Hello can you inbox me so we get to know each other

Why u using an image off a porn site?

I really like the OP and am interested so I googled player(dating)
than pretending to know what it exactly means

Player-
A male who is skilled at manipulating ("playing") others, and especially at seducing women by pretending to care about them, when in reality they are only interested in sex.

Player - guy who is sustaining supposedly exclusive relationships with multiple girls simultaneously.

A bit

How will the woman know that the man is really a player?
How will the man know that the woman is really a player?

Do we just have to take each other's words?
Where can we draw the line?
Is being sanguine on the forum tantamount to being a player?
Is having crushes on the forum tantamount to being a player?

Where can we draw the line of being played at?
Is bantering on the forum considered playing at each other?
When can we say we are being played at or we are just interacting
with what is being posted?

I thought the real thing is on the instant message,
and it should match with what is on the forum.

Is admiring someone in the forum tantamount to being a player?

Well, let's put it this way. It's not something that I really need to prove to someone that's actually looking for a serious relationship. I mean, if I say, "Want to come back to my place darling?" they just take one look around and it seems to dawn on them that I'm a batchelor that's not domesticated. That's the first thing. They can assume that I'm not the type of player that poses as a relationship type of guy.

So then, assuming that the bedroom at leasts passes inspection, how do I prove it to them after that? Well, I guess that I keep taking their calls. We just see how it goes. She could be the one that's the player.

If you were asking me to somehow demonstrate it to the sort of women that would log on here and read this thread though, I suppose that it would be similar. First thing would be that nowhere would I come out with cheesy lines about what an upstanding citizen that I am that totally respects women and is looking for one that goes to church, is "financially secure" and stuff. Then I would probably just say that I don't really need to prove anything to you because you live too far away anyway.

ummmm, thank you argo and tawt,,,, for answering the question



question was ''what seperates you from the players?'


there is a very lovely definition of the word player earlier in the thread (hint: people PLAY games, players do too,, disingenuine and all about the win)




this is a question about your own PERSONAL perception guys,,,,lol

if you don't care for the question, the simplest road is to skip the thread

Base on this^^^^
I would like to declare myself a player
in the forum Ms. Harmony if I may.

I want to interact
in the forum,
so I can get to know the
person better and give
a more accurate take to his/her persona.
instead of running away to the opposite
direction like I did on my 1st & 2nd month.
It did not do me any good.
It makes me just more confused
of who is genuine & who is not.


It is important to me
that what is on the instant message
match with what is on the forum,
the only way I see, is
to interact and not shy away from
giving my own takes.

We're all players it depends on how you play yours. little follow the rule while multitude don't play by the rule.

"Player", am a player cos i haven't seen the right person for me and i can't go into relationship that won't last long. So I'll keep being a player playing by the rule to find my Mrs right.

The fact that I'm a bad player :D

seems like sound reasoning to me