All those men out there can they still be trusted?

Some can be trusted and some can't. And to answer the question if you have to ask if he loves you he probably doesn't. In my experience if someone loves you they'll let you know if they don't they prolly don't love you.
Sorry

I'm trustworthy, the question really is, do you trust somebody you've just met on an online dating site or would you follow through with messages, exchange numbers, eventually visit? etc.

Humm just as far as you can trust women.... Neither can be trusted more then the other..

If there are red flags then pay attention to them don't brush them off...

If your talking about online dating or getting to know someone pay attention. Don't jump in before you get to know them and find out stuff.. If they are not telling the truth it is pretty easy to see the longer you talk to them..

Don't just call or text them or go off a site's e-mail that has full access to e-mail.. Always play it safe..

I believe if a man truly loves you
he will make an effort to make it known


til there is no doubt in your mind

How much doubt should there be?

hahaha well in the beginning ya might come into a new relationship with a few misgivings..a few old cobwebs of past relationships that still linger..



but if he's a good guy
that truly cares
he will understand
and over time

those doubts will fade away

I was thinking he'd wrap it before he tapped it.....what do I know?!

I never knew you were such a romantic..

shhhh...what I meant was

he will buy ya stuff

I understand completely

and what percentage of his spend cash should that stuff consume trish????

He lets you manhandle the remote on
Tuesday nights for an hour.

I think he'll move heaven and earth for you.
He'd go out of his way to check up on you.
He will try to invite you to many places.
He won't make excuses.
He will apologize where necessary.

A whole hour? Now Darl'in that is true love.

He remembers to always put the seat down

He will make you the center of his life. Not his whole life, but definitely the central focus.

I'm not sure how you mean this.

I mean it's kinda vague in context or situation.

"How to know if a man truly love you or not" after being in a relationship with them for 5,10,20 years?

"How to know if a man truly love you or not" after emailing him for 4 months online and he typed that he "love" you in his latest email?

"How to know if a man truly love you or not" after you've been dating a while, a few months, a year, and he starts saying he loves you, how do you trust it?

"How to know if a man truly love you or not" after you've been dating a while, a few months, a year, and he never really says it, but he keeps doing incredibly loving things towards you?

"How to know if a man truly love you or not" if you're FWB and you've started developing feelings, or he seems to act like a BF but not wanting more and you want to know if he wants more?


What kind of answer are you looking for?

Some kind of "if a man 'really' loves you, then his ears turn blue, this is true for all human males at any age," that doesn't exist.

Are you looking for some kind of guarantee? Like you could take him to court and say "ah ha! this here evidence, backed up by forensic science PROVES that you love me absolutely! Now you have to live up to that, by that, and have it define you forever and ever! Ha ha! I win!" that doesn't exist.

Do you want some kind of guarantee like "I have objectively observed this man, and filled out this check list, therefore it doesn't matter what he says or does, I know he loves me," that doesn't exist and can't happen.

If you're looking for some easy means where you don't have to pay attention, learn to communicate, know who they are (maybe because you think the entire relationship is just about getting him to pay attention to and learn who you are) and rely on your own abilities, instead just be handed things, then you are pretty much screwed because you are setting yourself up as bait for "players," who would love to hand you short cuts where you can "know" they are in love with you.

Or are you just looking for some kind of confirmational bias?
Like "men can't be trusted. You never know if they love you. I need to vent about men on the internets because one just hurt me. Now I'll just read the responses that agree with that."


No one can be trusted, and they all can be trusted.
No one is going to put your interests above theirs unless they get something out of it.
People will always communicate the truth through their behavior and indirect communication.
The more you rely on words, and your emotional reactions to their behavior, the easier it's going to be to lie to you, and the more likely that's going to occur.

So, simply

Learn to communicate with one that wants to learn to communicate with you.
Learning to communicate with one in no way means you've learned to communicate with them all.

Definitely not all of them, but there are some good ones left, I'm sure of it.

that^^^^ as long as she doesnt have trust issues,,if so,that bout is gona sink no matter how hard you try...

not sure I trust that answer