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Topic: Breakups and Revenge
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Wed 08/26/15 06:23 PM
Revenge Your Ex

Each day hundreds of men and women seek revenge on their ex-mates for a
variety of reasons, usually because they got dumped or where cheated on.
Revenge comes in many ways. It typically starts by using social media to
vent, and then escalates from there. Now sites like "Get Revenge On Your Ex"
for a fee will help you get pay back or revenge.

So what is the best way to get revenge besides slashing her tires, posting
nude photos of her and so on.

The best way according to the web site Right Choices 101 is to live your
life well. This is true no matter who you are seeking revenge on. Coworkers,
past bosses, bad friends or ex-lovers. Put your energy into succeeding and
enjoying your life, not wasting your time, energy and resources on revenge
that can end up costing you much more. Plus, when you seek revenge, you send
them a massage that you have not gotten over the relationship. It's much
better to show you are indifferent and don't care.

According to Kenneth Agee of A Foreign Affair, a service that specializes in
helping men find young beautiful foreign women, "The best revenge is to date
or marry a women 10 years younger than your ex. This will piss her off to no
end. No woman ever wants to be replaced with a younger, more attractive
woman. Just like a man never likes to get replaced by a guy who is wealthier
or more successful.

I will never forget one of my first clients we took to Saint Petersburg,
Russia." says Agee, "The client told me that two days on our tour was better
than two years of therapy. Having hundreds of attractive women fighting over
you gets your ex out of your mind pretty quick.

I personally went through break up when my ex ran off with another man. But
a short time later, I met a new lady who was ten times better. I ran into
that man who stole my ex and I gave him a big thanks. In fact, I could not
thank him enough. He was stuck with an older nagging women, while I was now
with a young, beautiful, caring women. Plus, my ex had gained about 100
pounds. I don't look at that fellow as any kind of enemy but as the person
who saved me from my ex and years of suffering." This is the best a revenge
when you win without lowering yourself.

Other sites like "Get Over Her Now" give practical advice and tips for
getting over a past relationship.

Top Tips from Get Over Her Now:

Start making platonic relationships with as many women as possible, old,
young, skinny, fat, cute or ugly. This greatly helps you get back in the
game of socializing with the opposite sex. And it opens up lots
opportunities to meet their cute attractive friends in a more relaxed
environment. This also helps you build your game and confidence.

Improve yourself, start working out, get up early every day and exercise.

Buy new clothes. Dressing better makes you feel better and improves your
confidence.

Focus on work and getting a promotion or raise. Don't let a break up effect
your work negatively. Put that extra effort into work and it will pay off
with a better position and more money. This will also build your confidence
and help attract better quality women.

Any time you are depressed, improving yourself helps greatly. When you feel
depressed, don't sit and watch TV and then sleep-in late. Get out and do
something that will make you feel like you've accomplished something. Take a
class, go hiking, fix something you've been putting off.

Don't start drinking. Drinking will always have a negative impact on your
life. Don't drink while depressed or when you are trying to get over some
one. After all, drinking is for celebrating. So if you are not celebrating
something, don't drink. A quality women is not going to be attracted to
someone who drinks a lot or has a drinking problem.

Don't sleep in; sleeping late increases depression. Get up as early as you
can and go for a walk, take a hike, or go to the Gym. Research shows getting
up early and exercising can eliminate depression. You will have no game be
depressed.

Don't binge eat. If you start gaining weight, you will feel less self-worth
and lose your confidence. Confidence is a quality that women are extremely
attracted to.

Conclusion, the best revenge is when you improve your life so well that she
realizes she made a big mistake. And satisfaction comes when you meet
someone so much better, you are glad the ex is gone. After all, if you are
seeking revenge, how great could she really have been in the first place!

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 08/26/15 06:31 PM
^^^^^^ might be good to give credit to the articles authors...

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Wed 08/26/15 06:42 PM
My personal ones.

1-Success is the best revenge.

2-Then not letting them in your head, it removes all their power over you.
And shows them you can live without them.

3- Being happy. Some people hate it when others are happy... especially if it doesn't involve them

kc0003's photo
Wed 08/26/15 06:53 PM
revenge for the sake of revenge is for the weak.

dreamerana's photo
Wed 08/26/15 07:04 PM
I've never felt the need for revenge.
it's wasted effort.

