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Topic: a question for the ladies
Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 10/15/07 06:11 PM
uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hello!!! Cuz we can.

kidatheart70 Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 6234	Mon 10/15/07 06:53 PM
Hmmmmm, I like the single life. No mind reading neccessary.

kidatheart70 Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 6234	Mon 10/15/07 06:53 PM
No domestic terrorism either!

TheLonelyWalker Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 11870	Mon 10/15/07 06:55 PM
because u have to be smart enough to read between the lines

2much4u Joined Wed 09/13/06 Posts: 1164	Mon 10/15/07 06:59 PM
I hardly say nothing, I usually speak the truth, and then what happens? they don't want to listen, the only time I would say nothing is when the guy already knows the answer.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 10/15/07 07:00 PM
we like short answers ... we understand selective hearing

texasrose9 Joined Fri 08/17/07 Posts: 1140	Mon 10/15/07 07:00 PM
As so many ladies here have mentioned, often it's because of something a man did or did not do, and either our feelings are hurt or we are a little aggravated. We may not feel like exploring it, or may feel you should be in tune with us enough to know what is bothering us. It shows us you care enough about us that you are sensitive to what affects us...... Having said that, there are times we should just be more direct as some men don't pick up on subtle cues......

kidatheart70 Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 6234	Mon 10/15/07 07:00 PM


Neko187 Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 17	Mon 10/15/07 07:11 PM
haha..

coryM18 Joined Mon 09/17/07 Posts: 442	Tue 10/16/07 01:15 PM
sorry ladies, but he oh so sad fact is: men are stupid, we need your help, you are ther stronger species, we dont like to admit it but you are, so how about being a little more obvious? please! for us mens' sake??

worthyofpraise Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 1	Tue 10/16/07 01:37 PM
I think that we say "nothing" because we are afraid of how the guy would react. Sometimes we get upset over things that a guy wouldn't and if we tell him the truth, he may reply "that's a stupid thing to be upset about". We are afraid of being vulnerable so instead of saying what's really wrong, we say "nothing".

heatherrae Joined Tue 11/07/06 Posts: 4871	Tue 10/16/07 01:42 PM
when we say "nothing" its because we want to see if you are sensitive enought to say "no i dont think so something is bothering you and we can talk about it, now come and tell me what is wrong or how i can help or i'm here to listen" or someting to that effect. we want to see if u care enough to pursue helping us if your just gonna be a dolt and say "ok" and go on about your business when u know damn well something is wrong.

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Tue 10/16/07 01:46 PM
ok

kidatheart70 Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 6234	Tue 10/16/07 01:49 PM
Is this a test?

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Tue 10/16/07 01:52 PM
yes. it is a test. you lose. me too.

kidatheart70 Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 6234	Tue 10/16/07 01:56 PM
Couls this possibly be an example of one of those mind games people so vehemently deny playing and abhor to the enth degree?

heartbrokenbaby Joined Mon 07/02/07 Posts: 8211	Tue 10/16/07 02:00 PM
depending if its important if it not that improtant then its nothing or we want u to figure it out

kidatheart70 Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 6234	Tue 10/16/07 02:02 PM
Throw in some mind reading and we have a winning combination!

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Tue 10/16/07 02:04 PM
nicer way of saying "you"

kidatheart70 Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 6234	Tue 10/16/07 02:08 PM
Thank you Nurjoyce! That's the best, most honest answer I've heard yet. From there at least there's a chance of some sort of resolution to the problem.