widow!!!

I don't like to think the worst of anyone...Everyone gets the benefit of doubt till I see other wise but, hey jmo

had the same thing happen to me also
I just figured if he had to delete his account he was hiding from something....oh well his loss

His wife probably came home...... I hate to sound like a downer but in some cases it's most likely the truth.

When people up and disappear it would make one think what was their modus operandi or anterior motives .

some times silence speaks volumes of guilt or hiding something.

bored husband or boy friend syndrome.

one way to look at this OP is be happy you found out now rather than later....


the search goes on.............

Yeah, S1ow is right, I have done it myself, but never to deliberately avoid a specific person. Moreso to avoid EVERYBODY because I was really sick for a week and I have that volatile artistic thing where I turn into a total recluse every now and then. But there are probably 50 people here who know how to get in touch with me through other means, so it's not like I would disappear entirely....

Widower -- I'm still chasing the Russkies, it is NOT working too well....!!

Maybe they just figure out dateing is really expensive.

i press the deactivate button every once in a while just because it's there. and to show it whose boss.

Yea, most of the time when this happens I usually think they had a wife or something. Who really knows???????????? I just wish they would quit doing it. It just makes me feel like I'm wasting my time on here, as far as finding a good guy. I have met more women on here than men. And we have all become great friends. Isn't that something??????????? So, now, IF a good man comes along, how will I know, he won't deactivate in a couple of days????????????? You never know anything until it happens I guess.

Sweet

there is always variables when it comes to finding the pick of the litter..

There are always a few bad apples always lurking in the bunch
stay positive and focused the losing streak has to end sooner or later hopefully sooner than later.

some times things happen when you least expect them too.

remain open to the possibilities that not every guy will delete and don't be flustered when he doesn't snuff his account on the 5th email there are some good men left out there the unfortunate thing is they are few and far between.

hey sweeeeeeet.. howdy girl... hey i deactivted a couple times them er youngins.. waz a gettin creepy .. but as they say./
IMmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Backkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

bigbay

Hey Sweet, I had that happen to me the other day. I kind of figured he had something to hide like a wife or gf, so he deactivated to keep from being found out.

i agree with the wife finding out theory! Only, it was probably the wife that deactivated the account! Don't worry, after the divorce and they settle who gets the computer ( you know she will fight for it real hard) he'll be back!

P.S. Never trust any men in sunglasses except Lex!

Awww, Sweet, if they were one of the 'good' ones, you would have their offline email or they would have bothered to let you know they were deactivating and how/where you could find them.

I agree...he is married/in a relationship and has been found out.

Just keep on looking...there is someone out there for you. At least, that is what everyone tells me!

hey Quake.. I just read your profile.. ya frm the city huh????
ride a cow.. hey .. why dont you jump up on one.. then come give us "the tail of my riding a cow" n if you get the cow ridin done..... next comes THe BULL RIDIN>
then ........ you may QUALIFY .. for.......
drum ROLL..........................
ridin a horse

Hey bigbay, Did you know that Quake is a secretserviceman???????????? WOW how about that??

no sweet must be the GLASSES.. huh

Quake, just for the record, I'm not having a losing streak, Please beleive. Don't misunderstand what I write. I simply am trying to get ppl's opinions, that's all. No big deal. All I'm saying about guys deactivating is that why waste both our times. It just makes me not want to talk to any more guys on here. There is definatley not a losing streak when it comes to men. Have plenty of others to date if I choose to. I was just speaking abouy men on this site. OK?? thank you

Wonder what he's hiding from with those shades on??? You know, they say, never trust a man with sunglasses.
I suppose he's harmless. I wonder how he can say what he did, about the good ones being far and few between. Sounds kinda funny coming from a MAN.

OOhhhhhhh

well if all your doing is ranting and whining.............please carry on.

Well one that all should consider anyway is there is a big chance that the one you were o e-mails ect ..... Was not an ADULT but a kid jacking around it does happen.

And that is not just mean lotss of women dot the same thing.



But neve leave the kid theory ot cause it happens all the time.