TMommy's photo
Wed 08/26/15 07:05 PM
yep..better to just move on down the line

that tends to drive em nuts anyhow bigsmile

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 08/26/15 07:08 PM
I personally have had only one bad break up..
Seeking revenge is not something I would ever consider...Just because it didn't work out doesn't mean they are suddenly a horrible person.
In my mind they are still a wonderful person just not with me.

So wish them well and hopefully after time we can at least be pleasant on the low end and on the high end still be friends.


Dodo_David's photo
Wed 08/26/15 07:12 PM
Revenge is not an idea we promote on my planet, but we're not on my planet, are we? :tongue:

justme659's photo
Wed 08/26/15 07:18 PM

revenge for the sake of revenge is for the weak.


Best answer ever.

soufiehere's photo
Wed 08/26/15 07:43 PM
Well, I will tell you.
If they are without me, I assume they are suffering enough.

Goofball73's photo
Wed 08/26/15 07:51 PM
Momma always said....life is like a box of chocolates.....

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Wed 08/26/15 10:57 PM
I don't believe in revenge after a break up or whatever, but my life always gets so much better after the break up....maybe coz I've come across a lot of b I t c h e s in my life drinks:

no1phD's photo
Wed 08/26/15 11:05 PM

Well, I will tell you.
If they are without me, I assume they are suffering enough.
.. ain't that ^^the truth.love

no1phD's photo
Wed 08/26/15 11:07 PM
Revenge is a dish best served cold..
that and along with sushi.. warm sushi yuck..Hmmmm.. however she is allergic to tuna so perhaps if I slide some in her. sushi and don't tell her about it oh I like this game lol

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Wed 08/26/15 11:20 PM
Edited by NorCalSwe on Wed 08/26/15 11:20 PM



Just kidding bigsmile

Rizajune's photo
Wed 08/26/15 11:23 PM
Revenge is a waste of energy. I did this before but nothing good happened. Eventually I moved on after a few months.

NorCalSwe's photo
Wed 08/26/15 11:45 PM

yep..better to just move on down the line

that tends to drive em nuts anyhow bigsmile


I agree with TMommy, the best revenge is to move on and be happy.


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Thu 08/27/15 01:58 AM
I got revenge like that once by accident. An ex phoned me, saying that she was going to come round and I happened to be in bed with a much younger woman. What made it funny was that the ex lost her temper with me about something and the other woman heard the entire phone call and commented to me that she had thought that it was my mother. The ex said that she was just annoyed when she thought that we were having a private phone call but when I told her later that I had another date with that girl I detected a note of sadness in her voice, even though our relationship was over a long time ago and she had chosen to be with someone else. As we were still friends though I told her all about the women that I was now dating.

It wasn't about revenge really and I didn't really want to hurt her. Part of it was about telling her that I was moving on and that other women do actually want me. There were times during our relationship where she made me feel like a fool and she put me into awkward situations sometimes and had a bit of a sadistic sense of humour, so if I got my own back by having a laugh with some floozy at her expense I was just giving her a taste of her own medicine and I hadn't asked her to phone me that morning anyway and if she made an arse of herself, shouting at me with a stranger listening, it was because she just assumed that I wouldn't be with somebody because she thinks that I'm a sad git that can't get a girlfriend.

I did value the friendship with that ex but probably part of it was about showing her what she had thrown away. Apart from the accidental revenge I was really nice to her and I think she was having problems with her new boyfriend at the time. We went out a few times as friends and there were still feelings there, even though I wasn't trying to get her back. One night in a pub she did something a bit inappropriate when she was a bit tipsy and I reminded her about it on her birthday and made some comment about how she would fail the Jeremy Kyle lie detector test.

None of this was about setting traps for her and I wasn't planning revenge in any way. I just kind of got it because I had to put up with a lot of BS from her when we were together and when you're just friends you can then call them on it.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 08/27/15 02:05 AM
Do you think your ex will really care? They're your ex because they didn't want to be with you anymore. Simple as that.
If you go for revenge, all you do is waste your own life away, increase your own stress levels, ruin your own life and chance for new happiness. Might make you ill, give you an ulcer, while they are moving on and probably enjoy life.
And why shouldn't they? You don't own someone else, so who are you to try and ruin their life?

If you're adamant about ruining your own life because you can't handle disappointment, just jump of a cliff or something. Don't bother someone else with it.

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Thu 08/27/15 02:50 AM
Hmm it all sounds rather immature and if your mind is filled with thoughts of revenge it seems the ex may have been correct in wanting you out of their life.

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