post.
Did I mean that ?

Hmm.. and this is why I can't be a nice guy.. nice guys always end up talking about balls for some reason..lmao..jk

Great ... now I gotta Google what fantan is

The kettle calling the pot black.Talking of balls I forgot to mention I'm having a ball.Thanks No1.And all the other ball players.

Now I can go back into my corner and bawl my eyes out.

Because to be honest my ability and desire to be one has long been gone. I am at a place in my life where I am finally content.Decent job,my dream house by the ocean, the ability and desire to enjoy the small things in life.I am just looking for that one woman to share it with.

Hello I am single and searching right now no games pls and you must have a good work cus I am thinking of getting married not looking for a boyfriend right now