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Topic: Women always get the last word...
kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Wed 07/29/15 07:45 PM
pssssst...think he was giving a woman the last word

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24661	Wed 07/29/15 07:49 PM
Haven't read through the thread yet. Just felt an urgency to say, "DUH!"

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Wed 07/29/15 07:50 PM
They always get the last word because they're always talking

IceCreeme Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 219	Wed 07/29/15 07:54 PM
TMommy pssssst...think he was giving a woman the last word

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Wed 07/29/15 07:57 PM
kc0003 . Are you lost for words? LOL YOU kinda look familiar.. well, i am kind of infamous...haha!

wildernessnick59 Joined Mon 06/29/15 Posts: 112	Wed 07/29/15 08:58 PM
I was married twice...so I can tell That's right Dear....yes yes of course you are right once again....used to bug the crap outa me but for safety's sake I kept my mouth shut...

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48929	Wed 07/29/15 09:04 PM
How can a woman have a last word if her words never come to an end?

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Wed 07/29/15 09:51 PM Edited by panchovanilla on Wed 07/29/15 09:52 PM
When I say "I am done" Doesn't matter who is right or who is wrong For that matter anything else on the topic. I am done discussing it because we are just going round and round.. Pancho is pretty much the same way.. He has other words to let me know that he is done... Since most of our conversations end with both of us saying "I love you", Matters not who says it last. We're both right.

NorCalSwe Joined Sun 03/09/14 Posts: 2438	Wed 07/29/15 11:46 PM Edited by NorCalSwe on Wed 07/29/15 11:47 PM
My way of getting the last word, which btw sent my ex through the roof, was to say "I couldn't care less" or maybe it was the sarcastic tone she didn't appreciate. Either way, she was so mad she couldn't talk. Since then, I've learned, even if you don't really care about the subject, if you care about the person, take an interest. Who gets the last word...unimportant...true love is not a contest.

Pansytilly Joined Mon 06/09/14 Posts: 11310	Thu 07/30/15 02:08 AM
...even if you don't really care about the subject, if you care about the person, take an interest. Who gets the last word...unimportant...true love is not a contest. usually depends on the topic, but...this ^^ sounds about right...

red_lace Joined Sat 04/17/10 Posts: 7247	Thu 07/30/15 03:45 AM
..because whatever a man says after is just going to be the beginning of a new argument. :D

NorCalSwe Joined Sun 03/09/14 Posts: 2438	Thu 07/30/15 03:49 AM
..because whatever a man says after is just going to be the beginning of a new argument. :D And what exactly do you mean by that?

red_lace Joined Sat 04/17/10 Posts: 7247	Thu 07/30/15 04:00 AM
..because whatever a man says after is just going to be the beginning of a new argument. :D And what exactly do you mean by that? It's what I usually hear from women friends. If the S.O. doesn't acquiesce and let her have the last word, then whatever he says next will fire her temper some more or something to that effect. Thus, starting the fight all over again. Personally, I just kiss my husband and that'll be the end of things. Haha.

NorCalSwe Joined Sun 03/09/14 Posts: 2438	Thu 07/30/15 04:18 AM
Well, in my experience women don't always get the last word, that's just a ailly stereotype. Also, no one wins an argument in a relationship, you either both finally agree or the argument isn't over, which leads to unresolved issues and trouble.

red_lace Joined Sat 04/17/10 Posts: 7247	Thu 07/30/15 04:29 AM
Of course. In a relationship, it's not a you and me thing anymore.

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Thu 07/30/15 05:21 AM
joethebricky Usually when a woman say's 'whatever' that's my cue to keep my gob shut ^^^ he is house trained... I've never needed training, I was just brought up to respect people, simple really. Besides, if I'm a good dog they sometimes throw me a bone

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Thu 07/30/15 09:28 AM
Since then, I've learned, even if you don't really care about the subject, if you care about the person, take an interest. Who gets the last word...unimportant...true love is not a contest. I so agree with this, when I finally say "I am done" is to the point it doesn't matter we aren't going to agree and the subject matter isn't important enough to continue going around the mulberry bush. I am also a great believer in the word "Compromise" when two people are ready to do that then doesn't matter who has the last word.

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Thu 07/30/15 09:39 AM
if she ain't happy, ain't no one happy so ... yes dear

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Thu 07/30/15 09:41 AM Edited by TMommy on Thu 07/30/15 09:42 AM
no no no that's " if mommy ain't happy" well now what a coincidence there's mommy in my name

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Thu 07/30/15 09:47 AM
How far can we push the yes dear? Has anyone tried? Does it work if we ask for their wallet? More likely get a what ever lol